Male and Female Imponderables Part Deux
POSTED BY: Tristan
UPDATED: Monday, May 15, 2006 20:33
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I use a razor myself. Knees and ankles were a problem at first, but I've gotten pretty good at it by now.
I've done aminimal body hair thing. I never shaved my arms, but I did shave abut everything else. It was nice...
Ok, at the risk of being maybe slightly too... earthy, am I the only woman on the planet who has multiples every time? I have actually read a few statements by "experts" who say that it's impossible that any woman would have an orgasm every time, let alone more than one. I really, really don't believe that. Well, I wouldn't. But I can't beleive that I'm some kind of freak of nature. That would make me very sad for other women. Say it isn't so!
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Starting June 23rd, we aim to misbehave.
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I am so very envious of you right now. Every time?! Really?! You are not a freak you are a goddess!
An I carried such a torch
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Yes, every time.
I think it's how I view the nervous system. Since all nerves are connected and I can feel that, stimulation anywhere is, well, very effective. I really don't even need *direct* stimulation. In fact, happening too early on, direct stimulation hurts. I'm pretty sensitive until total arousal hits. Anyway, I really believe anyone can learn how to feel that; my ex had full-body orgasms if I knawed on him just right, but he'd never had them before. Sometimes it took awhile working one spot, but it did happen. Training the mind to focus right can be tricky at first, because you have to think about it, but it's not difficult, and the benefits are... Well, you know.
The mind is the most imprtant resource we have in any situation. The mind and the spirit, because to me having a connection with the other person is very important as well. I can't open up to someone I don't trust, so I wouldn't get the same effect without a connection of spirit. I just see the body as a channel for the mind and spirit, so when everything's involved the results can be mind-blowing. Am I making sense?
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You're crystal darlin.
An I carried such a torch
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Makes perfect sense. I am no Cassanova, but I have a bit of experience when it comes to the female orgasm. I have dated a multiple, and I have also dated (actually, she was my first wife) a woman who had never had one. I mean ever. I saw that as a challenge, but gave up after a year. But, yes, the connection thing is very important for total satisfaction. I have had that a few times, and have it with my wife now...and when things work right, it's mind blowing!
No, as a male, I am also capable of coupling with someone I don't really like and still enjoy myself. PhoenixRose, you sort of hinted that you were not able to fully enjoy yourself with someone you don't have a connection with...does the same go for everyone else?
Holding until you get back, Captain.
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Originally posted by lysander:
Changing things up a bit. What do all of you think about spooning? Good, bad, never tried it,etc.
Oh dear, we've ignored Lysander!
Spooning... can be good. I like cuddling face to face a bit more, but spooning tends to stay comfortable longer for sleeping, etc. It kinda depends on the people, though. Or even the mood. Sometimes it can be awkward for whatever reason; just doesn't mesh right. But mostly I would say I like it.
I have another question. Body types; what do you prefer? I tend to like some softness in my partner. Not, y'know, really overweight, but not hard and muscle-bound, either. It's just cuddlier and nicer and more fun when you can squeeze someone, or pet them without too much resistance.
I bring it up because there seems to be a prevailing attitude that thin, bony women are more attractive than women with some meat on their bones. Also, that ridiculously muscled men without any softness to them are more attractive than, well, semi-muscular men
Not that flab is attractive, but some subcutaneous softness I like. Any thoughts?
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Originally posted by Tristan:
PhoenixRose, you sort of hinted that you were not able to fully enjoy yourself with someone you don't have a connection with.
No, I just can't bring myself to be casual. Not that I would condemn those who do, you know, I just feel... icky. My first "boyfriend" and I didn't get very far physically because I started feeling sick after a certain point, and that makes it hard to enjoy yourself. Something about self-respect and viewing sex as sacred just triggered something in me, I guess. He and I ended up not getting along very well. Actually, I dated a couple impatient jackasses before finding someone willing to wait a bit for me.
But hey, I like to think I'm well worth the wait
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Yes, we did jump right over that, didn't we? Sorry , Lysander!
Spooning is actually quite nice. Comfortable way to begin falling asleep, and a good way to snuggle and whisper sweet nothings as your lover drifts off to sleep...
But, on the flip side, it does sometimes get akward...there is always that arm that you have to place just right, or it falls asleep before you do.
Body types: I prefer softness and curves as opposed to wafer-thin with all sorts of bones pointing out all over the place. I like being able to bite/nibble, and if there is just skin and bone, I could chip teeth 
Not quite Rubenesque, but...well, PhoenixRose's description of "subcutaneous softness" sums it up pretty well.
I am also proud to state that I am not one of those muscle-bound hard bodies. I do have developed legs, and sort of a wiry upper body, but I also have softness in the middle. I like to call it "relaxed muscle"...when I need it, it will be there 
This is just the opinion of one...
Holding until you get back, Captain.
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PhoenixRose, thank you for that. And you're right; the right woman is worth waiting for!
Back to the casual thing...it can't be just guys who can do this. If it were, then there wouldn't be a question about it. I was never a male slut, but I did have a few meaningless flings with partners who were seeking the same thing. Is this a widespread phenomenon? I am not sure that all males were brought up viewing sex as "sacred"...more of a rite of passage. That may be wrong, but it seems to be the norm. You very rarely hear of a man "saving himself from marriage"...please don't tear me apart for stating these things; I am trying to get more views on these things.
Holding until you get back, Captain.
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Good morning Phoenixrose and Tristan. Don't worry about the whole ignoring thing. It was just something to talk about. I agree Tristan. Spooning is a nice way to fall asleep, but I have woken up many a time with a loss of sensation in one arm. There has got to be some way to avoid. Haven't figured it out yet.
Phoenixrose, I completely agree with the body thing. There is plenty of time for bones when you're dead. Skin and bones are very unattractive. A little meat is good. I am by no means muscular but my wife likes it. I, like Tristan, have some softness in the middle. But, I like to steal the line that it's the protective covering for my six pack.
And my wife is a multiple. She orgasms everytime.
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