Male and Female Imponderables--Yet Again
POSTED BY: Tristan
UPDATED: Thursday, June 15, 2006 20:08
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Not whorish at all! Got me thinking innapropriate thoughts when I should be working though!
I'd like to put a vote in for sex in the shower! Mmm, slippery! Plus you have someone to scrub your back for you afterwards!
Only thing is we have limited hot water here and getting doused with ice cold water at exactly the wrong moment isn't something I'd recommend. I'm sure they used to use that sort of thing for aversion therapy! I'm going to be so screwed up!
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Well, I was hoping to open a can of worms with this one. I am trying to see if females think similar to males in this respect.
I was a man-whore (apparently), so I don't really want to list places I have "been", as it would seem overmuch and possibly TMI. I am trying to see if there is a consensus of "bedroom" vs. "anywhere else"...but I could stand to hear a little more, if y'all want to give it. 
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NV- Ok so how unstable are we talking?? just unstable enough to be too stupid to see how great you are and actually pull her head out and do something right... or I have cut off your cat's hair and am using it in a voodoo ritual to sink the sun? I still say shaving's the way to go here
Phoenix- sure we'll just grab the nasty ex knock him out, dress him in some lovely frilly lingerie, take pics, and send them to a lovely web service to help him find new friends.
Emma- glad to see you back sweety:)and may I just say I have a friend that I've been friends with since I was 4 and I would never pick him over my husband...so don't be too sure ex flatmate would win:)
Tristan- oooh so many fun places. May I highly reccomend the trampoline. very springy! Also a big fan of dining room table. Warning not in the ocean. You can get sand in all kinds of bad places.
OK Now I have a questions for those of you out there who are couples. Does your significant other have the password to your email? My spouse feels like not sharing passwords means you have something to hide and I'd like to know what you guys think.
You're only young once, but you can be immature any time!
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msg,
Passwords. I would rather not know my wife's passwords...her email is none of my business. I see this as akin to opening regular mail or reading a diary/journal (that is not publically posted online, etc). I like my privacy, and I respect the privacy of my wife. I have nothing to hide, and neither does she. If she wants to read my email, I will let her, but I do not believe in having access to her accounts; nor do I believe in letting her have access to mine.
Hope that makes sense.
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trampoline? That seems... difficult.
In certain circumstances, I'm a fan of against the wall. Not if you're into taking a long time about it, that can be tiring.
Don't have an SO, msg, but I like to think I'd share the email password. Sometimes you need someone else to check things or send a mail, it'd just be convenient.
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Thanks Tristan makes sense and is basically what I think.
Mal4prez- oooh I'd forgotten up against a wall. Sometimes that can be seriously hot!! As for trampoline it's not difficult as long as you are lying down. It might be if you were jumping on it.
So I think that althought we usually use beds the sex you remember best or that was the hottest is usually spontaneous and in an unusual location... is that what you were looking for Tristan or did you want an opinion on which was better?
You're only young once, but you can be immature any time!
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She does tell me how great I am, but its a wonder if she really appreciates me. I should say emotionally unstable with OCD. I see the attraction, but she appears to be very fearful of my advances. Though, she never says NO when I ask her to do stuff. She is just no very reliable.
As for the places for carnal interludes, my favorites were in the great outdoors. Lots of hiking and trekking gets the blood pumping. Those serene places you find out of the way are good for more than pictures!
Jayne: I was gonna get me an ear too.
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hmmm NV sounds like she's just one of those people who is paralyzed by indecision. They are so busy envisioning the tragic possible outcomes that they can't commit to anything. That is seriously frustrating! You can only wait so long before lack of a decision feels like the answer is no.
The not saying no thing just might be a girl deal ( help me out here those of you women who are more up on female behavior) I have noticed that a large number of women will try really hard not to say no. They try to use voice tone and redirecting to keep from saying it. I think it's sort of ingrained in girls that saying no and asserting your opinion above others is bad. That's just my thought. I could be wrong:)
You're only young once, but you can be immature any time!
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msg, I am looking for where you prefer to have sex...I should have added "other than in the bedroom" but I didn't think of that at the time...
See, I have never had spontaneous sex in bed; having sex in a bed has never been a surprise for me. A bed is good, but there are so many other locations that are just so much better. And a downside to this question may be the answer; "Preference? Hell, as long as I am having sex, I don't care where I am!"...so I am seeking out where people would prefer to have sex outside the bedroom.
Is that long-winded enough? 
But again, stories of the best times will not be ignored.
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Originally posted by msg:
Mal4prez- oooh I'd forgotten up against a wall. Sometimes that can be seriously hot!! As for trampoline it's not difficult as long as you are lying down. It might be if you were jumping on it.
Even laying down, I could see the bounciness becoming a problem. Not that I wouldn't try it, if I had the chance.
Outdoors, oh yes. And in the rain? Mmmm, fun.
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