Male and Female Imponderables - Not for the Faint of Heart
POSTED BY: PhoenixRose
UPDATED: Monday, July 17, 2006 21:53
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I recently had something like a half-cup increase, maybe a little less than that. Nothing fits quite right anymore. I think most of it is some weight gain, though. But hey, if they stay that way, I'm ok with that. Maybe. I really like my clothes...
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yep the supreme suckage of weight gain! I have to go shopping! I hate shopping! Especially when I'm gaining weight! I feel like such a freak no matter how much my friends tell me I'm still hot!
An I carried such a torch
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I love shopping, I just really love my clothes and want them to always fit. Plus there is money issues; I feel like I'm spending money that could and should be spent on other things.
At the moment, though, the only things that really don't fit are jeans and some of my silk shirts. Neither of these things have any give. And bras of course; had to buy some new ones, no getting around that.
I think I still look fine, just want my gorram clothes to fit.
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Quote:Don't like hickies, never have. Didn't like them when I got them. Only ever gave one, and that by accident. Nothing to do with repression or a problem with "healthy passion" or the like - there's nothing repressed about my sexuality. To me they're no different than an open cut or sore. Yukko.
Originally posted by PhoenixRose:
Hickies: why do so many people have an issue with them?
Many have said they look "trashy" or are given by "slutty" people. I think it's just a sign of healthy passion and enjoying yourself with a partner. Also I like to see one and be reminded of that; makes me feel all warm. In fact, the Kama Sutra talks about "marking" technique in order to remind a parter of you. But now they're considered "unprofessional" and the like. Why? And will this ever be surmounted?
Don't see why dislike of hickies needs to be "surmounted," any more than any other personal preference that causes no harm. No reason anyone else needs to change their preference just because I don't like them. Sure, I'd rather not see them, but I can always just look away.
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"That's what government's for: get in a man's way." - Mal
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Have to go with Piz and CK on this one...but siding slightly with CK.
I personally don't care what two consenting adults do to or with each other, as long as it doesn't involve children or animals - neither of those can consent, and that's key. Hell, sheit on each other. Not my business. Enjoy yourself. Just don't sheit on me.
Hickies fall near this category. I personally don't want to be sucked/bit until I am bruised. If you want to, fine. enjoy. You don't need to advertise it. Cover it up, if it shows. It's TMI for others.
My question is...why are women with strong sex drives viewed differently than women with an "average" drive? Why do men find this both VERY appealing and VERY disturbing? Madonna/Whore complex?
"Have you ever been with a Warrior Woman?"
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Quote:Never understood the problem about women with strong sex drives. Nothing disturbing about it.
Originally posted by Mavourneen:
My question is...why are women with strong sex drives viewed differently than women with an "average" drive? Why do men find this both VERY appealing and VERY disturbing? Madonna/Whore complex?
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Bruises are different from hickies.
Trust me.
Maybe it's just me, but I've always gotten hickies very easily, and they don't hurt. But I've also been actually bruised by teeth, and that does hurt.
The surmounting I was talking about was them being considered unprofessional and unacceptable. It's like they're some horrible taboo, which I don't think has a lot to do with personal preference.
And I'm sorry if I made it seem like not giving or having hickies meant you were repressed, that was not my intent, only that they could and almost always are an indicator of passion.
I've experienced that attitude towards a woman with a strong drive. Ex of Doom at one point actually said I was both "insatiable" and a "nympho" which I thought was a little unfair.
I think they want it because it means all the sex they can stand; and find it disturbing for the exact same reason. Maybe they worry they can't keep up?
This directed only at those who have this view, of course.
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Morning, all.
My area apparently had some internet issues yesterday, so I was unable to check the boards or post another thread. Thank you, PR, for doing this while I was unable, but I'll take care of them in the future barring any other internet issues. 
I have a mailbox full, so I will be back in a little bit to catch up.
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Happy to be of service!
*hands the Imponderables torch back to Tristan*
I was just borrowing it...
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Quote:To paraphrase our captain: He's hittin' all the sellin' points!
Originally posted by PhoenixRose:
Ex of Doom at one point actually said I was both "insatiable" and a "nympho" which I thought was a little unfair.
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"That's what government's for: get in a man's way." - Mal
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