Male and Female Imponderables - Not for the Faint of Heart

POSTED BY: PhoenixRose
UPDATED: Monday, July 17, 2006 21:53
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PHOENIXROSE

Sunday, July 16, 2006 1:22 PM

Well, I'm not completely insatiable, just more so that most women. But as nymphomania actually means compulsively having sex with basically anyone who is willing as a way to satisfy some kind of addiction that really leaves only emptiness... I don't think that was fair. 'Course, most people don't know what it means, they just throw the word around, so I didn't get mad at him for it.
But yeah, I thought it was a selling point, too!
Really, though, I think he was convinced he couldn't keep up with me.

Well, he couldn't...

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MAGDALENA

Sunday, July 16, 2006 1:29 PM

Hickies... I immediately think high school and first boyfirend and experimenting without going 'too far' and hickies resulting which leads to some disgusted looks from teachers and some stern words from parents... not the pinacle of 'sexual experience for me!!

On the places list - definitely the neck towards the back near my shoulder...oooooh..
*shivers at the mere memory with longing*

inside my knee & just below and above my knee... mmmmmmmm

just above the inside of my wrist... aaaah

Also - I am celebate by choice at the moment but not sexually repressed - as you might note! Just wanting to be a little thoughtful before inviting someone to enter "the temple" again (and that sounds repressed doesn't it?)and enjoying some BDH fantasies in the mean-time ...ooops, sorry TMI? (or not enough??)?

Yeah - definitely shaking my 'nice' image here!! See what this 'imponderable' thread-ing does to you??

Love, as always - Magdalena x x

P.S. - yes, bruises are different and if someone is bruising you and telling you it's a hickie... think carefully about that someone!!

PHOENIXROSE

Sunday, July 16, 2006 1:35 PM

That doesn't sound repressed at all, darling! It sounds both wise and smart. Your body is a temple and deserves fine, fine treatment Don't let anyone say different.
Neck towards the back near my shoulder... I think we have a common weakness. Or very close.
And yes the boy who bruised me (quite badly) and said it was "just a hickie"... Well, he was long ago and far away.

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TRISTAN

Sunday, July 16, 2006 1:58 PM

PR, no problem at all! Glad to see the thread is of such interest that it can be carried on without me here! And you don't really need a torch...just go Phoenix-like!

Now, to the Imponderables:

Hickies. I do enjoy them, but they harken back to high school days where they were used as "territorial" markings...usually in a highly visible place, such as the neck. Nowadays, it's tough to explain them away; especially if one deals with the public on a daily basis. I like the hidden ones.

DTuck, I am with you on the neck as a sensitive kissing spot. Sends shivers down me spine, it does!

Cleavage is good...

Mavourneen, I think a woman with a healthy sex drive is wonderful! Time for a bit of a soapbox speech...excuse me for a moment.
I have neevr liked the fact that men have the unspoken right to sleep with as many females as they want and only be labeled "stud", while if a woman does the same, she is labeled "slut" or "loose". Humans, as I have said before, generally have a healthy sex drive. We can "mate" year-round, and do so. But the double-standard sucks. Of the women I dated, I enjoyed the company of those that had experience...and enjoyed getting the experience...over the repressed, "sex is bad"-type women. I still think there is a line that should not be crossed, like sleeping with people just to get notches in your belt, but I fully believe that both males and females shuold be able to enjoy themselves sexually without having to be labeled by society.
Ok, stepping off the box now. Thanks for listening!

PR, following the above train-of-thought, I am at an age now where I can't "keep up" like I used to. A woman with a very healthy sex drive would kill me...as my wife is doing ,but I try my best to keep up. A woman with a healthier sex drive than I does not scare me away, I just worry that I won't be man enough for long enough to satisfy her.

Magdalena, hi there! Not sure if you have been here before...if so, welcome back; if not, welcome! Even us married folk have BDH fantasies at times. And there are very few things in this thread that are TMI!

Alright, I think that has me caught up...sorry about the long post, but being denied the internet gave me withdrawals!

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PHOENIXROSE

Sunday, July 16, 2006 2:06 PM

Indeed. As I said before, I think when we were talking about the "lawn care", enjoying yourself in no way should be construed as "slutty" and also notches on the belt are bad and so are double standards.
That's kinda funny "Can't Hold us Down" just popped up on my music playlist. It talks about that very thing.
And no worries; your post wasn't near as long as mine tend to be when I play catchup

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KENOBIUS

Sunday, July 16, 2006 2:39 PM

Ah, nothing I love more than waking up and talking about hickies, magic spots, and sluts.

Actually, I've never given/received a hickie, so you luck out on not hearing my opinion on this one.

Magic spots - There is a few spots that register a little hotter than others, but it's been awhile so things might have changed. Again, I'm pretty useless to the topic.

And as for sluts verses normal folk just enjoying life; I think everyone is entitled to have whatever kind of sex drive they want. Some can't get enough while others are pleased with a little something here or there. You start to cross over to the darkside when you use it to get something you want. That's what makes a slutty person in my book. I knew a few ladies in high school that would sleep with you just for kicks and not for anything else. I'm addicted to sex just as much as the next guy, but that's a bit ridiculous.

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PENGUIN

Sunday, July 16, 2006 2:49 PM

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Originally posted by magdalena:Hic
On the places list - definitely the neck towards the back near my shoulder...oooooh..
*shivers at the mere memory with longing*

inside my knee & just below and above my knee... mmmmmmmm

just above the inside of my wrist... aaaah

Also - I am celebate by choice at the moment but not sexually repressed - as you might note! Just wanting to be a little thoughtful before inviting someone to enter "the temple" again (and that sounds repressed doesn't it?)and enjoying some BDH fantasies in the mean-time ...ooops, sorry TMI? (or not enough??)

*considers becoming a high priest...*

SERYN

Sunday, July 16, 2006 3:04 PM

Hickies - as with so many things, i've no moral objections to them (i've only ever seen them as some ridiculous teen thing which is usually done with as much passion as writing 'toni and kev 4 eva' on bus shelters is i.e, as a marking exercise) but if someone finds it passionate then whatever floats their boat. But i just think they are so incredibly ugly. Exactly like a bruise or other wound. To my mind no one would want something that looked like that on them. I mean things like tattoos can have some meaning to them, or some style and artistry, a deliberate bruise is just bleh. And seeing them on people only induces mild revulsion.

but like i said, what ever floats the boat.

Spots - between my shoulder blades, just underneath them, and up and down to my hair an

oh what the hell, my back. Also known of people having huge sensitive spots just under their butt cheeks and in the crease where leg meets pelvis.

Emma - I hate to say it, but she should in no way go on that holiday, as an older mum, the child is already more at risk from congenital defects, so theres no way she wants to go upping the risk factor. the babies health isn't worth it.
Does she not have holiday insurance? she wouldn't get all of the cash back, but mine i think gives you 80% or something like that, enough to get herself a decent holiday to a none tropical disease ridden country. Then they can plan the mega trip to where ever it was when they sucessfully get the kid to 18 and still living(and off their hands!)
If they don't, enjoy your trip sweetie, and to pay her back (somewhat) buy her a week or two in a health spa/retreat thing.

Music - eternal Tori Amos fan, no one will ever replace her. All the others are so varied that i could be listing things forever.

New imponderable. who is off limits to you as in would you date your best friends brother etc (apart from married people and under 16's if you ain't of course)

I've just always maintained this 'no one you work with, no one related to a close friend etc' rule, and i'm wondering if thats not harshly limiting myself. (mind you, i broke the rule once and got badly burned, so...)

Your robot reminds me of you. You tell it to turn it stops. You tell it to stop it turns. You ask it to take out the garbage it watches reruns of Firefly.
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PHOENIXROSE

Sunday, July 16, 2006 3:10 PM

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Also known of people having huge sensitive spots just under their butt cheeks and in the crease where leg meets pelvis.

Yep. Really all the way around my hip socket. Those can't really be casually accessed in public, though...

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KENOBIUS

Sunday, July 16, 2006 3:19 PM

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Originally posted by seryn:

New imponderable. who is off limits to you as in would you date your best friends brother etc (apart from married people and under 16's if you ain't of course)

I dated my friend's sister for a long time and nothing bad came out if. Well, that relationship did end kinda badly, but it wasn't because of that.

I'm at a point where the age difference is still a little weird to me and the community, so I try to date (heh) as close to my age as possible.

Aside from being already in a relationship and the risk of going to jail, I tend to leave the window open. If love blossoms, it blossoms. Can't stop the sig- er, feelings. Anyone of my friends should be mature enough to handle it. OH! And co-workers is really off limits cause the only female at work is my manager!

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