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Male and Female Imponderables - If music be the food of love, play on

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Tuesday, July 25, 2006 4:06 PM

Morning, MSG!
Don't know about the navel thing...never actually tried making love to one. I know there are other things that can be done to them, though.

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Tuesday, July 25, 2006 4:23 PM

possibly, but as i only ever have tv on as an addendum to something else (even watching Firefly i have to have something for my hands to do) it means i have the same thing.
Of course, it could just be an extension of this famous female ability to 'multi-task'.
I think the worst i've ever been was sewing and listening to my mp3player in one ear, then the tv got turned on and i was watching that and daydreaming at the same time.

this isn't an imponderable, its just an out and out rant.so please, feel free to skip...

other peoples children are horrid! Its only the first day of the summer holiday and i've already started visualising painful deaths for the smelly little gits and their pond scum parents. Oh god honestly, somepeople should be prevented from breeding! what is this compulsion people like that have to spawn? They don't want the kids- they certainly can't look after them properly - they should have their ability to procreate removed as soon as their bits drop. I bet vets would love the extra business. Argh! nosepicking! i've had to start keeping a bottle of that anti bacterial gel next to the till, but it still doesn't stop the need to run to the bathroom to wash while trying not to heave. Oh they are foul, the general public are just disgusting. I swear, we get thousands of visitors a day and about six of them will be decent human beings, the rest will be a mixture of chavs scum and the great unwashed. One guy stood in front of me giggling and drooling in the marble trays.
Needlesss to say i didn't touch them, and warned the others to wear gloves. Eurgh. I hate children, despise their stupid braindead excuses for parents and wish the whole lot would f off to the beach and die in a freak jellyfish incident. or maybe they could go to southend and get run over by boyracers, that way two bird with one stone - they're all gone and all these rust bucket piles of crap containing stupid amounts of speakers and five middle class small boys smoking weed and trying to look 'ard in the tracksuits mummy and daddy bought them back from benidorm would also disappear.

Its to freakin hot!

Now, This one had to be bought out and shown to the world.
Everybody - say thank you Arcadia.

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Tuesday, July 25, 2006 4:30 PM

Seryn, all I'm gonna say is... I feel your pain.

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MSG
Tuesday, July 25, 2006 4:34 PM

OK HUGS Seryn...yes I understand. My cute boss had a sign and she was fairly serious about enforcing it. Kids who act like little animals will be whisked away to the zoo. Kids that got bratty were escorted out with a suggestion that the parents were welcome to shop without them. It sucks being a clerk because you have to just smile and be nice no matter how completely awful the person is being, for the most part. I do wonder about the parents though. I see a lot of this at my school. They ignore the kid until the behavior becomes unbearable then scream or attack the kid and I think "are you stupid, way to guarantee a massively disturbed and bratty creature" I wonder why they had the kid since they visibly have no interest in caring for it

ooooh thought of an imponderable...do you think men and women discipline kids differently and who do you think is better?

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Tuesday, July 25, 2006 4:34 PM

I am also a multi-tasking male, but I put that down more to the lack of ability to be still. Even though I put down the generalities, I don't really follow them. It's a rare ocassion when I just sit down and do nothing, or just watch a movie. I have, at the moment, half-a-dozen construction projects going on (DragonCon in 37 days!!!), so I have no idleness at the moment. But when I do work on a project, I have to have something else going on; tv, radio, loud talking. Helps the brain focus.

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Tuesday, July 25, 2006 4:43 PM

MSG

My son and I were having a good laugh at the Underworld 2. My son (who is gay) was wondering on the severity of the lovely Scott Speedmans birth defect. LOL



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Tuesday, July 25, 2006 4:48 PM

I'm back all you Shiny Ponderable ers!
Multi tasking is the only way to be.

PR- Hear ya loud and clear. I tend to have a bit of fun with those types. Gettin' the cops or juvenile probation (I know alot of them) to put them in line ain't no thing. I just sit back and watch all the fun happenings after a few quick phone calls.

Be back soon. Will update more details of the Ms. Whatever saga.

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Their 'bout to drag me down"

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Tuesday, July 25, 2006 4:55 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by msg:
...and in the case of Underworld 2 is it possible to have sex with someone's navel?




I was wondering if I was the only one who noticed that. Not that I'm opposed to looking at Scott Speedman nekkid, but the whole navel thing kind of defies explanation.

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Tuesday, July 25, 2006 4:56 PM

To clarify, for love scenes in movies I'm a fan of the falling-onto-the-bed-fade-to-black love scenes. Don't really need to see much more than that. Kissing is okay, and like I said before, some of it works, but less is more there as well.

Multitasking: I can mimic the existence of a rock, if I so choose. I can sit in one spot for hours reading a book or watching movies. I can waste away an entire day doing absolutely nothing. One of the most relaxing things I do ocassionally is take a shower, then just lay on the bed, still wrapped in my towel, hair wet and ponder anything or nothing at all. I always feel so peaceful like that (and clean ).

That said, I can also get a hell of a lot done if I put my mind to it. I run some horseshows with only the help of a one or two parent volunteers (it's like herding cats, getting parents to help out) and those seem to run smooth, which is a minor miracle. In the past, I was a facilities manager/event planner and that was a huge juggling act. My skills are utilized well in fact paced, high pressure situations, but I prefer the existence of that aforementioned rock.

Seryn: I'm not so fond of other people's children, either. The little yard apes are rarely taught respect or manners these days, why should I have to deal with them? I often cringe watching how inept many of my generation are at parenting. You don't need to be a dictator, but you ARE NOT their friends. Kids need rules...they thrive with boundaries. In a glorious world, they grow up to be your friend, but when they are five they need to be told that it's not okay to throw a tantrum in the store and when/if they do, drop everything and take them home STAT.

(I do know how hard it is to be a parent but sometimes they just make it harder on themselves...and the rest of the world.)

Um, haven't seen Underworld 2 yet...but now I'm curious...an a little frightened.

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Tuesday, July 25, 2006 5:27 PM

Thanks MSG for the encouragement. I'll be off to the Farmer Market this evening With my nephew (AKA the ultra cute but shy chick magnet). I really do feel much better now that I vented a bit with Ms. WHatever. She knows what I think and how I feel. But watch. I'll get out there and be seen with others and she'll suddenly show up. Happens every time. That is the thing that bothers me the most. If she ain't gonna give in, then why does she keep comin' round. And always when I'm ready to move on.

Sorry about the jakkin' folks, still venting a bit.

As for the discipline issue, I see styles between individuals, not just male/female. My peeve is the style of "ignore them and they'll stop". The only time you should ignore bad behavior is when the child does it for attention. Then you counter it with praise for the good things they do. I see alot of parents ignoring good and bad things their kids are doing. Look at the overachievers y'all know. Chances are they have had to contend for attention or compensate for others throughout their lives. Been in both spots and it sucks!

ADD: RUGBUG- Always loved the fade to black scenes. Like I said before, good imagination.

"...And them chains them chains
Their 'bout to drag me down"

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