Male and Female Imponderables, the Third
POSTED BY: Tristan
UPDATED: Thursday, May 18, 2006 01:06
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Gotta say that guy does need to get his asrse kicked!!! Hard! Yipes all girl school?!? I can see that causeing a person to be a little less selective in the dating department.
An I carried such a torch
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Yep, an all girls school can really scew your perception. I wen't from thinking that all boys were hrrible spotty little gits to thinking that they were the essential meaning of life. I feel I have matured some now and realise that the truth lies somewhere in the middle!
Anough of my mis-spent youth. Time to hear about someone else's. I've actually never hear of anyone who's first time was something they remembered as a mind-blowingly wonderful experience. Am I just jaded, do such people exist?
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you guys are sure hard to keep up with... you hop around threads like your dancing on the sun.... (sorry, but i've been stranded in the Catsup vs. Ketchup thread for about a week now)....
ok, so i didn't just fall off of the turnip truck...well, actually i did and boy did it hurt... but i'll give you the beauty is only skin deep thing... i dig brains.... (not professionaly of course)...
but...Babes (xcuse the slang)...but Babes get more perks than anything.... the worst driver i've ever known - cute blonde....perky nips...you know the type.... never had a ticket in her life....she could run me over, back up and do it again....drive away in the wrong lane and i would get the ticket.... i don't think the cute factor applies to guys in this case.... i just can't bring myself to roll my eyes and purse my lips at a big, burly highway patrol man....
where is the justice in that?
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Quote:
Originally posted by Dayve:
Babes get more perks than anything....
where is the justice in that?
Grrr! Don't even get me started. I've had two dream jobs stolen out from under me by pretty leggy blondes. One of them I could conceivably believe was cleverer than me (although I have to say she his it very well) but the other was a complete cow and, completely co-incidentally, happened to have just started sleeping with the guy in charge! But I'm not bitter, no I wish them both well in life.
[sound of teeth grinding]
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Poor Emma!!!
Yeah the more attractive a person is the better they get treated. It sucks!
Although sometimes being attractive can work against a person. I'm not bad looking so sometimes women don't like me automatically. But usually they arn't very interesting people to begin with.
An I carried such a torch
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Quote:
Originally posted by Dayve:
(sorry, but i've been stranded in the Catsup vs. Ketchup thread for about a week now)....
Oooh oooh where is it?
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Quote:
Originally posted by Rhyianan:
I'm with the rest of the clueless people. How do you tell when a guy is interested? I too have had the experience of having a nice conversation and later being told that the guy was hitting on me.
Even more pitiful, I have actually gone on a date without realizing that it was a date because I had no clue the guy was into me.
Please someone, give us some insight.
I've done that!!! It's totally embarassing. Thankfully, I don't have to risk ever seeing him again.
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Well my first time was an attempt to see what "all the fuss was about" at 16.
His name was Jim. He was loverly. He liked me A LOT. Got SO STONED on his way over that when we finally got to business he missed. Completely 4 times.
So I was left in relatively pristine state for another year
LOL
That is so funny!
::blush:
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I just found this thread, and i have enjoyed the thoughtful and (relatively) clean replies to such topics (knives? eugh). Having read this, there is something i feel i need to share/ask opinions about.
I've been "going out" with a grade 8 at my school for about 3 months now, having known her for about 4. I myself am a 17 and a half year old Grade 12 male. This is my first gf, and at this point in time we still haven't kissed. 17 and a half and never been kissed. You wouldn't believe how damaging that can be to one's self esteem in today's society, watching all my friends snogging at drunken parties and having had significant others since the seventh grade. I have always been raised to be the polite person, and i have always been quite on the shy side (though i've gotten more outgoing in the past few years), which probably explains the sitch. Anywhoo, we haven't really done anything yet barring frequent dog walks and the occasional DVD viewing. No real "dates", per se.
My fear is, that this is finally taking its toll. She's a nice girl and i like her a lot, and she's surprisingly mature for her age. But this past month or so i have found myself having strong feelings for someone else as well, who is a 10th grader and a long-term family friend, who i find myself seeing in a new light recently. I dont like my gf any less, but this has royally fogged things up. And i feel utterly terrible. I don't want to be THAT guy, and i don't want to risk the uber-long-term friendship i have with this other person, and i have no reason to believe that my feelings are reciprocated. Just very good friends. I feel like a vile human being and a huge, well, lets say starts with a B and rhymes w/mastered (Never cussed yet, barring Gorram). I hate this situation and i hope it will pass, but this has been a gradually rising issue for months now, longer than the time i've known my gf.
What do i do? I need to be consoled, flamed, or something. I just don't know what to do. Any opinions? 
Oy. Done venting. Great thing about FFF.net. I wouldn't feel comfortable doing this anywhere else.
I'm babbling like a moonbrain.
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OK Sweet heart. I speak from my heart, with love and joy that you are respectful of her and yourself. But I have to say, again with love, YOU ARE TOO FREAKIN OLD FOR HER!
You are 17? She is what? 13. You are in 2 different galaxies - eons apart.
You need to convey to her your love and respect and you need to tell her that you want her to be happy and to have a good, healthy life and you need to move on.
You stay with her and you are going to be bringing her into a world she is unprepared for, should you have sex. A world that regardless of her maturity she is too young for.
But thats just me.
edited - then go out and find a girl that is in your age group that you can have fun with and feel comfortable with. This girl that is a good friend - just be friends and you will find out in time if it is something more.
It isn't a crime to not have had sex or snogged at 17. It isn't a crime not to have dated at 17. Your friends that have been dating since 7th grade are moving too fast.
It is better in life, when you have these feelings, to be honest and kind to your girl/wife/lover. It is more cruel to let it get to the point that you cheat or start to resent them.
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