Male and Female Imponderables, the Third

POSTED BY: Tristan
UPDATED: Thursday, May 18, 2006 01:06
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TRISTAN

Tuesday, May 16, 2006 6:25 PM

Greetings, all! I am glad to see this thread is as popular as the last few.
I just got back from a meeting, so I am a bit behind on work...I will try to post answers if I get a chance.

Holding until you get back, Captain.

SIMONWHO

Tuesday, May 16, 2006 6:25 PM

The most common way of telling is by touch. You touch them on the arm or the hand or the shoulder or however and see how they react.

Haven't you ever seen someone you wanted and just been desperate for them to touch you? Likewise, hasn't the touch of someone you didn't feel that way about unnerved you and made you withdraw? (Side note: I once nearly had to break the fingers of a girl who would not let go of my hand. Not that this was a regular happening but still... let go, let go! She was also the only person I ever fell asleep whilst talking to them.)

So, touch them and see.

COPILOT

Tuesday, May 16, 2006 6:27 PM

You know it is easier to tell if someone's hitting on me if they're involved with someone else. Maybe it's just that if they go out of their way to talk to you without their better half around you know something's up.

An I carried such a torch

FUTUREMRSFILLION

Tuesday, May 16, 2006 6:29 PM

The unnerved part - yeah- but I am divorcing him so that's solved :)

OK HERE is a question my wise male comrades -

There is this man. We "work" together at partner companies. We have never met. We talk on the phone constantly, we email, he picks on me AND he sends me emails on the weekends asking me to call him when he has the weekend shift. BUT he is MARRIED! WTF?

RHYIANAN

Tuesday, May 16, 2006 6:30 PM

I'm with the rest of the clueless people. How do you tell when a guy is interested? I too have had the experience of having a nice conversation and later being told that the guy was hitting on me.

Even more pitiful, I have actually gone on a date without realizing that it was a date because I had no clue the guy was into me.

Please someone, give us some insight.

COPILOT

Tuesday, May 16, 2006 6:34 PM

hahahaha I know the feeling! I've aparently been oh a bunch of dates that I had no idea were dates! My first date with my current significant other being a great example. As far as I knew it was just hanging out with a new person. He on the other hand went to great lenghts to make it special. I was clueless untill he asked to kiss me.

An I carried such a torch

FUTUREMRSFILLION

Tuesday, May 16, 2006 6:38 PM

I haven't been on a date since August of 1987.

I have been separated since July of this year. I sit, all alone, meditating on me belly button.

Sniff Sniff.

COPILOT

Tuesday, May 16, 2006 6:43 PM

Awwwww sorry kiddo! Boys are stupid anyway! And they've got coodies!

An I carried such a torch

DEEPGIRL187

Tuesday, May 16, 2006 6:44 PM

*big hug*

Try not to feel too bad. I've never even been on a date.

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"The path of the righteous man is beset on all sides by the inequities of the selfish and the tyranny of evil men. Blessed is he who, in the name of charity and good will, shepherds the weak through the valley of the darkness. For he is truly his brother's keeper and the finder of lost children. And I will strike down upon thee with great vengeance and furious anger those who attempt to poison and destroy my brothers. And you will know I am the Lord when I lay my vengeance upon you."

FUTUREMRSFILLION

Tuesday, May 16, 2006 6:50 PM

And lets keep it that way young lady! No dates for you until you have completed college, made the world a better place and have a cool million in the bank.

Then well, we will talk!

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