Male and Female Imponderables - Sex and Violins (Stolen from Martin Mull)
POSTED BY: JonnyQuest
UPDATED: Thursday, November 9, 2006 04:36
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Cybersex isn't all that bad but not as good as the real thing of course. I'm not even going to pretend to blush over this.
My first love was Steve. We saw each other every summer and our summer romance lasted for years. Still think about him to this day.
"Well, my days of not taking you seriously are certainly coming to a middle." http://whimsicalnbrainpan.blogspot.com/
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Double the post, double the pleasure!
"Well, my days of not taking you seriously are certainly coming to a middle." http://whimsicalnbrainpan.blogspot.com/
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That's what's so nice about imponderables. You're free to ponder or not. You can just enjoy others:)
Tristan- I'd say that counts:)
Whimsical- Ok now I want to break into a chorus of "Summer Days/Summer Nights"
I choose to rise instead of fall- U2
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In terms of "first love" are we referring to crush or liking or being "in" love? I was rather young when I started noticing girls - at an age where to little boys girls are "icky" and to girls all boys have cooties. I have a theory as to why I took interest at such a young age, but I won't be getting into that. I believe it was in 2nd grade when I noticed this girl with auburn hair, green eyes and freckles on her face. I thought she was cute but she never seemed to notice me. I haven't been able to forget this one because when I told my mom about her I mis-pronounced 'auburn' and said it as 'aw-born'. Hey, I was just a kid! My family gave me (and still does) a lot of slack over that one. "Remember the girl with 'aw-born' hair?" 
Moving on to first crush, that would be in Jr. High and again a girl who never bothered to notice me. I later found out she was kinda snobbish so it's probably best I never let her know how I felt. In high school there was another girl that was short, brunette and very adorable. She was a friend (or so I thought) and I even tried to ask her to Homecoming one year (senior) - only to find out she already had a date. 
In college there were a few girls I liked and everytime I let them know it - I didn't just come out and say it, I hesitated and showed little signs here and there, eventually I gained enough confidence to let them know I liked them - they all freaked. That's right - each of them said "I only see you as a friend" and each time that would be the last I hear of them. Obviously, I've never had much luck with the ladies. I'm told often that I just haven't met the right girl or there's someone out there for me and I'm bound to meet them. I hope they're right but it's hard to see otherwise based on my history. This is not a "poor me" post or an attempt to seek sympathy, just telling how it's been for me...so far anyway. 
Separated at birth?
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The newly crowned Court Jester of the Mythical Land that is Iowa! Woohoo!!
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McQ- as a woman my only suggestions would be stop choosing unavailable women. I know a few guys with your track record. I hope this doesn't seem rude and if it doesn't apply to you then feel free to ignore it, but all these guys have one thing in common. They go for women with an air of unapproachable/unavailable. They just really pick girls they are pretty sure will turn them down or who are just really bitchy.
The other suggestion is go right up the first second you see a girl you think looks fun and nice and be really direct and confident. Even if it doesn't get you the woman you ask out, others will notice your confident attitude and that tends to attract. Just suggestions though so feel free to tell me to buzz off or ignore me completely!!!! HUGS
I choose to rise instead of fall- U2
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I appreciate the advice, but these girls usually aren't already spoken for - if they are, I don't know about it at the time. I don't go for girls whom I know are unavailable, because really, what's the point of that? A lot of girls just don't see me as anything beyond friends. Nothing wrong with being friends but I'd like to have something more than that, you know? I mean I hear how sweet, kind, nice, funny - all the good things - I am but I'm only a friend. Just doesn't make sense to me is all.
Separated at birth?
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The newly crowned Court Jester of the Mythical Land that is Iowa! Woohoo!!
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Well maybe you should be rude, crass and egotistical
You know the typical "Bad Boy". THat seems to be what most women look for in a guy for a while in their lives before sweet, kind, nice and funny are important.
You women are a pain sometimes!
Kelkhil
The Shirtless Forsaken
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Quote:It's the boobs. They make us cranky.
You women are a pain sometimes!
~CK
You can't take the sky from me...
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Apparently you just need to change how they see you. I can say that I've had a few guys change my mind about the "just friends" thing with a really decent move. One in particular springs to mind. Just goofing around flag football ended up flat on my back being kissed senseless...definitely a great kisser and I stopped seeing him as a friend right that second
However, by unavailable I didn't mean taken. I meant the vibe girls give off that says " I am too good for you. You don't have a chance" or the other vibe the " If you aren't some combination of Tom Cruise and Brad Pitt then don't bother" In your case though it sounds like you've fallen in the "buddy pit" and you need to shake them up and make them see you differently...I'm guessing you're their shoulder to cry on/always there for them guy...You could try being less there for them or just wait for the one who actually appreciates the kind of guy you are and since you're not exactly ancient or anything, you've plenty of time for that!!!
I choose to rise instead of fall- U2
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Quote:
Originally posted by CaliforniaKaylee:
It's the boobs. They make us cranky.
Well If you would let us hold them from time to time it would help with the weight thing!
Kelkhil
The Shirtless Forsaken
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