Male and Female Imponderables--Yet Again

POSTED BY: Tristan
UPDATED: Thursday, June 15, 2006 20:08
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TRISTAN

Tuesday, June 13, 2006 12:56 PM

Not sure which number we're on, but we keep on going!
To those that are coming here for the first time, this is a place to pose all those questions about the opposite sex that have been nagging you. Post away, and you will get a response!

Thank you to everyone who has posted so far!

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TRISTAN

Tuesday, June 13, 2006 1:54 PM

Ok, somehow I managed to bury my own thread...

So, bumping it up above the other Imponderables thread...

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DEEPGIRL187

Tuesday, June 13, 2006 2:05 PM

Here's an imponderable:

I've heard about this from a few people. Has anyone had the experience of having one partner that is always cold and one that is always hot? Is this common?

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FUTUREMRSFILLION

Tuesday, June 13, 2006 2:08 PM

I am always cold. But I don't have a partner

I have one. Fellow women - WHY would you EVER choose a man over your children? I just don't get this. Why does our society create women that NEED a man, no matter how disgusting, to feel worthy?

I am on The List. We are The Forsaken and we aim to burn!
"We don't fear the reaper"

MAL4PREZ

Tuesday, June 13, 2006 2:08 PM

Definitely - I'm always cold, low body temp. Which makes it especially nice to snuggle, as every boyfriend I've had is warmer than me!

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ELOISA

Tuesday, June 13, 2006 2:15 PM

Maybe the hot-cold thing is like choosing partners whose body scent is very different from yours - another sign that the person is genetically dissimilar enough from you to make good babies. Not sure. As for the women, kids and men question, ick. I just feel that if women's personalities are like that, they shouldn't have kids at all. At least they'd avoid hurting the little things.

This is a question that may have been asked before but I haven't seen in its precise form (not that I've had time to read the whole of the other threads). I noticed a mention on the last thread of the male "ladder theory". Admittedly a few male posters debunked it. Guys who didn't, what's your general reaction to come-ons from women quite far down the ladder?

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DEEPGIRL187

Tuesday, June 13, 2006 2:15 PM

My guess would be poor upbringing, FMF. If you're raised in an environment where children are not valued, then it's likely you'll adopt the same beliefs. And so, a negative cycle is established.

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FUTUREMRSFILLION

Tuesday, June 13, 2006 2:22 PM

I am a bad person. She threatened to kill herself on my doorstep and I offered to help her find a way.

I will burn in hell for sure!

I am on The List. We are The Forsaken and we aim to burn!
"We don't fear the reaper"

MSG

Tuesday, June 13, 2006 2:25 PM

Deepgirl- yes I swear no matter what season we are always battleing for turning up or down the air conditioning and heater. I swear there is some car out there that has dual climate controls and I bet it was made by some engineer whose spouse drove him nuts over what temp to have in the car.

Future Mrs... Not sure why they do it, only know they should be poked repeatedly with a sharp stick to retrain them or kill them ( whatever works)

Ok and I have a questions. When it comes to cleaning the bathroom, guys do you really think it looks clean enough or do you know it's not clean and you just don't want to have to do it???Because seriously...that's not clean. All surfaces actually have to have no ick on them before it's clean.

You're only young once, but you can be immature any time!

TRISTAN

Tuesday, June 13, 2006 2:28 PM

I am always the one that is hot...at night, I need the AC and fan going. My wife likes to be warm, so she has two quilts on her side of the bed...and still manages to steal what little cover I start with! I think it may be common...most of the women I have dated/shared a bed with have been the cold-natured ones; they need warmth where I didn't. Only met a few that liked the temperature as cold as I did.

I am not a follower of the "ladder" theory, but I generally tried not to turn down anyone. However, I never really received that many come-ons to begin with...guys aren't usually as lucky as you females are in that area...

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