Male and Female Imponderables, the Third
POSTED BY: Tristan
UPDATED: Thursday, May 18, 2006 01:06
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My darling Chollette please please please break up with the girl! She's way too young for you. The teen years can really mess a person up if they try to grow up to fast.
I understand it's safer to be with someone younger because it's your first girlfriend but move on darlin.
I don't mean to be rude at all that's just my opinion.
An I carried such a torch
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Originally posted by EmmaRigby:
Yep, an all girls school can really scew your perception. I wen't from thinking that all boys were hrrible spotty little gits to thinking that they were the essential meaning of life. I feel I have matured some now and realise that the truth lies somewhere in the middle!
Anough of my mis-spent youth. Time to hear about someone else's. I've actually never hear of anyone who's first time was something they remembered as a mind-blowingly wonderful experience. Am I just jaded, do such people exist?
I very very much enjoyed my first time. I'm the only one I've ever talked to who can say that, though. Not that it didn't hurt, of course, but it was still very nice. It blew my mind with the newness, and once the shock was over... well, suffice to say my mind was blown another way
But as I state over and over, I'm pretty rare when it comes to views and experiences with sex. And I only ever slept with the one guy at this point... oh man, I miss that...
Gorram this thread got long while I was away!
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One summer.
One mission.
One legion of Browncoats.
Starting June 23rd, we aim to misbehave.
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Okay! Gotten caught up now!
Okay, first, Chollette, I agree with the others here. A girl in 8th grade is too young for you. Now you've kinda got your toes in the dating pool, so I say go for this other who is closer to your age. The younger one does probably (I hope) see you as a really good friend, esspecially as you haven't kissed her yet. I agree that it would be much healthier for her to just leave it that way. I have compared the two social groups in my life; those that dated really young, and those who didn't date until later, and those who waited (myself included) are much better off. Don't feel bad about not doing much yet, esspecially being shy. I have a very shy friend who didn't kiss anyone til she was nineteen, and still hasn't gone further at 23, and I commend her for waiting because it did me worlds of good. I didn't kiss anyone til I was nearly 17 (I was 16 and 11 months to be exact) and was intimate until two years later. I totally beleive this was the right decision. I know you feel a bit inadequate right now, surrounded by people who are trying to grow up too fast, but you really shouldn't!
Okay, moving on to earlier disscussion:
I never have trouble telling if someone is interested in me. My big clue is if they keep seeking me out to talk to me or stare at me when they are talking to me. Sometimes I pretend to be clueless because I'm not interested, and sometimes the chemistry isn't there for me so I just smile and nod and eventually wander off. Not trying to sound like a horrible person here; just don't want anyone to get false hope. My big problem tends to be more getting them to realize I'm interested in them. I've talked to so many guys who are all like "Well, I didn't know if you were serious or just flirting..." For crying out loud! Really, it's a duration thing. If it's really quick, it probably is "just flirting" but if I keep trying to talk to you you should notice meeeeeeeee!
Sorry. Whine whine whine. I haven't even found a guy interested in flirting with me as of late. I can be a good flirt, but if I'm getting nothing back I kinda get stumped. Mrrrrrrrrrr.
Anyway, great discussion up there! Sorry to have missed so much of it in my pursuit of sleep 
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One summer.
One mission.
One legion of Browncoats.
Starting June 23rd, we aim to misbehave.
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I have become a none.
Ain't got none
Ain't gonna get none.
I am alone in my aloneness 
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Originally posted by FutureMrsFIllion:
I have become a none.
Ain't got none
Ain't gonna get none.
I am alone in my aloneness
Awwwwwwwwww...
*hugs FMF and pats her back*
We are both alone in aloneness, honey, it's okay!
Be right back!
*runs to get ice cream*
There! Comfort chick fest!
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One summer.
One mission.
One legion of Browncoats.
Starting June 23rd, we aim to misbehave.
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ICE CREAM!!!!!!! ICE CREAM!!!!!!
All is right in my world now 
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I wuv you too FutureMrsFillion. Brownies and vodka here for you if you want them. Also I don't know if it's you're cup of tea but I have double western bacon cheesburgers by the truck load. They always make me feel better.
An I carried such a torch
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Brownies and vodka! That reminds me of high school! Shiny!
and I wuv you
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Hahahahahahahaha
Brownies and vodka is exactly like high school!
An I carried such a torch
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we used to carry baby bottles with "milk" and "juice" until the GORRAM administration discovered our ruse!
I was a bad bad girl with a mispent youth
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