warning! venting, pissing and moaning about my mother

POSTED BY: boris
UPDATED: Wednesday, May 18, 2011 00:29
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BORIS

Saturday, May 14, 2011 11:52 AM

My Mother is an uberpossessed insanely unbalanced twisted banshee spawned from the darkest murkiest depths of hell !!!!!!.... She really is unbearably insane and getting worse now that I have finnished studying and have to spend more hours dealing with her lunatic rantings. I need to get a fulltime job and move far far away. Eventually take a leaf out of my brother's book and move to the other side of the planet to get away from her when I can Afford it. Don't know what I was thinking moving back in even if it did mean I could go back to full time study. she's so mental at the moment it's alternatively making me laugh and hurting my head. Like today she conveniently forgot that I told her twice I was hanging out with a particular friend and then blasted me when I got home saying I'd never told her my plans and that she doesn't approve of the friendship coz he's a....MAN...who has a girlfriend and therefore has me around as a "commodity" whatever the hell that means in her screwed up mishmash of a mind...I'm 41 for chrissakes!!!!! And half my friends are males!!!! AAAGHHHHHHH!!!!!

I just needed to express all that somewhere where It wouldn't come back to bite me in the Ass.

Rose S

BYTEMITE

Saturday, May 14, 2011 2:53 PM

In other words, any offspring's natural reaction to exposure to their parents after puberty, exacerbated by period of exposure.

When parricide starts becoming an attractive option, that's just nature's way of telling you it's time to find your own territory.

Good luck in your migration.

PIRATENEWS

Saturday, May 14, 2011 5:37 PM

What you need is a Man, not a mommy.

WHOZIT

Saturday, May 14, 2011 7:49 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by boris:
My Mother is an uberpossessed insanely unbalanced twisted banshee spawned from the darkest murkiest depths of hell !!!!!!.... She really is unbearably insane and getting worse now that I have finnished studying and have to spend more hours dealing with her lunatic rantings. I need to get a fulltime job and move far far away. Eventually take a leaf out of my brother's book and move to the other side of the planet to get away from her when I can Afford it. Don't know what I was thinking moving back in even if it did mean I could go back to full time study. she's so mental at the moment it's alternatively making me laugh and hurting my head. Like today she conveniently forgot that I told her twice I was hanging out with a particular friend and then blasted me when I got home saying I'd never told her my plans and that she doesn't approve of the friendship coz he's a....MAN...who has a girlfriend and therefore has me around as a "commodity" whatever the hell that means in her screwed up mishmash of a mind...I'm 41 for chrissakes!!!!! And half my friends are males!!!! AAAGHHHHHHH!!!!!

I just needed to express all that somewhere where It wouldn't come back to bite me in the Ass.

Rose S

How do we know that maybe your mother is normal and YOU'RE the loonatic?

PHOENIXROSE

Saturday, May 14, 2011 9:18 PM

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Originally posted by Bytemite:
In other words, any offspring's natural reaction to exposure to their parents after puberty, exacerbated by period of exposure.

I don't know about that. My mom has rarely gotten on my nerves, and never to this extent. I also live at home for the benefit of full-time study, and it's mostly fine. Not getting along with parents does seem to be the main reason people move away from home, though.

What reason had proved best ceased to look absurd to the eye, which shows how idle it is to think anything ridiculous except what is wrong.

BORIS

Saturday, May 14, 2011 10:14 PM

I first left home when I was 18 to get away from my mother and whozit she IS insane and I'm not the only one who thinks so. I moved back when I was 36. I thought it would be okay as i had matured and our relationship was stable...ish. Now she's at me all the time about everything. She has alienated most of her friends. My brother wants to come visit from the UK but doesent want to stay here because of her outbursts and the effect they have on his wife and daughter and is terrified of her reaction when he tells her. she says very bizzarre and unnerving things infront of people and has become less guarded or aware of who she's saying things to we are used to her rantings but they still affect us. I've had her remaining friends call me and ask if they can help or how my dad and I are doing. I've tried to get her to seek care but she is in denial. I am going to leave soon but I worry about my poor father who will then be dealing with her on his own. At least with me here he gets some relief.

Rose S

WISHIMAY

Saturday, May 14, 2011 11:14 PM

With normal people, I would say be directand go to a relaxed public setting, thank her for what she has done for you so that you can study, but be firm about boundaries and ask he to please stop certain behaviors that are pushing you over the edge, but I say that with the firm knowledge If I were honest and direct with my own mother she would just clain "victim status" and turn it into a "you never do THIS, you never do THAT" weepy catfight...

I say...redouble your efforts to leave...as sooon as possible...IT'S THE ONLY WAY! That... and a short push offa long cliff

BORIS

Sunday, May 15, 2011 2:46 AM

ah Wishy...you know that of which i am experiencing. She can't be reasoned with as she's completely manic and in one of her "I'm psychic and know that everyone is out to get us" cycles. I have started packing and downsizing subtly and have applied for work far far away. If only I could take the old man with me.

Rose S

CLANCYDOG

Sunday, May 15, 2011 4:05 AM

Is it the PAX?

PIRATENEWS

Sunday, May 15, 2011 5:13 AM

Buy a tent and move out to the back yard. Or a camping trailer.

Or smoke a lot of dope.

Or slip St Johns Wort in her dinner. Or ludes.

Or start wearing a gun.

Dr. Swift's Cure for Hysteria
www.explorehistoricalif.com/hysteria.html

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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_hysteria

Patent still pending
http://coilhouse.net/2008/04/speaking-of-steampunk-masturbatory-device
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