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Ten Reasons Gay Marriage Is Wrong

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Thursday, April 30, 2009 11:43 PM

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Originally posted by rue:
Seriously Kirk - do you know any gays or lesbians ?


When you asked this, it reminded me of the first Gay friend I made when I was living in KC back in the day. I desided to Goggle his name because he was a fairly well known openly gay entertainer before it was as common as today. He used his stage name in real life so I always knew him as Tommy http://www.pitch.com/2005-12-01/news/killer-queen/ . He showed me his portfolio/scrapbook one time including photos of him with Truman Capote. So the answer to your question is yes, I had Gay friends before many here were born and before it was socially acceptable in most circles. I have also known some very strange lesbians, but that's another story.

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RUE
Friday, May 1, 2009 12:00 AM

http://www.queermusicheritage.us/fem-jbl.html



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Friday, May 1, 2009 12:05 AM

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Kwicko wrote:
Thursday, April 30, 2009 13:36

You're looking at it all wrong, Rap - what if it's a bachelorette party for a hot lesbian couple? You wanna be in the middle of that, right?




It's never the hot lesbian couple. Ever.





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Friday, May 1, 2009 12:09 AM

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Gay males are more promiscuous
Maybe the ones who came out are? But the ones who're quieter aren't?

Was at a county office once at a time when they were doing anonymous AIDS testing... this was before it became a routine doctor's-visit test and well before there was any hope of treatment. The throng of gays there was unbelievable. And even in THOSE circumstances.. getting tested for an untreatable deadly disease... they were checking out each other's butts!


EEEWWWWWW!!!!!!

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We should have strapped him into a glider, filled it nose heavy w/ explosives, and dropped his Allah lovin' ass into a large, empty field. After which, release wild boars into the area so they could make good use of his remains. Now THAT's justice.- rappy

Yeah, that's what Sheikh Issa said. Seems you both have a lot in common.- signy

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RUE
Friday, May 1, 2009 12:10 AM

I did want to add though, that my original statement is true - while unmarried gay males have more sex partners on average than unmarried straight males, unmarried lesbians have fewer than than straight females.

If we use promiscuity as the measure - only lesbians should be allowed to marry, as they are less promiscuous than anyone.

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Friday, May 1, 2009 12:21 AM

Yanno, some of the nicest women I've ever known were lesbians. Prolly has to do with the fact that they didn't play a feminine role, which is somewhat dependent and manipulative. Don't know how typical they were tho. OTOH I know one guy and if there's a case of being "made" gay, he's it. Due to constant sexual and psychological torment from his mom, the dude is an unhappy, unloved homosexual. He feels so unlovable and so desperately needy he'll follow any guy who shows just a smidgen of politeness. Pretty sad to watch.

What about you? Known any gays or lesbians? Did you find any positive (or negative) behaviors that you could attribute to orientation?

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We should have strapped him into a glider, filled it nose heavy w/ explosives, and dropped his Allah lovin' ass into a large, empty field. After which, release wild boars into the area so they could make good use of his remains. Now THAT's justice.- rappy

Yeah, that's what Sheikh Issa said. Seems you both have a lot in common.- signy

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Friday, May 1, 2009 12:56 AM

The captain and first mate of my crew over on Puzzle Pirates are lesbians and they're lovely people.

I've known several gay man, but not on a deeper level other than acquaintances.

I was actually asked out by a gay hairdresser when getting ready for a play. I was talking about my girlfriend and he asked me out . . . like several times! He wouldn't take the hint! SHEESH!! One of the more creepy moments of my life.



Zoe: "Get it running again."
Mal: "Yeah"
Zoe: "So not running now"
Mal: "Not so much"
- Out of Gas

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RUE
Friday, May 1, 2009 1:06 AM

A classmate of a sibling, someone who I'd known for years during school, told me many years later she was lesbian. I never would have known otherwise. She was sometimes rather sad about the prospect of finding love, but it's tough enough for straight people with lots more choices. Since finding love was important to her, I imagine she was sad for a legitimate reason. Other than that, as I remember her from school, she was adventuresome, proactive, and interesting. Through her I met several other lesbians and was taken around to the nightclub scene. It was interesting, but not my thing - I don't like nightclubs, in general. It was all pretty lighthearted and tame - nothing like the local bath house I was told about.

I also met a number of lesbians in college, but didn't have much to do with them outside of class. So aside from their public personas - which were refreshingly independent - I have not much to say about them.

I know TWO men who I believe were made gay (or at least bi) by sexually and psychologically abusive mothers. I've met other gay men whose history I don't know. Some were very effeminate, some overly macho to my mind, some just ordinary guys who seemed like anyone else trying to get through life.

Of the gays and lesbians I've met, overall the lesbians seem to have it more together, emotionally speaking.


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Friday, May 1, 2009 1:32 AM

Rip

Heh heh.... you said "deeper level " when talking about "knowing" a gay man.





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Friday, May 1, 2009 2:16 AM

Hell, I'm the only straight man at my place of work. And I'm the FIRST straight man they hired. For some reason, they decided they needed a MAN to run the warehouse, shipping, and receiving. They didn't - my wife does the same job at a different company - but I wasn't going to tell them that when they offered me the job! I apparently replaced a lesbian couple who were constantly fighting and bringing their personal business into the workplace, and it just wasn't working out well at all.

The only other male that works there is gay. We get along quite well - we all do, really - but we two guys stick together against what he's dubbed "The Estrogen Cartel". :)

We talk, we gossip, we watch a lot of the same shows - I loaned him Firefly and Serenity, both of which he loved. Politically, he's more conservative than I am about some things, and more liberal about others. Mostly, though, he's just a very fun guy to talk to and work with.

Mike

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Set a man on fire and he'll be warm for the rest of his life.

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