Male and Female Imponderables - Not for the Faint of Heart

POSTED BY: PhoenixRose
UPDATED: Monday, July 17, 2006 21:53
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PHOENIXROSE

Sunday, July 16, 2006 6:40 AM

I know Tristan usually starts these, but he wasn't on and the last one was getting all long so here we are with a new home.

Last thread can be found here: http://www.fireflyfans.net/thread.asp?b=2&t=22281&m=340565#340565

So I have a question for you mature and reasonable people here.
Hickies: why do so many people have an issue with them?
Many have said they look "trashy" or are given by "slutty" people. I think it's just a sign of healthy passion and enjoying yourself with a partner. Also I like to see one and be reminded of that; makes me feel all warm. In fact, the Kama Sutra talks about "marking" technique in order to remind a parter of you. But now they're considered "unprofessional" and the like. Why? And will this ever be surmounted?

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WHITEFALL

Sunday, July 16, 2006 7:17 AM

Ok, as usual I have no experience nor information on the subject, but I'll take a stab...

My guess is, with the industrial workplace invention of things like sexual harassment codes and the like, anything that outwardly makes references to sex is frowned upon. Which is of course rediculous in US society, since sex is advertised in little ways all over the place.

Damn dual nature of society.

Ok, really I have no idea about the subject, just wanted to post.

"But, these strong women characters?"

"Why aren't you asking 100 other guys why they don't write strong women characters?" -Joss Whedon

PHOENIXROSE

Sunday, July 16, 2006 7:20 AM

That's actually a pretty good point.
You actually have a fairly unique perspective. Never having had one yourself, what's your personal stance one them? Do they bother you?

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DTUCK

Sunday, July 16, 2006 7:21 AM

I've never really paid any mind when someone had a hicky. I honestly don't see what the big deal is about them.

On a slightly related note, and forgive me if this has been discussed before... do y'all have odd places that you like to be kissed or touched that just make you crazy? (and keep it clean, the usual places don't apply) My ex used to kiss this one spot on the side of my neck, and utilizing that technique, she could, usually very easily, persuade me to do anything she wished. I was powerless against the neckspot. But I had her number... trailing a single finger up and down her spine, ever so gently, was her trigger.

How bout y'all?

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The best way to get rid of temptation is to yield to it. - Oscar Wilde

PHOENIXROSE

Sunday, July 16, 2006 7:27 AM

I have.... a lot of those.
Um, tongue behind the ear. Soft sucking bite where my neck joins my shoulder. Kiss on the collarbone. Kiss right under the jawline. Scraching lightly at the base of my skull. Fingers through my hair right over my ear; that spot on my scalp is very sensitive (like most of me...) Fingers up and down my spine, yes indeed. Or gentle stroking across the small of my back. I think thse are the ones that really drive me crazy and make me putty in the hands, though there are others that are only slightly less effective.
And the "usual place" is actually a good thing to steer clear of at first; too sensitive to withstand anything til it's ready.

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CALIFORNIAKAYLEE

Sunday, July 16, 2006 7:34 AM

As far as hickies go, my personal opinion is that seeing a hickey on someone you don't know all that well enters the realm of TMI. I agree with you, PR, that hickies are a part of a healthy sex life, but that doesn't mean that I necessarily want to know that detail about my boss. It's the same as seeing a girl's thong sticking out the top of her pants, IMO. Thongs are great underwear, but seeing a total stranger's thong in a restaurant is really more than I needed to know.

Besides, I've always kind of liked the idea of a hidden hickey. It's like wearing sexy underwear under your normal work clothes -- only you know it's there, and it makes you feel sexy all day.

~CK

You can't take the sky from me...

PHOENIXROSE

Sunday, July 16, 2006 7:39 AM

Hidden hickies are nice. Too bad so many of my favorite areas are fairly visible
I need to find more nice turtle necks. I've only found one that doesn't make me feel like I'm choking.
I don't really mind seeing them on those I don't know that well, though. It gives me hope for the world to know that people have passion and release it in healthy ways. I really do think that if everyone had a healthy sex life the world would be a better place.
I might be a frustrated sex therapist.

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CALIFORNIAKAYLEE

Sunday, July 16, 2006 7:57 AM

Quick, only semi-related story before I log out for the night. Hubby and I went to the beach today, and as we were walking along, me in my bikini, we passed several surfer type guys, probably 19 or 20 years old, going the other direction. *Right* after we passed them, we heard one of them say to the others, "Damn, I need to have sex!" Given the view of my cleavage they had, I took it as quite the compliment, and hubby and I had a nice laugh.

~CK

You can't take the sky from me...

PHOENIXROSE

Sunday, July 16, 2006 8:04 AM

I want to get that reaction!

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COPILOT

Sunday, July 16, 2006 9:15 AM

Hey TDuck's in the hoizous! Okay so yeah I'm not very ganster but I wuv my TDuck to death! Sorry i ditched ya earlier honey bunny!

Still don't have my death metal polka!

Due to that time of the month my brests have swollen a bit. So yeah didn't relize untill my friend was looking down my shirt that I was flashing clevage all day! Yipes no wonder we had so much interest! Kidding a little not really.

A little flattering that he said well the view was well worth the effort! He was helping me with a computer issue I forgot what it was.

An I carried such a torch

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