Imponderable Water Cooler- Like a bolt from the blue

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MSG

Monday, July 30, 2007 2:31 PM

NV- wore out your pants...and in that area huh?? hmmm wonder how that could have happened

HUGS those who will miss out...

But Rugbug you won't be shy with us...you know us already:)

Morning all

"I'm not all that interested in the mental health of people who want to kill me. "- Leroy Jethro Gibbs

ZEEK

Monday, July 30, 2007 4:30 PM

I saws a MsG birthday thread. It's your birthday MsG? Why isn't there a celebration in here? We don't need no separate thread to celebrate.

Happy Birthday MsG!

MSG

Monday, July 30, 2007 4:35 PM

Aww thanks Zeek! HUSG. So how was your weekend?

"I'm not all that interested in the mental health of people who want to kill me. "- Leroy Jethro Gibbs

NVGHOSTRIDER

Monday, July 30, 2007 4:46 PM

Aww. Happy Berfday MSG.

ZEEK

Monday, July 30, 2007 4:57 PM

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Originally posted by msg:
Aww thanks Zeek! HUSG. So how was your weekend?

More or less relaxing, but on Sunday my mouse's left click button died. Makes using the computer a bit more tricky. Luckily I was already in the market for a new mouse so I ordered on last Thursday. Unless there's some sort of crazy complications it should be waiting for me when I get home.

MSG

Monday, July 30, 2007 4:59 PM

HUGS NV

aw poor dead mousie...

"I'm not all that interested in the mental health of people who want to kill me. "- Leroy Jethro Gibbs

RUGBUG

Monday, July 30, 2007 5:08 PM

Happy Monday to all. And a special HAPPY BIRTHDAY to msg.

Zeek...hope there's a rodent waiting for you at home. ;)

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Originally posted by RiverIsMyGoddess:
RugBug, if I saw you at a Con, I would come over and see you, regardless of the vibe. I'd even see if you wanted to dance some.

And I would dance with you. Gladly. :D

msg: the shyness would still exist. The shyness is always there...even with some people I've known forever. It's not just 'new people' shyness. It's 'argh, I have to make conversation' shyness.'

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RIVERISMYGODDESS

Monday, July 30, 2007 5:26 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by RugBug:
Quote:
Originally posted by RiverIsMyGoddess:
RugBug, if I saw you at a Con, I would come over and see you, regardless of the vibe. I'd even see if you wanted to dance some.

And I would dance with you. Gladly. :D

Again (and as usual) you have made my day. :)

Quote:

'argh, I have to make conversation' shyness.'

You could sit with me in silence and I would not be offended in the least.

~jimi
We must all fear evil men, but there is another kind of evil which we must fear most, and that is the indifference of good men.

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NVGHOSTRIDER

Monday, July 30, 2007 5:36 PM

All right. It's been a while but I need advice.
Or at least to air my grievences.

We went out this weekend and some drama befell the relationship. Things seemed to iron themselves out but early this morning there was a little beef still left over. I went outside at about 4:30 in the morning to chill the F out and drank a beer. First I've had in at least a week.

Mindys husband might be in this weekend to see their son and it seems there is a slight rift between us. Apparently we can't have sex because she is so conflicted over everything that is going on. She has decided to start the divorce proceedings after she see's him this weekend. Just some strangeness I can't completely understand. I have been assured that she is with me but it can't be official until she tells him it's over. Another strange bit is the fact that she mentioned that no matter what I am the only one she will even consider sex with. That, (wierdness but reassuring), she will not cheat on me with her husband.

Her only issue with me is some aspect where she says I am not stepping up. Of course she can't tell me what it is for whatever reason. I'm sure it's one of those things where if I don't do it on my own than I never will. But WTF am I not doing?

Question: What do/would any of you folks do to someone for laying their hands in a familiar manner on the one you love? Honestly I was on the verge of roughing some F-ing squid up this weekend. I did end up swinging him around and putting him on the ground but nothing more. Not that the chance did not present itself. In the twelve seconds of contact there were no less than fifteen chances to lessen his capacity to move and the initial contact was a modified throat jab as I did not wish to sit in jail for any amount of time.

What I'm really trying to say is that I cannot believe I was pushed even that far. I am not a good dancer. But other movements come natural. I just hope this part of me never surfaces again. I was ready, willing, and able to defend and assault his whiny bitch ass and all eight of his friends. Actually I'm thinkin' the willingness to do so was a little stronger than it had to be.

Shit. I really don't know what I'm trying to say anymore.

MSG

Monday, July 30, 2007 5:56 PM

Sounds like a lot of turmoil...I'm guessing she's feeling awful about not having done the start of the divorce before starting with you and she wants to put a freeze frame up and kind of a do over by telling him before continuing with you. Also, I'm guessing what with the soon to be ex coming in town, plus the other stuff ( both potential and past) she's just feeling out of control and panicking and just feeling like somehow you should be helping, but unable to articulate what exactly she needs( ok I have so been there and just gotten all sorts of mad at MisterG and he's trying to find a way to be supportive and everything he does is " wrong" ..it does wear off I promise. Sometimes the whacko comes out when you're overwhelemed with forces beyond your control)
HUGS just try to hang in there and be as supportive as you can and when the whirlwind is over she will see and be normal and realize that you did step up..she just can't see it right now through the chaos and terror!!

HUGS to all and I will be back in a few hours..
"I'm not all that interested in the mental health of people who want to kill me. "- Leroy Jethro Gibbs

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