Male and Female Imponderables the Fifth
POSTED BY: Tristan
UPDATED: Sunday, May 28, 2006 11:01
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These posts seem to take on a life all their own! It's good to see so many posting.
Enjoy!
Holding until you get back, Captain.
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Seems like I missed the bit about the kissing. I tend to lean to the right for the initial contact, but I do like to switch up a little. Keeps it entertaining, and I love bumping noses 
Technique...I generally like the "patred lips" kisses; not the "shove your tongue down the throat", but light little licks and especially nibbles. I am a firm believer that a good session of kissing, without any other "serious" contact, can be as good or better than foreplay. Don't get me wrong, I never say no to foreplay, just sayin' that kissing can be incredibly passionate.
Alright...as I have been missing a few days, I need to get caught up on some other stuff...but I shall return!
Thank you for your patience in starting the new thread.
Holding until you get back, Captain.
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Personally I find that kissing is a big part of foreplay, depends alot on what you read into the word though.
You can’t stop the Signal.
Keep spreading the word about Firefly!
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I definitely lean right. For kissing, not for politics!!
OK, here's my new question for the new thread, even though I have a wicked busy day and may not be bale to check in for a while ....
Where's all the gay people?? I'm wondering about the show's appeal/nonappeal to the queer community, because my two best friends in the world are gay, one man, one woman. And I've tried to get both of them into Firefly - no luck! I feel like they should love the show - of course I do 
- but not so. 
So I'm just curious, and a few folks on this thread have made sly-ish comments... are there really so few gay people here?
Any thoughts?
m4p
ps - I will comment that I was in no rush to show War Stories to my lesbian friend, (even though she thinks Inara is gorgeous) because that F/F scene seems like it's out to titilliate the boys as much as anything. Judging from Jayne's reaction!! I think one needs to be schooled in Whedonism to see that there's a little more to it. ie it makes fun of Jayne.
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Have a friend who likes Firefly here in town who is bisexuall, doesnt hang on the forum though. Dont think there are less gay people here then any other group though.
You can’t stop the Signal.
Keep spreading the word about Firefly!
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My son is gay. He is a fan, though not as obsessed as me.
He is graduating this week from High School - so that may be why is focus is else wear.
Both my boys are fans and sport a browncoat shirt!
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Got a pondering of my own here. How to pick up on those invisible signals? How do you flirt and how do you know how to flirt. Myself Im pretty decent at noticing when other people are interested in each other, but Im about as perceptive as Mal when it comes to noticing when someone Im actually interested in shows an interest. To the flirtatious part of the pondering I can say that I could probebly be called a decently flirty person. I like being nice to people, usually with no intent to actually flirt. When I actually like someone however I try to get close to the person, make her feel comfertable and If possible have alot of physical contact, pretty long procese usually but it tends to work for me. How about you other folks out there?
You can’t stop the Signal.
Keep spreading the word about Firefly!
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Wish I could help, Vinterdraken, but I'm totally clueless about picking up on the clues as well. :) Alot of the time when I think I'm just exchanging witty banter, I'll find out after the fact that we were really in the process of flirting.
Come to think of it, that's what's happened with most of my girlfriends. Generally it'll be going on for months without me knowing at all. I don't think I've ever actually initiated a relationship on my own even.
My current GF, she eventually got fed up with waiting for me to pick up on the signals and asked if I wanted to hang out one day. I think even then it didn't hit me that it was a "date" until my sister was talking to me about it. :)
Anyways, hey, thread number five! I think we're officially an institution, now :P
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When the chance arises, flirt as much as possible! Although I do prefer stimulating conversation. I used to feel guilty about flirting, seeing it as a sexual prelude, but that whole thing about making the other person comfortable with you is right on. I feel it to be one of the greatest feelings in the world to have that comfort with a woman and not HAVE to sleep with her, (plus it keeps me out of trouble)
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I am a flirt. Its just the way I interact with men. I do not do it as a precusor to sexual activity. It can just be about being funny or charming and making someones day. I also find that it makes co-workers/work partners easier to deal with.
I find that the "just friendly flirting" is slighty different then the "I am interested" kind. There is a subtle difference. People who are interested tend to "go there". Meaning they make more suggestive comments than those that are just being friendly. I can't really explain it.
But flirting is good for you!
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