Male and Female Imponderables--Yet Again
POSTED BY: Tristan
UPDATED: Thursday, June 15, 2006 20:08
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DEEPGIRL187- Next to caffine and adrenaline paranoia is among the top of my drug favoites. Of course things will go according to gods plan. I have to say that Ms. Incredible did help me shed alot of insecurities and doubts about myself. I actually wanna have sex now. Maybe even connect and have a relationship. If its not with her, than so be it. At leasy I know what I want. Its great.
As for the inability to say no. Ladies, Don't fear the truth. I would not be in the current position I'm in if someone had piped up with the truth. She claims to be my friend to numerous folk, but had I known the truth I would feel like an actual frien and may even be able to hang out with her no matter who is around without any fits of jealosy, (though it is my experience that my female friends have become jealous of the women I lean affectionatly towards than vice versa)
Jayne: I was gonna get me an ear too.
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Originally posted by Tristan:
PR, on a funny side note regarding Rocky Horror...I have actually dressed up as Frank-n-Furter for a "gathering" in college...turned out to be quite a comfortable ensemble.
Which one's that? Garters and corset and stuff? If so, ooh-la-la!!
All right, I want more stories! I know you people have done wilder things than I have!!
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I'm the president. I don't need to listen.
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Cuddling - i love, Like someone said, even watcxhing tv, its improved when theres someone draped around you. Its actually the only thing i miss unbearably about relationships. (human contact I mean)
Jealousy - the last time igot really jealous was when my best friend of many years started going out with her uni friends, she'd phone me up at eight or nine at night and ask if i was coming out, and then got pissy with me when I wasn't willing to drop everything and haul myself and my make up bag out. That and other issues meant I lost her as a friend, yet another reason why idon't get any cuddles (we were close, to the point where we'd hug a lot and even sit playing with each others hands etc.)
Not saying no - i'm sure its happened in the past alot, but recently i'm proud to say that i've overcome that problem, i'm quite forthright and absolutly honest when I don't like something. yey me *waves small flag*
Sex - actually, in a kitchen its much easier if the really spontaneous (still mostly clothed) and kitchens small, as you can prop your butt on one counter and rest one foot on the other so that you're better supported, plus it creates a great angle and adds a cert...ain... er, Of course, this is what friends tell me... yeah. *cough*
Related to internet dating of a few posts back - what do you guys think about frequency of messages?
As in, when I get a message I reply to it then, if i'm able, it just seems natural, good ettiquet if you will. But even guys I think I have a really good connection with after a while just take longer and longer to message me back (even though they have logged on in the interim) I have this horrid fear of being where i'm not wanted, so i don't tend to send them more messages, but what kind of impresion is that giving? The last one, a guy who i was talking to a lot about music, I sent one, and then a little while ago sent him another (a joke about converting my neice to some music he told me about) but it hasn't prompted a reply.
Its not like i'm madly in lust with this guy, i just don't want to seem either too pushy or completely uncaring.
Has anyone had this happen to them of been on the other side? is he not arsed about continuing the converstion or do guys just not see replying as a big issue?
(as for rocky horror, yes, many guys have said that. I find corsetry really comfy and supportive (posture wise) sometimes, and silk underwear always feel nice, so its not that unusual i suppose.)
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Any man who could dress up ( and be seen ) like Frankie has my immediate respect !I always wanted to play Magenta. We have the same hair.
When hubby & I first got together, we actually set the bedroom on fire. We left a candle too near the bed & up went the comforter, and some cd's.
Ever try to put out a fire naked ? Not fun.
Hot tubs are great , though.
Bryce
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I swallowed a bug.
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Yes, the garters and corset outfit...if I had pictures, I would post them.
Stories, stories, stories...
A few brief interludes; backstage during the performance of a play that both of us were involved in, flyloft of the same theatre, on a beach in NC (during summer theatre) with four or five other couples around while watching the sun come up, backseat of my car in front of my partner's mother's house. Thoses are some of the spontaneous encounters. I am also a huge fan of the shower...but it is important to have a large hot water heater. I also enjoy the possibility of getting caught, so I have had sex in numerous public and semi-public places, including crowded hotel rooms during Ren Faires.
I reserve the right not to post wilder things unless I am directly challenged. 
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Okay, so the hotel incident I mentioned in a much earlier post. Ex liked standing in the process just as much as me. Moving about the room we came to rest on the windowsill of our fifth floor room. Chsin reaction man strikes again. Foot slips partner holds on tight, and somehow the window popped out of the frame. Chain reaction man pulls back and breaks partners fall to the floor. Window pane shatters loudly on ground below. After five minutes of hysterics reality sets in for the dynamic duo. We almost died. Right back at it from the excitement. Despite the fact we almost died in a very embarassing manner, the whole ordeal was quite funny. Except of course for the fact I ended up paying a six hundred dollar repair bill. God I love adrenaline.
TRISTAN: CHALLENGE!!!!!!!!!
Jayne: I was gonna get me an ear too.
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Originally posted by seryn:
Related to internet dating of a few posts back - what do you guys think about frequency of messages?
Good question! I've noticed there seems to be a rule about not answering too quickly. Like, if I answer quickly it puts pressure on the other party to reply quickly. Kind of silly.
I tend to copy people's speed. If they take two days to get back to me, I do the same. Unless I have a burning need to say something.
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NV - LOL! good story!!
You almost made the Darwin list!
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Darwin list? I have an assumption of what it contains but I Ain't aducated or all that schoolified. Can you fill me in?
Jayne: I was gonna get me an ear too.
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The Dawin Awards are for those silly arse people who kill themselfs in the dumbest possible way! There are books and everything. You can also win by maiming yourself bad enough to eleminate yourself from the gene pool.
An I carried such a torch.......For the Dark Lord
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