Male and Female Imponderables - Not for the Faint of Heart
POSTED BY: PhoenixRose
UPDATED: Monday, July 17, 2006 21:53
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Sigh, must catch up again:
Hickies: never had one.
Off limits: Anyone that I knew someone close to me really liked, whether I did or not. My ex-best friend did that to me, with the first guy that I really, really liked. I wasn't so much bothered about him, it was just that she was the only person that knew, and she blatantly went behind my back to ask him out. When I found out, she said: "Do you mind?"
I seriously could have killed her then. Where is a passing reaver ship when you need one?
Casual sex: again, never experienced that! I am definately waiting for someone special. I am not wasting my first time on any old random guy.
Eagles may soar, but ferrets don't get sucked into jet engines.
98% of teens have smoked pot, if you are one of the 2% that haven't, copy this into your signature
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Okay one more question this one for everyone
What is the number of sexual partners at which you decided a person is too experineced (dirty)?
And is the number the same for both males and females?
An I carried such a torch
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Copilot? Honey?
*holds copilot gently by the shoulders*
I want you to listen to me. Please don't take anything I say as condemning or patronizing or anything negative, and don't think that I'm saying you have to take my advice; of course you don't. But I'm speaking as someone who, despite never having met you in the flesh, cares about your well-being in every respect.
OK, first, I am very glad you don't let guilt get to you. This is good.
But I worry about you a little, honey. I'm not sure you do respect yourself as much as you should. I know that you do, just not as much as you maybe should. You need to take care of yourself, you know. The little drug-binge you had a few days ago had us all really worried about you; I was wondering if you would even come back. And I worry that you seem to have some co-dependant tendancies.
I'm glad you love sex, this is also good. But you've said before that you have trouble achieving climax and only have with your FSO. All I'm saying is that there might be a reason for that. You, much like me, might need a real connection to someone before you can really do that. It's something to think about. You obviously know what you get yourself in to having casual sex, and I'm not going to say that's bad, but consider that you might have better sex if it wasn't casual.
Ok? So I'm done now, take it or leave it. It is always your choice.
*edit* no I have never faked.
I think the "too many" line might be somewhere in the range of 20.
And I really need to get some sleep.
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*deep breath here*
Hi, everyone. Posting newbie (yes, delurking, finally) here...Decided that sitting around following the postings isn't enough so...*waves to everyone*
One thing (this is completely from concern -- no judgement nor condemnnations made here): *reaches hand to touch Co-pilot's hand* Sweetie, I agree with PhoenixRose -- there are people here who have never met you in r.l. and are worried about you and what we know about you. (Yes, I include myself, seeing people do activities that seem to be on the self-destruct path is a scary thing.) Pleasureable activities are one thing, binges and extremes are another. Adrenaline "highs," in my expereince are great, but the crashing "lows" are usually beyond painful. Again, this is from my experiences (both direct and from the work I do).
...and to answer your questions (yes, I'm answering it as two questions -- you'll see why in a bit). For adults, I don't think there's such a thing as "too experienced" -- it's a matter of how comfortable you are with the number of partners you have.
As for the "dirty" -- My opinon is that if anyone finds themselves asking this question, it's time to seriously consider taking some time off and focus on satisfying those emotional needs in other ways -- be it doing arts, crafts, exercising, -- something that you can look at and feel even better about yourself for doing.
Sorry for the 'heavy' and slightly long post. I'll be back in a bit to answer some of the other questions later. *waves*
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Hi! Yippie new person!
An I carried such a torch
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Quote:
Originally posted by copilot:
Okay one more question this one for everyone
What is the number of sexual partners at which you decided a person is too experineced (dirty)?
And is the number the same for both males and females?
An I carried such a torch
Personally, I don't think it matters. So what if your new squeeze has had none, one or a hundred pervious partners? As long as they're faithfull during your relationship with them, no harm, no foul.
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Originally posted by Tristan:
Body as a temple...hmm. I can see that. My body is a temple to Dionysus (or Bacchus, if you prefer).
Haha, I so got that. Sorry, we use to make jokes like that in Mythology class. Very nostalgic.
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I should expand on my "too many" answer now that I'm up again.
At my age, I think that 20 would be a bit much because it would basically mean there was never devotion in the past. For me that's rather key. Someone who had too many partners would make me wonder if I was another notch.
Hi, Dancingneko! This is for you! 
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I'm not sure about that one, there really is no magic number (apart from 3 of course, but maybe some people want substantially more than that 
personally, looking back, i've had to many, id love to set the dial back and erase all but 2 of them (and if that possible, maybe add one that never quite happened 
) so i guess its not the number thats acceptable, but the quality of them.
quality over quantity any day.
and Copilot, listen to the dancing guy! (hello DancingEko!) he knows what he it talking about, its time to pause and take stock before you do something that damages you permanently.
ah, its all going to blow up today isn't it? folk back in work n all. oh well, could someone post a summary maybe?
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