Male and Female Imponderables
POSTED BY: Tristan
UPDATED: Tuesday, September 26, 2006 15:29
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Originally posted by Tristan:
Upon meeting a male of "dating age", what is the first thing about them you focus on?
Ummmm... First thing I used to notice, back when I noticed, because of course now I NEVER notice men other than the one I'm married to, was... Thighs.
Yup, thighs are good!!
I've always had a weakness for a well defined chest (which makes me feel really shallow as I'm not 100% buff myself!). Strangely the male arse, that my friends all rave about, usually leaves me cold. As opposed to a well crafted female rear, which is truely a work of art!
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Originally posted by Tristan:
Had to start a thread after spending some time in the "A moment of cattiness et.al"
you are very brave sir, going into that den of feminestas...i steered well away from that one.....
and while i am not nearly as confused by the opposite sex as i was some (mumble, mumble) years ago... the odd question does arise.... i've always wondered why some women prefer a life more akin to a day time soap opera than a stable, loving homelife....
is it the bad boy thing...? cause when i'm bad, i'm very bad...and when i'm good....well...i haven't been kicked out of bed for eating crackers, if you get my drift.....
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Grizwald, I am a male that knows his limitations 
. There are a number of things I "know" about my wife, and many things I understand about females in general (yeah, right, try and convince myself of THAT one!), but I am a willing student of female wiles, and a semi-expert at male wiles.
The flirting thing has always had me intrigued. I am (or was...well, maybe still am) a flirt, and I love the concept of openly flirting (my wife is the same way, neither one of us is jealous of the other at all...weird, long story only if you are interested), even if it never leads anywhere. I prefer "classy" flirting as opposed to "here's my room key" type of thing.
And I always notice eyes...not necessarily color, but eye contact.
Holding until you get back, Captain.
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Dayve
I wish I could answer your question! I didn't want a bad boy, I wanted the stable home life and look what I got! But that is a long story. I think that some women equate nice and stable with boring which is not true.
Like I said, I like Happy (they don't have to run around smiling like an idiot - I guess I mean optimistic), intelligent, confident people who are kind and that have a fun and playful sense of humor.
(Being in a fantastic cult phenomenom wouldn't hurt either
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I was the only female in my family (other than the ones that married in) for a couple of generations. I spent all my time with males and they flirted with me. It is just the way I learned to relate to them.
It has its ups and downs, I am often dismissed as being not intelligent, but those ones soon learn 
The pro is I generally can get things done faster. (course woman hate me)
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Dayve, yeah, it was kinda scary at first...I was afraid to say the wrong thing or have my thoughts misconstrued and end up with a virtual beating, but it turned out alright. One thing being a male; I try to think through what I am going to say before blurting it out when females are involved. I have Neanderthal-like qualities at times, as most males do, but I prefer to act like a more enlightened individual. I find I make more friends that way 
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Holding until you get back, Captain.
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Originally posted by Grizwald:
Ummmm... First thing I used to notice, back when I noticed, because of course now I NEVER notice men other than the one I'm married to, was... Thighs. And it still would be, if I still noticed. Which I don't. (Which is why I also don't watch Viggo Mortensen's dismounts from his horse in Hidalgo over and over and over again. And again.)
Or why I don't watch Mal very closely when he walks ( stalks?) around in his tight pants and I love where his gun ties to his leg."You hold. Hold 'til I get back." Mal
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This day just keeps gettin better and better. I'm trying to concentrate on work here... And then FollowMal starts in about Nathan's thighs... ork.
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no, i get that... about the boring part...'the candle that burns brightest, burns shortest...' deal, but after several years of marriage, (with the right person).. i can say that our time together is never dull, we still talk about things that are important to us...hell, we still talk..! which is more than i can say for some couples we know.... but i have seen more than a few women (girls actually) risk everything just to be with the biggest jerk in the world... jerk to me...joe mcCool to them i guess... and it always ends tragically....kids left without a dad... an uneducated and disinterested mom and all the soap operas in the world can't match that sadness....
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Okay, I have a question mainly for the women, but Tristan seems to know his stuff so I wouldn't be surprised if he has an answer. I have heard that women with small breasts have more sensitive nipples. How true is this? My wife is very well endowed and hers seem very sensitive. What do you all have to say?
Simon: What if he(Mal) tells you to kill me.
Zoe: (without hesitation) I kill you.
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