Gender and Violence and Blame
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I'm saying, the rapist is very likely to kill the victim anyway. So if the rapist goes nuts at the contraption injuring him, and kills the woman, he still gets injured. More importantly, he can also probably be identified by the injury.
If the rape victim has to die, if it were me, I'd feel at least just a little satisfied that I got them back and more. As a side bonus, it also means for that victim that the rapist won't hurt anyone else. When there's nothing else, revenge can be very sweet indeed - it can even be worth dying.
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Maybe there should be separation of the genders, for those who would like to live that way.
Hello,
Shouldn't everyone get to live the way they want to?
--Anthony
Note to Self:
Raptor - woman testifying about birth control is a slut (the term applies.)
Context: http://tinyurl.com/d6ozfej
Six - Wow, isn't Niki quite the CUNT? And, yes, I spell that in all caps....
http://tinyurl.com/bdjgbpe
Wulf - Niki is a stupid fucking bitch who should hurry up and die.
Context: http://tinyurl.com/afve3r9
“The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget.” -T. S. Szasz
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Quote:I don't know of any statistics that show that, in the US anyway.
Originally posted by BYTEMITE:
I'm saying, the rapist is very likely to kill the victim anyway.
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Originally posted by chrisisall:Quote:I don't know of any statistics that show that, in the US anyway.
Originally posted by BYTEMITE:
I'm saying, the rapist is very likely to kill the victim anyway.
Hello,
If everyone who was raped in our country was murdered, there'd be a lot fewer people.
--Anthony
Note to Self:
Raptor - woman testifying about birth control is a slut (the term applies.)
Context: http://tinyurl.com/d6ozfej
Six - Wow, isn't Niki quite the CUNT? And, yes, I spell that in all caps....
http://tinyurl.com/bdjgbpe
Wulf - Niki is a stupid fucking bitch who should hurry up and die.
Context: http://tinyurl.com/afve3r9
“The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget.” -T. S. Szasz
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I didn't say everyone, I said very likely. A lot of rape victims do succumb after the fact. And it's also not uncommon for a rapist to panic after the deed, and then kill the victim to try to eliminate a potential witness.
Look, they're already willing to rape, murder isn't all that far away in that situation. They already don't care about the victim or the victim's body by that point. I'm saying I want to give the victims a chance to really fuck up their attackers, since they're already risking death just by being a rape victim.
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Originally posted by BYTEMITE:
I didn't say everyone, I said very likely. A lot of rape victims do succumb after the fact. And it's also not uncommon for a rapist to panic after the deed, and then kill the victim to try to eliminate a potential witness.
Look, they're already willing to rape, murder isn't all that far away in that situation. They already don't care about the victim or the victim's body by that point.
Hello,
Most rape victims survive in this country. There are multitudes of walking wounded out there. Seas of them. Oceans.
--Anthony
Note to Self:
Raptor - woman testifying about birth control is a slut (the term applies.)
Context: http://tinyurl.com/d6ozfej
Six - Wow, isn't Niki quite the CUNT? And, yes, I spell that in all caps....
http://tinyurl.com/bdjgbpe
Wulf - Niki is a stupid fucking bitch who should hurry up and die.
Context: http://tinyurl.com/afve3r9
“The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget.” -T. S. Szasz
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Originally posted by AnthonyT:Quote:
Originally posted by BYTEMITE:
I didn't say everyone, I said very likely. A lot of rape victims do succumb after the fact. And it's also not uncommon for a rapist to panic after the deed, and then kill the victim to try to eliminate a potential witness.
Look, they're already willing to rape, murder isn't all that far away in that situation. They already don't care about the victim or the victim's body by that point.
Hello,
Most rape victims survive in this country. There are multitudes of walking wounded out there. Seas of them. Oceans.
--Anthony
Note to Self:
Raptor - woman testifying about birth control is a slut (the term applies.)
Context: http://tinyurl.com/d6ozfej
Six - Wow, isn't Niki quite the CUNT? And, yes, I spell that in all caps....
http://tinyurl.com/bdjgbpe
Wulf - Niki is a stupid fucking bitch who should hurry up and die.
Context: http://tinyurl.com/afve3r9
“The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget.” -T. S. Szasz
Understood, Anthony. 10% of 300 million is not most, but it is still 30 million, which is a lot.
In any case, how many of the survivors do you think, if they had the option that night to really hurt their attacker, they would have done it, even if it meant they might die?
Once again, I suspect many of them would.
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"Organic rapes are crimes of passion ..."
That's pretty well debunked. Rapes tend to be about power. Also, some men can't get aroused unless they inflict pain and humiliation, both are intrinsic to sex and can't be separated from it, sometimes even take place instead of it. In parlance, they 'get off' on it in place of sex.
Just to get back to punishment for a bit - FWIW the idea that men get sent to jail and then get back out after while doesn't work either, for the habitual rapist. In general, the best predictor of that behavior in that person is past behavior. I'd think after a second rape conviction, the sentence should be life imprisonment with no possibility of release.
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Originally posted by BYTEMITE:
Understood, Anthony. 10% of 300 million is not most, but it is still 30 million, which is a lot.
In any case, how many of the survivors do you think, if they had the option that night to really hurt their attacker, they would have done it, even if it meant they might die?
Once again, I suspect many of them would.
Hello,
In my experience, you'd do anything to escape, to get away, to get safe. The desire is one to survive and to do so intact if possible.
The desire to die comes later. When it's all over.
And yeah, if you can get safe by killing someone, that's good.
But causing pain in exchange for your life is not likely on your mind when trying to escape such an attack. The pain's only value at that point would be if it helps you get away.
In my experience.
But perhaps once so abused, the mind can be twisted so that revenge is more important than escape. And then maybe the next abuser... maybe you'd be willing to die just to hurt them.
--Anthony
Note to Self:
Raptor - woman testifying about birth control is a slut (the term applies.)
Context: http://tinyurl.com/d6ozfej
Six - Wow, isn't Niki quite the CUNT? And, yes, I spell that in all caps....
http://tinyurl.com/bdjgbpe
Wulf - Niki is a stupid fucking bitch who should hurry up and die.
Context: http://tinyurl.com/afve3r9
“The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget.” -T. S. Szasz
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"Shouldn't everyone get to live the way they want to?"
Was that in opposition or support? Personally, I think if a community of women - or men - who prefer to live together exclusively were to be formed, I think it would be exactly that, everyone getting to live the way they want.
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