I bet this wouldn't have happened if she was wearking a burkah...

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BYTEMITE

Thursday, June 12, 2014 8:25 PM

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Originally posted by Wishimay:
better when you drink, hon.

That's unscientific. Women who take drugs to improve their "relations" tend to take STIMULANT drugs. Because STIMULANTS. Increases the sensations. Alcohol is a DEPRESSANT, it's like putting a haze over everything.

I knew a guy on a messageboard with a intersexed girlfriend, and they took meth as their primary enhancement. Granted, he was an idiot, but still, what you're saying doesn't actually make sense - the intensity of the climax is directly related to the tension that exists beforehand. As a woman you don't WANT it relaxed.

A guy on the other hand might actually want to drink because anxiety redirects the blood elsewhere among other issues. But it would also dull their excitement in the end.

I'm again suspecting a generation gap may be at work here. That or race.

THGRRI

Thursday, June 12, 2014 8:26 PM

Agreed. Yes,determined by consensus.

si shen

AGENTROUKA

Thursday, June 12, 2014 9:07 PM

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Originally posted by JEWELSTAITEFAN:
Tell me how many women you know do not drink to get "in the mood?" Really? Nobody? Less than half?

A lot? Most of them? Where do you get these ideas?

The women I know and have known primarily drink in the company of other women, actually. And not to get in the mood for same-sex relations, either. Then there's the glass of wine for dinner, the occasional unwinding beer after work or on a summer weekend afternoon. They drink to enjoy the buzz.

I'd say very few women drink to "get in the mood". They might combine social drinking and looking for casual sex in a certain setting, and a couple having a fun evening might enjoy some alcohol to enhance the mood but I can honestly not think of a case where a woman I know went for alcohol specifically TO have sex.

And I can't imagine why they would, unless it was to suppress serious discomfort with the idea.

Especially since I agree both with Wish and Byte.

A little alcohol can enhance sex because it dulls distracting thoughts (money, job, kids, illness, any stress) but a lot of alcohol actually makes it less great because it dulls sensation, coordination and just makes you sleepy rather than energetic.

WISHIMAY

Thursday, June 12, 2014 9:19 PM

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Originally posted by BYTEMITE:

That's unscientific. Women who take drugs to improve their "relations" tend to take STIMULANT drugs. Because STIMULANTS. Increases the sensations. Alcohol is a DEPRESSANT, it's like putting a haze over everything.

Stimulants don't increase sensation, they increase blood flow. I feel LESS when I'm hyper, kinda like getting a cut you don't notice 'till later. Going slower increases sensation during sex because your brain has more time to process and react. Stimulants just get you there faster, not necessarily BETTER... But, maybe some people like that.

THGRRI

Thursday, June 12, 2014 9:25 PM

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Originally posted by JEWELSTAITEFAN:
Tell me how many women you know do not drink to get "in the mood?" Really? Nobody? Less than half?

If there is thorough research showing all or even most women drink as a prerequisite to sex please share it. I have no knowledge why women do what they do. I only know if I do something why I do it.

si shen

BYTEMITE

Thursday, June 12, 2014 11:07 PM

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because your brain has more time to process and react

Uhh... Your brain reactions are slowed too.

And no, stimulants like amphetamines don't just increase blood flow. Amphetamines interact with dopamine at recreational doses. Ecstasy also does this.

If you're affecting neurotransmitters and the actual nerve impulses as well, it's not just a matter of being "sped up." There's also emotional and sensory effects to that as well, which is why the behaviour of people under the influence of those drugs can be erratic.

Alcohol AND stimulants are also universally neurotoxins and it's generally unwise to use them regularly at doses high enough to induce a behavioural effect. Not that this particular fact ever seems to stop anyone.

WISHIMAY

Thursday, June 12, 2014 11:23 PM

All I know is couple drinks+me and hubbs= guaranteed good time. For BOTH of us...

He takes a stimulant and he's done two minutes later.

I'll take 20 minutes of fun slow haze over two minutes of "trash can" sex any day.

'Course, with both of us being on the spectrum and things tend to have opposite effects it could be we are different, but not what I hear from other girls I know...

How'd we get on this subject again??

FREMDFIRMA

Friday, June 13, 2014 12:25 AM

Well don't look at me, who needs intoxicants when you've all manner of Tantric freaky to play with...

That said, chronic pain and booze is a bad combo, aye - and of course the chronic pain leads to stress, which leads to heart problems, which leads to more stress and pain, and so forth and so on till the bottle is the only comfort a lotta them people got left cause of the asinine puritannical notion that suffering is good for you, which while soundly debunked by science and even the most basic use of logic and/or empathy, makes a handy excuse for dodging the bullet of the rapacious and murderously fanatical DEA and their "War on (some) Drugs"...

Ain't that they're unaware it's killing them, it's that they want to not suffer, and if the "cost" is a quicker death than days of screaming agony, cheap at the freakin price, you know ?

Of course, in Jacks case it's all about trying to deny that his own choices lead him down the merry path, chasing things he thought he wanted instead of the things he really did, and now that his misery has reached a nadir he's caught between attention whoring and masochism in between bouts of the bottle, which makes him too pathetic for me to get any enjoyment out of flailing his dumb ass so I pay him little mind, if any.

As to peoples behavior having anything to do about the state of someone elses clothing, I call bullshit, always have - blaming others for ones own lack of basic self control is inexcuseable, I don't go around choke-slamming people for being ignorant malicious gits who spread nothing but hate and misery, no matter how much I'd like to, so y'all can keep yer damn hands to yourself, I figure.

-Frem

BYTEMITE

Friday, June 13, 2014 12:48 AM

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Ain't that they're unaware it's killing them, it's that they want to not suffer, and if the "cost" is a quicker death than days of screaming agony, cheap at the freakin price, you know ?

Yeah, and I understand that. I even understand people who don't have chronic pain and drink. Or people who have a lot of emotional pain and drink. Or people who are really bored like Jack.

I suppose I should have said more that the neurotoxin thing is why I don't drink... Although considering at this point I require caffeine to remain conscious, I also suppose I'm being kind of a hypocrite. Caffeine isn't really all that healthy either.

JEWELSTAITEFAN

Sunday, June 15, 2014 1:17 AM

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Originally posted by Wishimay:

I'll take 20 minutes of fun slow haze over two minutes of "trash can" sex any day.

'Course, with both of us being on the spectrum and things tend to have opposite effects it could be we are different, but not what I hear from other girls I know...

Not familiar with trash can sex, nor spectrum in this context. Can you clarify please?

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