The Undoing of Joss Whedon – Jan. 17, 2022

POSTED BY: second
UPDATED: Thursday, April 27, 2023 09:14
VIEWED: 7179
PAGE 1 of 3

1 2 3 NEXT PAGE

SECOND

Friday, January 21, 2022 6:32 PM

Lila Shapiro interviews Joss Whedon. Whedon once wrote a line that could have served as a warning to all of us. In Firefly, one of the crew members, Jayne, accidentally tosses the spoils of a botched robbery into the hands of the town’s poor. Jayne is not a good man, but when he returns to the town years later, he sees its residents have erected a statue in his honor. When he confides to the crew’s captain that he’s unsettled by this development, the captain just stares into the distance. “It’s my estimation that every man ever got a statue made of ’em was one kinda sombitch or another,” he says. “Ain’t about you, Jayne. It’s about what they need.”

“Nobody ever fell from a pedestal into anything but a pit,” Whedon told me on a call one day. A few months had passed since our conversations at his house. In that time, he’d finally made peace with himself, he said.

************************

The Firefly creator, once an icon of Hollywood feminism, is now an outcast accused of misogyny. How did he get here?

As fans, we have a bad habit of deifying those whose work we respect. When you build these people up so big they have nowhere to go but down, I don’t know why we’re surprised when they turn out to be fallible humans who fall.

This past spring, Whedon invited me to spend a couple of afternoons with him at his home in Los Angeles. By then, I had spoken with dozens of people who knew him; after months of agonizing over whether to grant my request for an interview, he had decided to talk, too. Whedon, 57, lives in Santa Monica, 13 blocks from the ocean, on a street lined with magnolia trees and $5 million homes. His house is open, airy, modern. He sat hunched over on a black leather couch, his fingers clicking together, the thumbs tapping each of the other digits in quick succession whenever the conversation shifted toward his recent troubles. Pale and angular with bags under his eyes, he no longer much resembled the plump-cheeked Puck who once impishly urged a profile writer to describe him as “doughy” and “jowly.” It was a perfect day in Santa Monica, as almost every day in Santa Monica is. But Whedon wanted to stay inside. Gazing through a wall of glass at his lush backyard, he announced in his quiet rumble of a voice that he was thinking of getting curtains. “The sun is my enemy,” he said.

Scattered around the room were paintings by his wife, the artist Heather Horton. They got married in February 2021, just after the wave of allegations had crested. At the sound of the garage door opening, his shoulders relaxed. “Heather’s coming back,” he said. She breezed through the room in a sundress and complimented me on my glasses. Then she was gone. Picking up a cup of tea, Whedon said he could no longer remain silent as people tried to pry his legacy from his hands. But there was a problem. Those people had set out to destroy him and would surely seize on his every utterance in an attempt to finish the job. “I’m terrified,” he said, “of every word that comes out of my mouth.”

In 2006, Equality Now presented Whedon with an award at an evening dedicated to honoring “men on the front lines” of feminism. In his speech, Whedon referred to his mother as “extraordinary, inspirational, tough, cool,” and “sexy.”

Sitting in his living room, he told me he sees a different side of her now. “She was a remarkable woman and an inspiring person,” he said, “but sometimes those are hard people to be raised by.”

Whedon had been thinking a lot about his childhood. He had been in therapy for the past few years, ever since he checked himself into an addiction-treatment center in Florida for a monthlong stay. As a younger man, he had channeled his pain into his work, but he was never particularly interested in picking apart the stories he always told himself about his past. Now, he didn’t have much else to do. The allegations against him had led friends to stop calling. He was out of work and wasn’t writing. What story could he even tell? There were things about his life he was only beginning to understand. “Not the things bein

SECOND

Monday, January 24, 2022 6:54 AM

https://www.penny-arcade.com/comic/2022/01/21/joss

The Joss Whedon script for Serenity, where Wash lives, is Serenity-190pages.pdf at https://www.mediafire.com/two

THG

Monday, January 24, 2022 9:03 PM

Nothing about his victims? Whedon had a “history of being casually cruel.”

T

SECOND

Wednesday, January 26, 2022 12:51 AM

Quote:
Originally posted by THG:

Nothing about his victims? Whedon had a “history of being casually cruel.”

T

You wanna victim's story? Here's a story, told by the victim:

When Arden Leigh met Whedon in 2012, she was a sex educator in her 20s and author of The New Rules of Attraction, a book about being a female pickup artist. She picked him up at a club. After their second date, Whedon sent her DVDs of Dollhouse. The heroine, played by Buffy alum Eliza Dushku, has no friends, no family, and no personality. A secret corporation has used advanced technology to erase her memory and turn her into a “doll” — a living robot customized to cater to the darkest desires of the company’s wealthy clients. Some critics argued the premise was sexist, but Leigh, who’d worked as a professional dominatrix, related to the dolls and was moved by Whedon’s depiction of them. She and Whedon began a relationship as “owner and doll.” For the most part, she found it gratifying, and she believed he did too.

Whedon told Leigh he identified with a character in Dollhouse: Topher, the nerdy scientist who imprints the dolls with their personalities. It’s not a flattering comparison. As one of Topher’s colleagues points out, he was picked to work at the dollhouse because he had no morals: “You had always thought of people as playthings. This is not a judgment. You always take good care of your toys.” That last line is disingenuous. Topher doesn’t take good care of his dolls, and in the end, according to Leigh, neither did Whedon. On Dollhouse, she reminded me, bad dolls are banished to “the attic,” a room where they are forced to relive their worst nightmares over and over. In her epilogue to The New Rules of Attraction, Leigh wrote that one of her worst memories was of a boyfriend breaking up with her on her birthday. Whedon read the book, and they talked about the epilogue. In 2015, hours before her birthday, he came over to her house and told her their relationship was over. “If he was like, What could I do to Arden that would be her worst nightmare?, that would have been it,” she said. “Joss destroyed a beautiful thing just to show he had the power to. That’s literally everything you need to know about him.”

More stories at https://www.vulture.com/article/joss-whedon-allegations.html

You can read the book Joss Whedon read, Arden Leigh, The New Rules of Attraction: How to Get Him, Keep Him, and Make Him Beg for More
from the mirrors at
https://libgen.unblockit.how/search.php?req=The+New+Rules+of+Attractio
n

Before you download the book, a long quote from Joss Whedon's victim, Arden Leigh, Chapter Twenty "CLOSING THE DEAL"

When I was still a very young girl, my mother had an astrologer draw up my birth chart. The astrologer said something that I have remembered ever since my mother deemed me old enough to tell it to me: “Sex will be her Achilles heel.”

I’ve never been sure what that meant. In my late teens and early twenties when I was still a virgin, I feared it meant I’d never be very good at the act itself. Other times I’ve feared it meant my weakness for sex would keep me in relationships that weren’t right for me (which has happened from time to time, admittedly, but never to any great detriment other than boredom). Still other times I’ve feared it meant I would give in to the temptation of sex too easily.

I’ve read so many advisories urging women to hold out on sex for as long as possible and make a man really work to earn her. The trouble with this is that when I find someone I desire, I really enjoy sex. Sometimes when you’re in a bar and you meet a Tommy Hilfiger model, you end up on his rooftop later that night and you love every minute of it. I don’t think women ought to apologize for enjoying sex. I don’t think we really need to pretend to be prudes, as long as we remember to look out for our

THG

Wednesday, January 26, 2022 11:05 PM

I'm pretty sure his victims second don't much care about why; but instead, what, he did to them.

T

SECOND

Thursday, January 27, 2022 12:31 AM

Quote:
Originally posted by THG:

I'm pretty sure his victims second don't much care about why; but instead, what, he did to them.

T

Everybody that watched a Joss Whedon show was the victim. I have known bosses who were cheating/lying bastards like Whedon and they didn't get much high quality work done in a 40 hour week, but despite that they bragged about their accomplishments as if they were the Center of the Universe. Their co-workers were actually doing most of the real work to keep the Whedonesque bastard from being fired. For most of his career, Joss has been goofing off and other people have done the actual work that Joss takes credit for doing.

Buffy ended in 2003, but his affairs did not. He slept with employees, fans, and colleagues. Eventually, his wife found out. In 2012, they split up. After learning he had been deceiving her for 15 years, she was diagnosed with complex PTSD.
https://www.vulture.com/article/joss-whedon-allegations.html

The adulterous bosses I've known didn't get much work done because they were tired, hungover, depressed about their marriage, etc. Joss Whedon was not different from them.

The Joss Whedon script for Serenity, where Wash lives, is Serenity-190pages.pdf at https://www.mediafire.com/two

THG

Thursday, January 27, 2022 8:06 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by second:
Quote:
Originally posted by THG:

I'm pretty sure his victims second don't much care about why; but instead, what, he did to them.

T

Everybody that watched a Joss Whedon show was the victim. I have known bosses who were cheating/lying bastards like Whedon and they didn't get much high quality work done in a 40 hour week, but despite that they bragged about their accomplishments as if they were the Center of the Universe. Their co-workers were actually doing most of the real work to keep the Whedonesque bastard from being fired. For most of his career, Joss has been goofing off and other people have done the actual work that Joss takes credit for doing.

Buffy ended in 2003, but his affairs did not. He slept with employees, fans, and colleagues. Eventually, his wife found out. In 2012, they split up. After learning he had been deceiving her for 15 years, she was diagnosed with complex PTSD.
https://www.vulture.com/article/joss-whedon-allegations.html

The adulterous bosses I've known didn't get much work done because they were tired, hungover, depressed about their marriage, etc. Joss Whedon was not different from them.

The Joss Whedon script for Serenity, where Wash lives, is Serenity-190pages.pdf at https://www.mediafire.com/two

OK

T

SECOND

Friday, January 28, 2022 5:42 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by THG:

OK

T

According to ScreenRant, the Firefly episodes were accidentally aired out of order. (I'm confident that was NOT an accident.) They kicked things off with the second installment, and the pilot was the last episode to debut. When Joss made the pilot, he did what pleased himself, but FOX was not pleased. Joss couldn't conceal that pilot like he concealed adultery. FOX took action against Joss by premiering Firefly in the Friday Night Death Slot. FOX knew Friday is the worst day for TV. I think FOX wanted a quick divorce from Joss although their marriage produced some beautiful children -- the episodes of Firefly. Too bad FOX/Joss broke up so soon. There could have been 100 children (assuming Joss didn't find other obnoxious ways to make FOX pissed off at him).

Why was Firefly cancelled
https://www.google.com/search?q=why+was+firefly+cancelled

The Joss Whedon script for Serenity, where Wash lives, is Serenity-190pages.pdf at https://www.mediafire.com/two

THG

Saturday, January 29, 2022 12:17 AM

Quote:
Originally posted by second:
Quote:
Originally posted by THG:

OK

T

According to ScreenRant, the Firefly episodes were accidentally aired out of order. (I'm confident that was NOT an accident.) They kicked things off with the second installment, and the pilot was the last episode to debut. When Joss made the pilot, he did what pleased himself, but FOX was not pleased. Joss couldn't conceal that pilot like he concealed adultery. FOX took action against Joss by premiering Firefly in the Friday Night Death Slot. FOX knew Friday is the worst day for TV. I think FOX wanted a quick divorce from Joss although their marriage produced some beautiful children -- the episodes of Firefly. Too bad FOX/Joss broke up so soon. There could have been 100 children (assuming Joss didn't find other obnoxious ways to make FOX pissed off at him).

Why was Firefly cancelled
https://www.google.com/search?q=why+was+firefly+cancelled

I love firefly but not buffy or the other one Angel, I think. I love the shield series and what he did with the Avengers, but his public personality was a complete con. Apparently, he was a prick.

I don't wish to take shots at the guy, and he doesn't answer to me, but you reap what you sow. Having liked him and been a fan, it's a bit of a letdown.

T

SECOND

Monday, January 31, 2022 5:46 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by THG:

I love firefly but not buffy or the other one Angel, I think. I love the shield series and what he did with the Avengers, but his public personality was a complete con. Apparently, he was a prick.

I don't wish to take shots at the guy, and he doesn't answer to me, but you reap what you sow. Having liked him and been a fan, it's a bit of a letdown.

T

My theory is that Joss pissed off FOX TV people who then placed Firefly in the Friday Night Death Slot and scrambled the viewing order of episodes.

Joss could get back to work by writing comic books. He did The Runaways. If he delivers scripts on time and avoids obnoxiousness, he won't be cancelled. Since Joss delivered only 6 issues in 14 months, it is not a certainty he won't get cancelled. Runaways #25-30 (April 2007 - June 2008)

The Joss Whedon Era
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_Runaways_story_arcs#The_Joss_Whe
don_era

The Joss Whedon script for Serenity, where Wash lives, is Serenity-190pages.pdf at https://www.mediafire.com/two

1 2 3 NEXT PAGE