Male and Female Imponderables--Yet Again
POSTED BY: Tristan
UPDATED: Thursday, June 15, 2006 20:08
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I'm like that, too.
Ooh! Thankyou! You saved me from the indignity of having 2 posts back to back (thereby showing I spend too much time here!). Oh, hang on... I think I might have overlooked something when rushing to thank you!
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Though you was feeling a touch of DP goodness. DP all you want, we love you EMMA!
P.S. A quick note. Recent realization says Ms. Incredible may be mentally unstable. That means its not me! SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If no one caught that, I feel very shiny.
Jayne: I was gonna get me an ear too.
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On the issue of cuddling. First off, I will open myself up to ridicule by admitting that I do not, not have I ever had a girlfriend. That being said, I would enjoy simply cuddling with my girlfriend, if I ever find one, more than anything beyond that. This is due in part to my moral standards and to the fact that I would want a girlfriend who enjoyed simply being with me and I enjoyed being with here in a situation where neither is making demands on the other and we are simply being together.
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No ridicule intended. None needed. I think cuddling is a great way to be close to a person without having any sexual intenntions. No demands. Just physical closeness. I love it.
Jayne: I was gonna get me an ear too.
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Originally posted by StillFlyin:
On the issue of cuddling. First off, I will open myself up to ridicule by admitting that I do not, not have I ever had a girlfriend. That being said, I would enjoy simply cuddling with my girlfriend, if I ever find one, more than anything beyond that. This is due in part to my moral standards and to the fact that I would want a girlfriend who enjoyed simply being with me and I enjoyed being with here in a situation where neither is making demands on the other and we are simply being together.
That pretty much sums me up (though I have had a boyfriend. And an almost-girlfriend.) Cuddling is nice. It's a great way to just be with each other, and makes me really feel loved. Almost more than anything else. I mean, you know, sex is good too, but it's really just not as much fun without lots of cuddling both before and after.
I think we've talked about this before, but it was on the second thread or thereabouts, so I don't mind going into it again; I LOVE to cuddle! I cannot get enough! I love touch, I just do. I am the most touchy-feely-huggy-cuddly person I've ever known. It saddens me that I've basically neer found anyone who likes to cuddle as much as I do. I could probably cuddle for hours and be happy as a cat in the sun, but I've never found anyone willing to do so. They all get bored and hyper. So unless they fall asleep (which has also happened) not so much, and it's not the same when the other person is sleeping.
Anyway, on to jealousy; I get mad jealous when my friends enter a relatinship. Mad, mad jealous. This is for a couple reasons, probably. One is that I do tend to be attracted to many of my friends. It makes me a little sad when they don't "choose" me, but I can generally think "Wait, would that actually work?" and be fine. Mostly, though, relationships eat time. I'll admit it; I didn't have nearly as much free time when I was in one as I do now. And every time a friend of mine is in a new one, I basically never see them. It is very hurty. I won't go in to the friend I basically lost because she had no time for me and also stopped confiding in me after she slept with her boyfriend. Wait, I guess I did kinda go into it. Oh well. So yes, I get the pangs of jealousy. I don't get drunk, of course, and I usually don't insist on being taken for a drive and cuddled; that's a kind of... non-platonic thing to do. At least in my book. Everyone's friendships work differently.
Whew, long post!
Hey, so all you shiny people who are gonna go to Nevada and shave this woman and stuff... I don't suppose you would want to stop in Colorado to put my ex through the engine? You know, if it wasn't too far out of your way...
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Originally posted by StillFlyin:
On the issue of cuddling. First off, I will open myself up to ridicule by admitting that I do not, not have I ever had a girlfriend.
Morning, eveyone. Nothing to feel bad about. I've never had a boyfriend myself. And on the subject of cuddling, I've always been sort of weird about that. Sometimes I really want to be held, and sometimes I don't want anyone to touch me. As a rule, when I'm around touchy-feely kind of people, I tend to get paranoid. Just my own hang-up I guess.
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Jayne: You wanna go, little man?
Wash: Only if it's someplace with candlelight.
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Originally posted by nvghostrider:
Though you was feeling a touch of DP goodness. DP all you want, we love you EMMA!
P.S. A quick note. Recent realization says Ms. Incredible may be mentally unstable. That means its not me! SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY SHINY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If no one caught that, I feel very shiny.
Jayne: I was gonna get me an ear too.
Ah! Thank you sweetie!
And of course anyone who isn't smitten with an instant realisation that you are fantastic is quite clearly clinically insane. (I keep telling myself that aw well. The world is full of mad people. They're all MAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAD i tell you!!!!) Cough... feeling better now. Sorry, for the scary glimpse inside my head!
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Yes, yes; they're all crazy except for you and me!
And sometimes I have my doubts about you...
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Rugbug - I'm with you in the anti-list club.
OK, occasionally I make a list just to clarify things. Then I prompty lose the list. But there have been no disasters so far.
Cuddle? Looove to cuddle, but only with boyfriend. Kind of weird with others, as I like cuddling to involve things like ear-nibbling as well. And not lets have sex ear-nibbling, but... just fun. Does that make sense?
Jealousy? Not so much. Except when a romance steals a friend away, and I never get to see them. That's always sad.
Crazy? What's wrong with being crazy???
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Originally posted by PhoenixRose:
And every time a friend of mine is in a new one, I basically never see them. It is very hurty. I won't go in to the friend I basically lost because she had no time for me and also stopped confiding in me after she slept with her boyfriend.
I wouldn't call this jealousy, though, PR. I call it them being a bad friend. And why is it when they're single they always say something like, "Oh, I would never do that to my friends," and then BAM! they're gone. They just disappear and it's hard to not feel like you were filling time for them. I don't need to hang out with them all the time, but once a month would be nice.
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