Male and Female Imponderables, the Third
POSTED BY: Tristan
UPDATED: Thursday, May 18, 2006 01:06
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I completly understand and no you arn't a bad person. My second time was with a guy who took the stand that the girl must orgasm before him. So there I was not at all close to orgasm okay wait I think that was the actual first time I ever faked it. So I've faked it three times (oh my). Well anyway I couldn't sit properly for days and that sucked!!!!
An I carried such a torch
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I disagree. I've danced with plenty of people and it's never gone further, but then I've danced with some people who were ready to jump me right there. So basically, it totally depends on the situation and the guy. If the booze is flowing and you are down and dirty to Lil Jon, you may end up getting some. Ballroom dancing? Not so much. Or if it's an underwear party hosted by RuPaul. I swear I was the only mostly straight FEMALE there who wasn't already seeing someone.
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I am on The List. We are The Forsaken and we aim to burn!
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I'm loving this discussion. While I've never gone all out and faked it, I've so been there with the this has been a great time but can you finish so I can sleep now?, and I thought I was a bad person to think that.
But how to handle it without faking or getting sore?
Men - what would you want your lover to do in this situation? Would it crush your manly ego to know she just wants you to finish up? Can it be handled lovingly?
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I'm the president. I don't need to listen.
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Raises hand quietly while sitting in the back row.
And I married him. Going on 18 years now. And it is still a mind-blowing wonderful experience.
And you all thought you were strange. 
There's no place I can be since I found serenity.
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Wow! That's all I can say is Wow!
An I carried such a torch
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Hey where are our shirts?
Don't forget "We don't fear the reaper"
LOL
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Never faked it myself...although some males can, it is usually a given that we are going to have an orgasm...we are a bit easier to reach the end than females (it seems...). I am sure I have been faked on before, but I am not sure...
To answer another question poised, I would rather be told that nothing is going to happen rather than risk straining something, you know?
I am also the type that "the woman must orgasm first"...that is because after I do, I'm usually done...well, my body is. There is "x" amount of time I have to please her before it's over. If it doesn't happen, I am not happy. I apologize if this is "sexist" (hehe) in any way, but I have always been taught "ladies first".
And as a side note, I would hate to find out that a lover had been bored...talk about an ego-killer...
Holding until you get back, Captain.
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Originally posted by EmmaRigby:
Alison Hannigan apparently played that part when the stage version came to the West End.
I would liked to have seen Allison in that part... Willow was my favorite character in BtVS.....
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Well of course the female has to orgasm first if she's ever going to. He had a the female must orgasm mentality.
An I carried such a torch
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Originally posted by Tristan:
I am also the type that "the woman must orgasm first"...that is because after I do, I'm usually done...well, my body is. There is "x" amount of time I have to please her before it's over. If it doesn't happen, I am not happy. I apologize if this is "sexist" (hehe) in any way, but I have always been taught "ladies first".
And as a side note, I would hate to find out that a lover had been bored...talk about an ego-killer...
Most guys I've known actually have taken the "ladies first" approach. Guess that means I've been lucky? But I hear what you're saying Tristan, the thing about being bored is that it doesn't necessarily have anything to do with the person or even the quality of the... encounter. For me anyway sometimes I just pass that point where I'm still into it. Not that it happens all the time... but when it does, faking it just seems like the easiest way for everyone! I've been kind of scared that one time or another I'd get "caught" faking but that doesn't seem to ever happen... I guess in that kind of situation most guys just prefer to be happily ignorant?
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