Male and Female Imponderables, the Third
POSTED BY: Tristan
UPDATED: Thursday, May 18, 2006 01:06
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Originally posted by Dayve:
...hum...special brownies...this reminds me of a conversation i recently had with a couple of female friends - they both agreed that they preferred to smoke a little weed before sex. One even went so far as to say that she had never achieved an orgasm until she tried pot, but since then she has had the best "results" only after smoking....
I'm not necessariy advocating this method, but if it works, why not... just wondered if anyone has had this experience...
That is in fact the strangest thing I've ever heard.
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ok, so i guess that's a No from PhoenixRose....
(really, i didn't make that up...honest)
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Originally posted by Dayve:
ok, so i guess that's a No from PhoenixRose....
(really, i didn't make that up...honest)
That would be a definite No from the straight-edged one, yes.
I'm sure you didn't make it up, just weird to me. I don't want to sound superior or something, here, but it makes me a little sad that there are women who can't orgasm without an outside chemical. It tells me they have a lot of barriers that they refuse to let down; a serious and unaddressed problem locking them off from pleasure unless something messes with their chemistry. It's too bad. I know a girl with that kind of barrier. Don't think she's used pot to overcome it (at least, not in that way) but she completely shuts down at the mention of anything sexual because she says she doesn't want to be vulnerable. I think something happened to her that she hasn't looked at yet to make her feel this way, and I really hope she addresses it someday because she's a lovely person who deserves to experience true intimacy.
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Hey Dayve -
That actually surprises me. Dope can get me in the mood, but not in any place where it can be acted on. I just go to sleep!
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Mal4prez...
yeah, i find that to be true as well...
But as far as the female orgasm, i have to plead a certain amount of ignorance... I've always considered myself an unselfish lover (hopefully more than adequate anyway), and I have always done my best to please whomever i was with - my wife has no complaints...Like all couples who are successful in maintaining a good relationship, we are very open and honest with one another in the love making department (in all things really)...and we have never needed any outside "help" to satisfy each other.... but i am a just a dumb male and human at that, so usually when the kinds of conversations arise (like the one mentioned above) - i try to seem knowlegable or at the very least, interested in what i'm hearing... but we're entering into some of the deepest realms of ancient mystery to the average man - I've never had a woman crack open a book and pick up in Chaper 10 during love making, but I don't doubt that some have faked orgasm just to be nice... So, I don't think anything should be disregarded, if that something can help a woman (or man) achieve sexual pleasure....
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Dayve-
That's one of the stranger things I've heard. As for me, I don't know that it would change anything. I've never tried that, but I've also never been able to get high off of marijuana. I think I'm immune.
One of my friends made special tea before. Apparently that was delicious.
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necessity.
Its hormonal. I SWEAR!
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Originally posted by Dayve:
ok, so i guess that's a No from PhoenixRose....
(really, i didn't make that up...honest)
That would be a definite No from the straight-edged one, yes.
I'm sure you didn't make it up, just weird to me. I don't want to sound superior or something, here, but it makes me a little sad that there are women who can't orgasm without an outside chemical. It tells me they have a lot of barriers that they refuse to let down; a serious and unaddressed problem locking them off from pleasure unless something messes with their chemistry. It's too bad. I know a girl with that kind of barrier. Don't think she's used pot to overcome it (at least, not in that way) but she completely shuts down at the mention of anything sexual because she says she doesn't want to be vulnerable. I think something happened to her that she hasn't looked at yet to make her feel this way, and I really hope she addresses it someday because she's a lovely person who deserves to experience true intimacy.
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One summer.
One mission.
One legion of Browncoats.
Starting June 23rd, we aim to misbehave.
You're mostly right with the barrier theory.
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OK so THATS weird! Immune?
Well Dayve, don't "need" it, but it does help. As a matter of fact I don't touch the stuff precisely because it causes me to lose my clothing. Its instaneous. Buzz, lose clothing.
I am the came way with Tequila.
Jose Cuervo is the friend of the man I am with 
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FMF - you're hilarious! You must be the life of the party!
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I am the came way with Tequila.
Freudian slip?
Immune not SO weird - I was immune through undergrad, it took until I had a boyfriend with a serious habit that I tried enough to get past the immunity.
I think it was the jacked onion soup that did it.
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