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Male and Female Imponderables - If music be the food of love, play on

POSTED BY: PhoenixRose
UPDATED: Wednesday, July 26, 2006 13:04
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MSG
Tuesday, July 25, 2006 7:57 PM

NV- any time her behavior bugs you , just picture her flopping around while I poke her with the pointy stick yelling bad Ms. Whatever bad no treat!! and FMF right next to me with her pointy stick as well:)

I choose to rise instead of fall- U2

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13
Tuesday, July 25, 2006 8:05 PM

And a Canadian for back-up.

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Tuesday, July 25, 2006 8:07 PM

Gotta stop. Imagination working overtime.
Been very... unchained lately.
Definatly shootin' for the heart this evening. May need to dress up a bit.

13- You're a good hero and all, but the thought (females) can't include you. Though, we could use a midget in the corner with a video camera.

"...And them chains them chains
Their 'bout to drag me down"

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MSG
Tuesday, July 25, 2006 8:09 PM

Hi 13 sweety and how have you been?

NV- sounds like a plan there...a cunning plan... a plan so cunning you could put a tail on it and call it a weasel:)

I choose to rise instead of fall- U2

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Tuesday, July 25, 2006 8:17 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Penguin:
Friends, Imponderables, countrymen...lend me your ears...

I have been asked to recruit a few of you to sell Amway...I mean a few of you to help FollowMal and others in the "Summer of Serenity" campaign. We have a list of active Firefly/Serenity forums and Yahoo! groups and would like to "assign" forums and groups to people to post at and help spread the word!

We don't have all the details worked out yet, but we would like to start sometime later this week. Please PM me if you are interested!

Thanks a bunch!





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Tuesday, July 25, 2006 9:20 PM

Ugh, I'm annoyed. And I want to rant. And since you were talking about parenting, I'll rant.

So, still in the ireland, and me n my sisters and my mother went a-sight seeing. Sometime in the afternoon, my right eye starting bothering me... for the rest of the day it got progressively worse, no doubt a combination of my rubbing it and whatever the irritant was... and we had this big dinner with my uncle's family and my grandmother, and we went, and I didnt want to say 'my eye is bothering me can i go home', but I ended up doing the writhing-in-pain motions alll night, (think mal in OoG or war stories, them grunting noises) and it seems like no one noticed. Occassionally people would ask 'is your eye still bothering you'? and after all the writhing i've been doing... just gotta look dead pan at em and think... 'well obviously'. After dinner, tho someone had said something about eye drops or somesuch, we went a-walkin'... my writhing continued. eventually my mother noticed and told me the irritant was probably long gone, just stop rubbing it, and walked on. urgh. So the eye is still really sore, and I am annoyed at my family.

When folk i know are hurt, i'll mother hen them to death if they're nearby, or at least I think I do... grrrr.

So, question? was I just being lame and crying for attention, or is it ok to be pissed at my unresponsive family?

/rant over.

"But, these strong women characters?"

"Why aren't you asking 100 other guys why they don't write strong women characters?" -Joss Whedon

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Tuesday, July 25, 2006 9:29 PM

Family should be a little more responsive to such things. Unless of course you are one who is constantly demanding attention and pity from your family, but from what you said it surely doesn't sound like it. Maybe they were just having too much fun to notice. It happens.

"...And them chains them chains
Their 'bout to drag me down"

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Tuesday, July 25, 2006 9:37 PM

Blarg, I dont know what it is with me and my family. Love my sisters well enough, but my mother annoys me so much, and I can never figure out why. For one thing, when my older sister is near my mother, she takes on this holier-than-thou feel compared to me and my other sister, which always annoys me. And my mother... for all she's done for me, and for all i've put her through (remember that whole depression thing, well sometimes I can be downright annoying when I get frustrated with existance) I just can't wrap my head around her loving me, my theory is she doesnt show it much, but she's real busy n all, I shouldn't blame her.

Damnit, I knew I had issues. Freud would have a field day.

"But, these strong women characters?"

"Why aren't you asking 100 other guys why they don't write strong women characters?" -Joss Whedon

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Tuesday, July 25, 2006 10:07 PM

Actually, this might be an easy one for Freud. My question is on how these relationships will effect your future relationships with women. Will you end up with one that you despise like you do your mother? What path will you take when choosing a mate? What kind of ice cream will you eat next? Strange how one aspect in our lives will effect others.

"...And them chains them chains
Their 'bout to drag me down"

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Tuesday, July 25, 2006 10:16 PM

Hey Whitefall,

Remember that conversation a few threads ago about 'languages of love?' Could you be expecting a different type of love from your mother than she is giving? Perhaps you want words of affection and she's giving you acts of service (providing for you, taking care of you, etc)? Just something to ponder. You may not feel her love for you because you're looking for the wrong thing.

As for the eye, dont want to be harsh, but maybe you were a little needy? 'Course I'm of the 'suck it up and push through' ilk so I could easily see things differently. I have a hard time being needy at all (kind of keeps me seperated from people, I just don't let them take care of me or help).

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