Male and Female Imponderables--Yet Again
POSTED BY: Tristan
UPDATED: Thursday, June 15, 2006 20:08
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Man, once again, I take a couple days away from the computer and I'm all behind on the Impondering :P
Bypassing the topics I missed and on to the current one: Well, here's one guy who enjoys giving some occasional oral pleasure. Though I must admit I'm not always terribly successful. I generally reserve it for when I "cross the finish line" ahead of her, etc :p
It's one of those things where especially early on in the relationship, she almost has to talk me through it. I swear sometimes it's like cracking a safe with you women :) Also, uhm... I seem to be more adept with my hands? (Sorry if that's too much info :)
Anyways, maybe it's just me, but if I'm with someone I'm really into, I very much enjoy anything I can do to satisfy my significant other. I love that part of a blooming relationship where you're learning each other's turn-ons, and what buttons to push.
Plus, I figure one good turn deserves another, after all. (And it is, of course, better to recieve than it is to give :)
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You can take my Browncoat when you pry it from my cold, dead fingers. (Or if Kaylee asks me nicely...)
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Continuing with the TMI, (maybe) I really, really don't enjoy hands as much as tongues. I'm very delicate in that area, and no matter how careful someone is, it tends to hurt when they go after me with their hands. Hence why I enjoy oral more; you can't get more gentle than a tongue! In terms of success... Well, anything happening in that area before full arousal is not going to bring instant success. Again I know I'm unusual in this, but once I am arroused, it really doesn't take that much.
A tip, though; there are books that can be read on the subject of technique 
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Emma
I will be 42 in July (boo hoo boo hoo boo hoo) How bout I pop on a plane and come over there and share some Uni boys with you.
Well - I would, except that whole "circumcism" thing puts me right off! Oh hell, beggars can't be choossers! I'll be right over!
I am on The List. We are The Forsaken and we aim to burn!
"We don't fear the reaper"
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Oh FMF, please tell me you did not just bring up circumcision. I could rant for hours about that. Instead, I'm just going to refer you to http://www.mothersagainstcirc.org/
Basically, it is a barbaric practice with no value. Actually, there are many reasons against it. Just read it; you'll understand.
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Morning, all!
Oral sex...I am a big fan! Not so much on the receiving end, although I do like it every now and then. I enjoy giving, and giving, and giving...sorry. See, I minored in oral sex in college 
. If left alone, I could spend a long time down there. Hopefully, this won't get too raunchy for this early in the morning, but I love the taste, texture, and velvety softness of "woman parts". I am also quite open to having a woman tell me what is working and what isn't, but I also enjoy exploring and discovering all the little spots by myself. I'm inquisitive that way. Not sure if I am alone in this, but I can get fully arroused in just performing...I don't even have to be touched...although mutual touching is nice during all that.
Hmm. What a way to start the morning conversation off...I'll be in my bunk!
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As a mother of 2 boys and as the friend of someone who had penile cancer I will say only POPPYCOCK.
My boys are circumcised. My brothers are circumcised. My father is not. He has has innumerable problems over the years.
Circumcism like anything else that has to do with the body is a choice and I am all for choice. But I have to say that an uncircumcised penis is a turn off for me.
I am on The List. We are The Forsaken and we aim to burn!
"We don't fear the reaper"
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It is SOOO nice to here a man being that enthusiastic about the subject. I'll try to be less paranoid in future!
Oh and FMF, I'd love to go on the prowl with you! Just give me a call next time you're on my continent!
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Oh, God Tristan, where are the men like you?
It's not poppycock, FMF. Of course you have to take care of yourself or there are going to be problems, but there are just as many problems related to circumcision as there are to actually leaving the poor men intact. And if you're going to go into choice... Well, male babies aren't really given a choice are they? If needed, it can be done later in life. Maybe with some pain killers rather than just slicing it off like it's nothing.
Ok, it looks a little strange if you aren't used to it, but I don't think it would turn me off. I'd like to see what the difference was.
I'm not sure why there's not much literature, conversation, etc about taking care of the foreskin as there is about taking care of the female parts. Just as we should take care of ours, they should take care of theirs. Cleaning and such is obviously important. But cancer is not a given. I'm serious, read everything on that site before you judge. I used to think it was obviously something that should be done before I found out it was originally pitched as a "cure for masturbation". Honestly, how ridiculous can you get? I think we should hear from some of our UK pals about it, too.
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Emma, enthusiasm is half the fun! Some males just enjoy sexual contact with their man parts and that's all they enjoy...it's our one major erogenous zone. Females have several more than we do...I like finding them all 
. Besides that, my sexual strength does not lie in the actual coupling...I'm really not all that good in that area. Oh, it works, my partner usually enjoys it, and I rarely fail to acheive orgasm, but it's not my strong area.
FMF..."Poopycock"....circumcision...sorry, that's funny! 
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My friends in the UK were unable to get the boys circumcised at birth. The Dr refused - so they had a rabbi do it when the boy was 5! Now THAT is barbaric. I was in the room when they circumcised my son and several others (long story - don't ask). I am all for it - from and aesthetic and cleanliness viewpoint - but it should be done at birth not at 5 or 13 or whatever stupid age people do it.
I am on The List. We are The Forsaken and we aim to burn!
"We don't fear the reaper"
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