Imponderables- good time conversation

POSTED BY: MsA
UPDATED: Wednesday, August 12, 2009 15:36
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BLACK12AKYTCA

Thursday, July 23, 2009 1:52 AM

Ah, nice ^.^. Yeah, I don't share ANY musical tastes with my girl friends (which kinda sucks), but.. -shrug-

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Ist es nacht... Mitternacht!

MSA

Thursday, July 23, 2009 3:02 AM

LOL Navy... dinosaurs as pets?? You do have cute cats

To love someone is to see a miracle invisible to others.
--Francois Mauriac
It's fuzzy-minded liberal thinking like that that gets you eaten.

NAVYSEILS

Thursday, July 23, 2009 3:21 AM

yea, dinosaurs are awesome, duh!

MSA

Thursday, July 23, 2009 2:18 PM

Well I suppose it's no odder than my wish for a racoon, an otter, a fox, several types of monkey, meerkats, and various large cats:)

You know I can see you with a mini apatosaurus....

To love someone is to see a miracle invisible to others.
--Francois Mauriac
It's fuzzy-minded liberal thinking like that that gets you eaten.

ZEEK

Thursday, July 23, 2009 2:36 PM

Tiger...a friendly tiger.

MSA

Thursday, July 23, 2009 2:47 PM

Well even if you hand raise them, they're still tigers so you have to get training to handle them.. but yes that'd be soooooo cool.

To love someone is to see a miracle invisible to others.
--Francois Mauriac
It's fuzzy-minded liberal thinking like that that gets you eaten.

ZEEK

Thursday, July 23, 2009 6:35 PM

OK how about this ponder. Should there be some break up protocol or rules? I mean there's other dating rules that are out there call 3 days after the first date, 3rd date rule, etc. Do we need some for break ups?

A friend of mine is going through a break up and both of them are just driving me nuts. They're emailing each other multiple times a day. She's going to his place tonight to "talk". This is the 3rd time they've broken up btw. They keep back sliding. Though the frequency of the break ups has picked up. There was like a month between the first and second but only a couple weeks before the third (they tried to claim they weren't back together in between those two).

I just think they need to learn to say stuff like "I care about you but we're not right together and we need to spend time apart right now". At least something along those lines.

I'm thinking maybe a rule like for 3 months after the break up you are only allowed to hang out with your ex in groups. No phone calls unless it's a short "hey I left my at your place can you bring it to ? thanks" variety. How about that?

FREELANCERTEX

Thursday, July 23, 2009 6:51 PM

I think there should definitely be some protocol rules for at least the younger dating population (i.e. voice only, no text breakup, no email breakup, no going through friends @_@) but in a situation like that, yeah, i think they need to spend some time apart apart.

are they happy when they're together? I mean, have their breakups been really ugly? whats the story with these two?

MSA

Thursday, July 23, 2009 7:07 PM

I think there should definitely be rules
1- do not put your friends, pets, kids, parents, etc in the middle of it by asking them to take sides, carry messages, etc
2-If you're going to break up...do it. don't drag it out over a long period of time. Cut off contact. If you want to be friends. Wait a month or so then try. if you fail at it once, stop trying
3-Do not trash your ex in public. Sure tell a few friends or someone you lean on, but don't go all facebook, myspace, ad on a blimp about it. That just makes you look like an ass
4-Do not reveal secrets, personal issues, or other private things you became aware of due to being in the couple. Have some class and don't just spew someones personal stuff everywhere because you're feeling hurt. In the long run it's just mean, hatful and says more about the kind of person you are than about them

These are the rules I would love to see enforced:)

To love someone is to see a miracle invisible to others.
--Francois Mauriac
It's fuzzy-minded liberal thinking like that that gets you eaten.

ZEEK

Thursday, July 23, 2009 8:10 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by freelancertex:
are they happy when they're together? I mean, have their breakups been really ugly? whats the story with these two?

It's like their relationship is bipolar. They say both. We're so happy. This relationship is so draining and makes me so unhappy. The break ups have been ridiculous. They act super crushed for a day or two and then boom back together and "going to really try to make it work this time". This break up has lasted since Saturday at least. That's a new record.

I think they're wrong for each other. I don't think you break up three times if you're right for each other. Every time it's been her breaking up with him. I think each time she freaks out and thinks "but it's like wasting a year of dating and what if I never find someone else!?". Then they get back together and she realizes he's not right for her and staying together is wasting the time she should be spending looking for mr. right. Which is exactly how this last one happened. They went to a wedding and she flat out told him during the ceremony she was thinking "I can't ever see myself marrying you". Ouch dude. Yet he still seems to want her back. He's convinced she's just scared and is lying to herself.

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