Male and Female Imponderables Part IV
POSTED BY: Tristan
UPDATED: Monday, May 22, 2006 13:18
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My previous post got me thinking. Cuddling, according to rumor its a girlthing, while men prefer to skip it. Being a male myself I love to cuddle, whats peoples take on cuddling? Am I just a girly man 
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Um... I actually do fall asleep right afterwards. In fact, I once had sex with my (now ex) boyfriend because I couldn't sleep and I had an exam the next day. It worked too!
That's not why he's my ex though. Honest.
It's about the only thing I have in common with Zoe, not being able to kill a man with my pinkie or keep quiet for more than two seconds or anything. Maybe I should learn to shoot or something? It doesn't quite fit the hippie image somehow...
Desktop Hippie: at one with the 'verse
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Good morning, all!
I'll try to answer as quickly as I can to get caught up...
Jewelry on men: I wear a wedding band every day. I used to have my ear pierced, and every now and then put it back in, but not everyday. That's about it. I think too much jewelry on either sex is, well, too much. I'm not looking at how much metal and precious stones you can tote...that does not impress me at all.
Piercings on women can be sexy if tasteful. Personally, I am not a fan of nipple, belly button, or "other" piercings.
Tongue piercings...I have a hard time understanding what they are saying...I am distracted by the fact there is something through their tongue.
Moans...oh, yes, I LIKE the moans...
I am also a cuddler most of the time. And yes, I am usually sleepy afterwards. It is nice to fall asleep spooning or totally entangled.
I think I am caught up now!
I am sure I will think of something soon...
Holding until you get back, Captain.
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Originally posted by copilot:
Thanks Dayve.
you're welcome Copilot... i'm sorry i winked out last night, but i did doze off at the keyboard... but i'm back with a cup of java and ready to ponder the imponderables like a low down, dirty imponderable..... person...
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Woo-hoo! So much fun stuff to reply to!
Cuddling: love it love it love it! I'm glad to hear you fellas like it, because the stereotype of men doing it only because SHE wants to annoys the hell out of me. Cuddling is sooo nice.
vocals: never done it much, but can see the good of it. Communication, in whatever form, can only help. I'm with Phoenixrose though, can't talk dirty w/o giggling and ruining it.
Go copilot! So glad it worked out.
NVghostrider - I hear you about the love thing. It's been awhile for me too, because I decided that having sex with men I don't love was ruining the whole thing for me. So I'm gonna be patient till it's right, and then I know it'll be really really right.
It's working well actually, taking time off from intimacy, letting me figure out a lot of things, lke the things we're talking about here!
Jewelry on men: whatever. Like anything, it depends on the man. I once had a fierce crush on a really talented puck rocker who wore a sparkly shirt and had runny eyeliner (in a very hetero way). Sigh.
Where's that WorshipMal??
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Hey EmmaRigby,
Just spotted the earlier post...
"I was once asked to talk dirty to someone and I got all tongue-tied. All I could think of was toilet ducks and hoovering!..."
ROFL - Coffee spurts out of nose
Pony
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Originally posted by mal4prez:
vocals: never done it much, but can see the good of it. Communication, in whatever form, can only help.
ok, so i have another little story to relate here... i'll try to keep it short....
Once, when i was living in Austin in an old neighborhood with a lot of college students, there was this one young lady who really liked her sex.. she was particularly fond of the afternoon delight form....so every day around 3pm, usually with a group of us guys sitting around on my porch, we were privileged to hear the act in progress. Actually we really couldn't avoid it, because of the volume of her passion. This was the stuff of legend. The woman had some lungs...and stamina... and in the extreme throes of ecstasy she could hit some perfect high notes...quite lovely, really.
So one day a couple of us were talking to her extremely lucky boyfriend and we just asked him about the noise during lovemaking thing... he turned to me and said, no lie.. "I'm sorry, could you please speak up... I'm a little hard of hearing...."
rock on
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Now I'm behind!
Here we go then...
Jewellery on men, I'm not really that into it although I item can be alright.
Cuddling, not really my thing but then I have a circulatory disorder and can't really keep still for long without it being painful. It also mean my hands and feet are usually the equivalent temperature to sticking them in a freezer for 30mins. Not conducive to nice cuddles. A guy fell asleep on my arm once and it was really painful.
I think I'm too self conscious to talk dirty.
As a side note... this thread is huge now! On its fourth part in fact, I'm amazed. Also, yay for being mostly troll free!
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Agree with the tastefull piercings comment Tristan. Had a x who had a tongue piercing and another who had a lip piercing, both were actually very well done and nice. Ive had some pincushinlike friends however who had way to much metal ruining their appearences.
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Cuddling is my favorite thing in the entire 'verse. But I do tend to cuddle with everyone. That's just me I like body contact.
After satifying sex though I just roll over and fall alseep. Yep I can be very male about that one. well aparently not like males in this chat.
Anyone else ever had the experience of while you are enjoying yourself you laugh histarically during and after sex? I used to to do this and it unnerved some people.
If I'm going to talk dirty I have to be very comfortable with the person. For a while last year I actually needed it just to achieve orgasm. Although significant other kind of started mocking me for it at random times so I stopped and we havn't had very good experiences since then. Maybe because I'm afraid to let go.
An I carried such a torch
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