The Hidey Place of Nice Boys & Girls
POSTED BY: BlackEyedGirl
UPDATED: Friday, December 2, 2005 14:09
VIEWED: 22807
PAGE 9 of 19
Quote:
Originally posted by XeroGravity:
**my brain cells are still regrouping and when they strike, it will be a total takeover. me as emperor, supreme ruler of everything, worship me cuz i win and winner takes all... mine mine mine all mine! i will own the universe and everything in it**
I'll be back. And when I return, I promise you... I will kill all of you with my brain.
Blackeyed Girl you are first enemy on the radar screen.
Rejoin the war... women are whores, men are studs.
This whole kumbayah thing you all have going is selling out the original thread. Gag me with a spoon. Totally not awesome.
XG
Kai is coming back. Never really left (sort of). Unless you count death. Save us Brunnen'G!
With an attitude like that 0G you ain't gettin' laid ever, even if you bring your money. Best go and be a sad little king of a sad, little hill. If you don't like it here, you can leave, and you won't be missed. The trolls might take you if you suck up to them, otherwise save yourself some money on your power bill by turning off your computer and your lights and just hang out in a dark room talking to the guy in the mirror. This thread is about people being nice to each other and right now you're only thinking of yourself. You got nothing we need. Forget the gravity you're just a zero.
To the rest of the thread I apologize for speaking bluntly. I resent rude behavior in a man it cheapens him in the eyes of the world as he does a disservice to himself. I wish no flamewar here. If Blackeyedgirl so desires I will leave the thread.
Scorpion Regent
NOTIFY: N | REPLY | REPLY WITH QUOTE | PERMALINK | TOP | HOME
Quote:
Originally posted by Jadehand:
ScorpionRegent wrote:Quote:
Jadehand: what kingdom were / are you in? For the uninitiated the SCA devides it's separate regions into kingdoms.
...
It's been more than 10 years. I really don't recall the Kingdom name. Whatever it is in NC.
Visit WWW.Marillion.Com for a better way to live
"Dreaming the dream that only the sleepless know."
"Say you understand me, And I will leave myself completely.
Forgive me if I stare, But I can see the island behind your tired, troubled eyes." -Fantastic Place (Marbles) -Marillion
I guess that would be Atlantia. Never been there. What's it like?
Scorpion Regent
NOTIFY: N | REPLY | REPLY WITH QUOTE | PERMALINK | TOP | HOME
Quote:
Originally posted by CallMeSerenity:
[B.
You can't kick yourself for something you did or didn't do when you were 7!! At that age, few of us understand the complex ramifications of our actions. If anything, blame your parents!
Serenity, First Officer of Destiny
I have a live journal: http://www.livejournal.com/users/callmeserenity/
Oh yes I can kick myself for it. I aught to know I have the scars. It was bad choice and it was mine, my parents had nothing to do with it. I don't dodge the bullet when it comes to blame.
Okay maybe you can look and find people, lucky you. It must be just me.
Scorpion Regent
NOTIFY: N | REPLY | REPLY WITH QUOTE | PERMALINK | TOP | HOME
Quote:
I guess that would be Atlantia. Never been there. What's it like?
When I was in it was a bit too political. I joined a group that had a former member In a fairly high position, and he had a grudge against the whole group. Though I joined after, we still had to deal with it. I mostly ignored the politics and hung out with the drinking/dancing/sk'dipping in the lake gypies. They were much more fun anyways. It's where I learned how to prove I was a Pirate by spelling AIR. Ayyyeeee, Eyyyyyyyye, Arrrrrrr.
Visit WWW.Marillion.Com for a better way to live
"Dreaming the dream that only the sleepless know."
"Say you understand me, And I will leave myself completely.
Forgive me if I stare, But I can see the island behind your tired, troubled eyes." -Fantastic Place (Marbles) -Marillion
NOTIFY: Y | REPLY | REPLY WITH QUOTE | PERMALINK | TOP | HOME
Quote:
Originally posted by Jadehand:Quote:
I guess that would be Atlantia. Never been there. What's it like?
When I was in it was a bit too political. I joined a group that had a former member In a fairly high position, and he had a grudge against the whole group. Though I joined after, we still had to deal with it. I mostly ignored the politics and hung out with the drinking/dancing/sk'dipping in the lake gypies. They were much more fun anyways. It's where I learned how to prove I was a Pirate by spelling AIR. Ayyyeeee, Eyyyyyyyye, Arrrrrrr.
Visit WWW.Marillion.Com for a better way to live
"Dreaming the dream that only the sleepless know."
"Say you understand me, And I will leave myself completely.
Forgive me if I stare, But I can see the island behind your tired, troubled eyes." -Fantastic Place (Marbles) -Marillion
Hell there's politics everywhere. Douglas Adams described it really well:
"people are a problem"
Other than that it sounds good. You even had a lake to swim in. We have only one close event with a lake and it's too poluted to touch. Pirates and gypsies make for a lot of fun afterdark.
Scorpion Regent
NOTIFY: N | REPLY | REPLY WITH QUOTE | PERMALINK | TOP | HOME
Can you be a gypsey and a pirate, because how could you choose between the two?
And was anyone around for Talk Like a Pirate Day? Because that was FUN.
Serenity, First Officer of Destiny
I have a live journal: http://www.livejournal.com/users/callmeserenity/
NOTIFY: Y | REPLY | REPLY WITH QUOTE | PERMALINK | TOP | HOME
Reading through these massive threads, for the most part I can’t help but get the feeling that you good people ever seek to stumble into a four leaf clover, still fully expecting to come out of the encounter with a cracked skull.
I’m seeing a rapidly expanding network of impossibilities fueled by mutual lacking of self-esteem. As one racks up yet another imperfect partner so grows the accumulated burden of failures which is dragged into the next relationship dance. At best sometimes the sex is good, at worst, which seems nearly always, folk hate themselves. Thus each succesive dance becomes more difficult than the last. Yikes, what a way to live.
I can’t feel that way, not for long anyway. Call me naive if you want to. If so, that tag’s a fair trade on sadness and depression, so I can take it. I prefer having fun when I dance and, for that matter, when I romance. When it fails, it fails, learn and move on, but why carry the crappy parts with you? They can only have a negative impact on the next person with whom you might want to connect.
Guess all I’m saying is based on that old cliché, tis better to have loved and lost.... Well, you know the rest.
Of course, the above sentiment is rendered hopeless by any relationship that is physically or mentally abusive. I won’t pretend to be able to speak to that.
Where are we hiding? Close as can be. Within ourselves, tied in there by the bonds of our failures. I guess the conjurer within me is able to see failure less as a bond and more as an event, which allows better control over it’s hold on me.
Enough about me. Anachronisms is nice.
***
"You think somebody wouldn't go see somebody if they didn't want entertainment?"
NOTIFY: Y | REPLY | REPLY WITH QUOTE | PERMALINK | TOP | HOME
Hi Cozen. 
Feeling grouchy today?
At least you can do it eloquently!
Welcome!
Serenity, First Officer of Destiny
I have a live journal: http://www.livejournal.com/users/callmeserenity/
NOTIFY: Y | REPLY | REPLY WITH QUOTE | PERMALINK | TOP | HOME
Cozen: You have some really good points there. Emotional baggage is just that: a bunch of stuff weighing a person down. There are those who collect emotional baggage the way others horde material possesions. They keep this stuff fastened around their necks like one would a boat anchor, because it has intense sentimental value. We all have learning expereinces, but they aren't any good if we only dwell on what a drag it was to have and fail to learn the lesson. My father had some advice about the over accumulation of materail things:
"He who owns less, is less owned."
I think that applies to emotinal baggage as well.
It may not be easily done, yet it is possible to wake one morning and say to yourself:
"Today I'll travel light" and leave all that stuff behind and just get yourself a cup of coffee. If you happen to meet someone at the time that's great, otherwise you can atleast smell the coffee. Then again maybe someone will notice you and think:
"There is a person who seems comfortable with themself." Now isn't that an attractive quality?
People these days watch a lot more tv than two three generations ago. The result is they may get to learn things from sitcoms that 40-50 years ago no one would even talk about, but they also have these very unrealistic expectations. In tv land no one has bad hair day unless it's essential to the plot. If a person is grouchy they are always grouchy, not becuse they are having a headache. In real life these things happen all the time, and they are not part of some great space alien conspiracy. In tv land everyone is physically attractive and if they aren't then they are in small minority. It seems almost a given that a lot of people programed by tv will have self esteem issues.
Maybe this is why so many teenage girls automatically start hating themselves the moment they hit puberty. How are they ever going to measure up to the latest supermodel?
To the thread: bear in mind that I'm speaking in a general sense. If you have realistic expectations, no self esteem issues and no emotional baggage then you should have no reason to be insecure and take offence, because then I wouldn't be talking about you then would I? If you are quick to rush to your own defence, bite your tongue for a minute and look in the mirror and then close your eyes and really look inside yourself.
Scorpion Regent
NOTIFY: N | REPLY | REPLY WITH QUOTE | PERMALINK | TOP | HOME
Quote:
Originally posted by cozen:
Guess all I’m saying is based on that old cliché, tis better to have loved and lost.... Well, you know the rest.
Up until a few days ago I would have argued this age old point with you until I expired from lack of oxygen. As far as I was concerned it was far better to have never loved at all...only now am I starting to reconsider that. I've somehow managed to fit months of healing into a day or two. I won't question it (against my nature) but just accept it instead. Now, to keep it from slipping away in short order as it usually does. Wish me luck ;D
Good post, cozen. You definitely nailed many of the things I've let get the better of me.
---
inch towards daylight
NOTIFY: N | REPLY | REPLY WITH QUOTE | PERMALINK | TOP | HOME