Male and Female Imponderables Part IV
POSTED BY: Tristan
UPDATED: Monday, May 22, 2006 13:18
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Awwww poor baby! I want to gather you up in a big ol hug right now.
I just don't want to let this go to long and then make it too wierd for us to hang out together. A mistake I've made a few times. Trying to spare a person feeling so much that they get the wrong idea.
An I carried such a torch
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Thanks, always appriciate hugs. Although I dont feel very bad for past loves lost. Seems like you have the right idea with letting them down pretty quickly instead of letting it dredge along to long (that one should have made my list aswell). Good Luck to you though, Hope it goes well.
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Thanks! I hope it all works out.
Edit-It did! He totally understood and was cool about it. I get to have my friend and hang with them too. Lucky me!
An I carried such a torch
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Quote:
Originally posted by Dayve:
well, i know a good moan from a bad moan
ok, so i'm not wild about a lot unnecesary vocalization during sex... i do like moans...
Thankyou! I don't feel so alone now! I thought it was just me being horribly inhibited. I was once asked to talk dirty to someone and I got all tongue-tied. All I could think of was toilet ducks and hoovering! I guess I have enough problems relaxing when nakkid without having to try to be clever and articulate as well (maybe I should take lessons from Saffron!)
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I can't talk dirty without laughing. I can talk sexy, sometimes, like if I miss someone and I tell them I'm gonna jump them when I see them or somesuch. But why talk dirty? Esspecially when you're already nekkid? Don't make any kind of sense to me.
Have to say, though, I tend to be pretty "vocal" during sex, it's just nothing coherant. I try not to be too loud, but sometimes I can't help myself.
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Starting June 23rd, we aim to misbehave.
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Quote:
Originally posted by copilot:
He totally understood and was cool about it. I get to have my friend and hang with them too. Lucky me!
Not to insert too pessimistic a note but... feelings don't just go away. Obviously if you were just a passing fancy, you don't have to worry but guys are just as capable of bottling up their feelings as girls.
Wait a while and see if he drops it. If he's gotten over you or if he really values your friendship then he won't show signs of interest. But don't be too disappointed if he's still staring at you with puppy dog eyes.
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First, yeah to Copilot for it working out.
Now, to my main comment. Cant really talk dirty either PhoenixRose, mostly sound silly when if I ever try and when people talk dirty to me I mostly go; You said what now? Not big on the talking during sex thing at alla actually, before and after however I can talk plenty. And on a not soal related note, dont fall asleap after sex, although ive had a girl who did it occasionally (sleepiness is a sign of weakness, ask anybody!)
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I have sometimes had talk during sex, but it's usually been along the lines of "you should really do such-and-such right now" or "Hey, let's try this new position I read about earlier..."
Sleepiness afterward? Mostly it energizes me, actually, but sometimes it can be exhausting. I think it's nice, to just fall asleep in someone's arms, awash in afterglow. But it can also be nice to go out for pizza all rumpled and satisfied. I guess it depends on the time of day.
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Starting June 23rd, we aim to misbehave.
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Im all for falling asleep in my lovers arms, I just dont get sleepy after sex. Usually I like to cuddle and talk for a while afterwards.
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If you fall asleep in someone’s arms make sure that they can move, don’t lie on them lie next to them, its like torture when you need to get out of bed and she's lying on you.
Also copilot, it's nice to see someone thinking about putting someone down nicely most women don’t do that to guys and cripple their self confidence, heck this is about the only place men can talk to women confidently, guess it’s the whole can't see me thing.
edit:--i dont mind cuddling just when you need to get out and cant, its not a girl thing to like cuddling the person you perhaps love.
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