Male and Female Imponderables--Yet Again
POSTED BY: Tristan
UPDATED: Thursday, June 15, 2006 20:08
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Porn...well, I also hate the staged porn with plastic-looking participants. Give me the real stuff over that anyday. It may be a strange thing for a male to say, but I am also a big fan of the "artistic" type of nude photography...there are times when I like something left to the imagination. Then again, there are the ocassional times when I really enjoy the hardcore stuff, too...guess it depends on the mood. Kinda like the long, slow love-making versus the "right here, right now!" kind.
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Wow. It's interesting to see how these threads start to branch out.
Oral sex- like to get it, love to give it. This is always a must. I would have to say that this takes up most of our intimate time. If done right, it can last quite long without causing pain or irritation.
Circumcision(SP)- I am. Don't no anyone who isn't. I can't imagine the extra 75% of sensation. How can they last?
Lubrication- My wife has never had to use anything extra. She seems to do just fine.
Multiples- I think it is quite easy from the male perspective to give a girl multiples.
Simon: What if he(Mal) tells you to kill me?
Zoe: (without hesitation) I kill you.
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Tristan- are you sure that you don't have a twin? Because I am prety sure my husband is your twin. I swear you sound just like him most of the time:) Mind you after reading your profile, you could also sort of be mine...at least educationally ( se my profile if you're confused) I agree about the plastic porn though...there is some good amature stuff. As for artistic nudes you should see the lovely pics my husband has framed in his office.
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Originally posted by lysander:
Multiples- I think it is quite easy from the male perspective to give a girl multiples.
Really? Is this based on personal experience? Because Cosmo says, what was it... 1/3 of the woman out there are multiple-ers, something ain't adding up here. (Oh no - back to the math!)
So, is it the partner's technique or the woman's ability? Anyone?
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msg, well, hello, twin! Yes, it does seem we are quite similar education-wise. Shiny! I would love to discuss the Crusades with you!
Lysander, welcome back! I know you have been back a day or two, but I missed the chance to say hello then...so, "hello!"
Mal4Prez...I think it is a combination of both. I have had lovers that could multiple one day and have nothing the next. It's important that both parties are whole-heartedly into what they are doing...going quickly through the motions won't cut it, IMO.
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OK now I am just depressed.
I can have multiples and I mean like maybe 5 - IF I do it myself.
In the last few years that is the only way I have had them. I am not even sure that I would have one now with a person!
I think I will go kill myself now.
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Originally posted by Tristan:
Mal4Prez...I think it is a combination of both. I have had lovers that could multiple one day and have nothing the next. It's important that both parties are whole-heartedly into what they are doing...going quickly through the motions won't cut it, IMO.
*sigh* Just another reason I need an SO to experiment with.
FMF - I'll go with you, we'll leave a note: Not enough multiple organisms, life isn't worth it anymore...

But at least you can by yourself! I have never!!
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No need to kill yourself! The situations I see here are not (for the most part) the norm! I have had a number of lovers (don't really want to give the number), and in almost every coupling, we have both left with one, maybe two, orgasms each. There have been times (more than I really like to count) that one of us has left the coupling not having any. My ex-wife had never had an orgasm in her life. Ever. and she was 29 when I married her. I tried. I tried everything, and no dice. She still enjoyed sex, just never really had an ending for her.
So, not everyone can have multiples. And hey, 5 by yourself is not bad...I can only usually do 1...then I have to find something else to do for awhile
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I would agree with Tristan and say that it is a combination of both things. But, I can say that I've had lots of experience in helping my partner reach multiples whether she was in the mood or not. Granted, it does not happen all the time, but when it does, it's really good.
On the topic of porn, I think the real unscripted stuff is good. Something about the whole experience being real makes it more interesting. I also think there can be a time and place for the hardcore stuff too.
Simon: What if he(Mal) tells you to kill me?
Zoe: (without hesitation) I kill you.
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