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POSTED BY: Tristan
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Friday, December 29, 2006 2:19 PM

mornin' Mircea.

Life is quiet here, overcast skies and a generally dismal sort of day, my favorite kind.

~jimi
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'cause the Roman Gods up to that point were crap. Jeff, the god of biscuits, and Simon, the god of hair-dos.

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Friday, December 29, 2006 2:25 PM

Morning RIMG. Looks like we might actually have a little sun today, which would be a change.

Here's something to ponder maybe, I watched this one happen to a friend about a week ago.

What does it mean when someone makes a big fuss about wanting to be your friend, then completely ignores you for the next couple of weeks?

I think nighttime is dark so you can imagine your fears with less distraction.

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Friday, December 29, 2006 2:50 PM

Mircea How are you? Hmmmm... might be that they are so bogged down with their own issues that they think you can cope with your own...? I have done something like that - without meaning to! I was seriously depressed, at the time, and had recently got together with a friend who's husband had died of a heart tumour, she's younger than me, and sh has two young sons - then I just felt like I wouldn't be good for her to be around at the time and kind of 'went quiet on her'... Stupid - I know - but luckily she understood, when we got together and talked it all through... I think that sometimes we believe our own problems are too overwhelming for us and we can't share them with others, especially when they have their own set of overwhelming issues... but we forget that sometimes people just "need to be needed..."

Then again - they might just be really self-absorbed and found someone else to play with nah - I am sure that is not the case!!

EDIT: I just cannot believe it - all those thunderstorms and nobody to 'share' them with Nico...

RIMG!!! How are you my Jimi-bear!!!???

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Friday, December 29, 2006 2:56 PM

Morning Magda. I'm fine and peachy thanks. Actually, given the people in volved behind my question, I suspect the self absorbed part may be on the mark.

I think nighttime is dark so you can imagine your fears with less distraction.

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Friday, December 29, 2006 3:06 PM

Good Morning Magda, Mircea, NV & RIMG!

Things are hoppin' here in Maryland, so I'll be busy today. Preparing to close the month out, close the year, and moving files. The joy.

I'm not sure about the friend thing, Mircea.
I made a committment a few weeks ago to get back in touch with several friends I've made throughout the years that I've lost touch with, through every fault of my own. Several have been overjoyed to hear from me...and I can't tell you the sorrow I have to find out one passed away last year. She was just a little older than I am.

The worst part of this has been my anger. Anger at mutual friends of ours who COULD have contacted me when Dana died, but said "they didn't know where I was" or anger at myself for not staying in touch with a friend who I should have been there for.
I have chosen to be angry at myself. I will carry this for a long time, and it hard brought into sharp focus for me that I need to be a better friend to those whom I love.

Ok. Sad now.
Time to take it out on those damn 2006 files.
Back soon.




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Friday, December 29, 2006 3:07 PM

Qing ren! Hehehe, ninja-kisses!

Morning, all! Looks like another busy day. The end of the year approaches and there are quite a number of things we have to be sure are in force...I'll try to drop by when I can!

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Friday, December 29, 2006 3:10 PM

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Originally posted by Penguin:




Oooooh - I love the ninja, Penguin!! And I was thinking of you tonight - my friends and I went to see 'Happy Feet'!! I adored it!!

VerseExplorer... you were so right too - I went outside and embarassed my friends by doing an impromptu tap dance in the street...

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Friday, December 29, 2006 3:12 PM

mornin' Tristan , Magda *hugs*, Mavs *hugs*

I have no clue on the friend situation, never really experienced it myownself. I am sorry to hear about your friend Mavs, that really sucks. :\

~jimi
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'cause the Roman Gods up to that point were crap. Jeff, the god of biscuits, and Simon, the god of hair-dos.

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Friday, December 29, 2006 3:20 PM

Morning Mavs, Tristan and NV.

Sorry to here about your friend Mavs :hugs:

I think nighttime is dark so you can imagine your fears with less distraction.

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Friday, December 29, 2006 3:38 PM

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Originally posted by magdalena:
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Originally posted by Penguin:




Oooooh - I love the ninja, Penguin!! And I was thinking of you tonight - my friends and I went to see 'Happy Feet'!! I adored it!!



I'll have to get it when it comes out on DVD!



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