Male and Female Imponderables--Onepa
POSTED BY: Tristan
UPDATED: Saturday, December 30, 2006 10:35
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Good morning RIMG -
Mircea - Sometimes other people's confusion IS funny !
Hey Tristan - day dragging a bit ?
Mav - That reminds me of my grandmother,she did that to all my friends !You wild youngling !
Bryce
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I am SOOOO looking forward to the long weekend. Last weekend was non-stop with family, so I'll have a little time for me this weekend! 
King of the Mythical Land that is Iowa
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I go home for a couple a hours and we got nekkid Adam ass, ninjas, non-comittal friends, and thunderstorms. I miss all the cool stuff.
I'm headed for the 76th site on the side Mags. Think I'll be takin' the train (which is only a step above the bus) but it'll save money. Hugs.
So who's all in? I have a slightly funny story to attach to a quizzical ponderable.
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Hi there NV - I could use a funny story .. and thanks for reminding me to look into the train option ! I could stand to save some cashy money too.
Penguin - I hope you get that well deserved break ! 
Bryce
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Hello in the camp...
just stopped by to see what condition my condition is in...
i was by yesterday and was conspicuously ignored... man, go away for a few days and you're competely forgotten... (and we had such good times....oh the humanity...)
So, Happy New Year Browncoats....
i'm out
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I'm always up for a laugh, NV.
Hello Dayve
I think nighttime is dark so you can imagine your fears with less distraction.
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!!! Dayve's back !!!
Hello Dayve - don't leave yet... It's always a pleasure to see you !
And a very shiny new year to you too.
Bryce
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I saw ya Dayve. I just figured you were gone before I got in. (Offers peace offering) Root Beer?
Okay. So I met GND and Sissy up town last night while getting gas and cigarettes. I was introduced to one of GND's co-workers. A cute blonde country girl that seemed to have a good aire about her. So I decide to just be nice and include her like she's one of "us". GND gets all wierd and starts hangin' off me and flirting. I kinda blow her off and go my own way. Later we meet up at their (GND and Sissy's) house and we watch movies, same as usual. Note: The cutesy co-worker was not invited, go figure.
Anyhoo, GND discusses her plans ever so slightly for the weekend. She plans on going out of town to see her boyfriend with Sissy. And appearantly there is some "undiscussable" plans. I figure she's finally decided to do the deed and get it over with. So why the F^(k fo I care? Honestly, get it over with. I'm sure I'll have to hear about it later and will have some residual feelings over it not being me, but oh F'ing well. And I'm sure if something goes wrong this weekend I'll be expected to don the Mighty Mouse costume and fix shit. Lastly, I am reluctant to say anything at all. I hate being right. I'm tired of telling the same people whats gonna happen and being blown off, even if after the fact the fully admit that I was right.
On to the ponderable. Why do women do that thing? When your both in concur that you are friends and nothing more then they get all territorial when another bitch comes sniffin' around. I don't get it. Help me understand.
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ok that's a tall order there NV ! Some women
(not myownself ) cannot tolerate not being wanted by any and every male in the area.Interest on her part has nothing to do with it, it's about attention.She wants to be the center of all male attention,plain & simple & if she's not she'll do whatever she can to become it.
I can't say how namy friends I've had that do that.Silly isn't it ?
Bryce
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Originally posted by nvghostrider:
On to the ponderable. Why do women do that thing? When your both in concur that you are friends and nothing more then they get all territorial when another bitch comes sniffin' around. I don't get it. Help me understand.
In her book Cowboys are My Weakness, Pam Houston wrote something that has stuck with me for over 10 years.
A man desires the satisfaction of his desire; a woman desires the conditions of desiring."
It may also be the case that she clearly wanted co-worker to think she is desired by you. She asserted an "Alpha Female" stance (for lack of a better phrase) to the co-worker saying "This one is not available. Nothing to see here. Move along."
I don't know, NV. But I think the answer lies somewhere between that quote and the Alpha Female thing.
Quick thought- Maybe it's "If I can't have him then noone can have him, and stepping between you and anyone else?
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