Third Floor: Hidey Place of Nice-ish Boys and Girls
POSTED BY: BlackEyedGirl
UPDATED: Friday, December 2, 2005 14:17
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Yay, the women are no longer MIA ;D
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Originally posted by mal4prez:
Freaks are more fun!!**offers you gingerbread cookie with facial piercings and green hair**
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Is there an irresistable I'm-attached-and-unavailable pheromone? When I'm single all these interested guys disappear!!
Ha, as much as everyone probably thinks I'm a tight-ass for the views I've presented in this thread, I could be considered a "freak" with my labret piercing and some past hair styles. I get misjudged a lot on first sight, especially when I had really long hair. People always think I'm the stereotypical druggie no-morals person. They're often shocked to find their judgements utterly at odds with the truth ;p
Yes, there is an irresistable quality, and like jadehand said it has to be confidence. I know when I'm with someone nothing can stop me. I'm just the person I'm supposed to be. That's attractive.
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Originally posted by KellyofLuthien:
After the baby's death, her boyfriend lost it and now calls my sister telling her she's a whore because she slept with other guys before him. Then he'll turn around, apologize and take her out to dinner.
This is somewhat touchy...it's something I've struggled with in the past (and still do to a point, getting much better). It kills me to know the girl I'm with has been with someone before me. I wish I could take away being with the two girls I've been with.
It's odd...my last gf had I daughter I eventually came to call mine. There's no surer sign of being with someone else than a kid, so I thought I'd have a hard time ever dealing with a child from my partner that didn't come from me. In the end, though, I loved that little girl like she was my own and often find myself wondering and worrying about her. I got a call from her school nurse the other day and was worried all day until I could get a hold of the exgf. I can't believe after all this time some people still call me looking for her, haha.
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Originally posted by BlackEyedGirl:
(LMD: this is why I think jealousy is so dangerous. he once hit me cos a guy at the mall looked at me, a lot of his abuse was stemmed from jealousy and fear of losing me which is very dangerous)
I know, and I completely agree with you. I just had a girl staying at my house for a few nights because her (now) ex bf was a super jealous type. He flipped out on her, and she called the cops the next day. She's since awaken to being choked by him and having her son threatened and taken by him. Her friends have been threatened, too.
I do understand it to a point, though. I'm a jealous person as I've admitted. I've made huge strides on that issue recently, but an issue it remains.
As far as physical abuse, my first gf was physically abusive to me. She liked to bite me and give me these aweful pinches. I always had bruises all over my body. I let her do it because I knew it was something she enjoyed. Prolly a bad idea.
It seems most girls I know have been abused, unfortunately. I remember one morning my second gf and I were horsin' around after we woke up, and when she put a finger in my ear I threw my elbows and one hit her in the forehead (i can't stand fingers in my ear, reflex). It took me over an hour to get her to uncover her face. She just kept saying she was sorry and she knew it was her fault and stuff like that. I felt so bad that morning. It was then that she told me about how abusive her last bf had been and figured here it goes again when she got elbowed. She'd also had her kid threatened and taken, as well =/
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Originally posted by BlackEyedGirl:
I had to do this to a friend who dated Asshole #1 after we broke up.
Ah, this has been a sore point in the past. I've always made it a point that no one should date any serious ex of anyone close to them. I've been kept from seeing girls because of this, as I won't date someone who's been with a close friend or anyone in my family. I think I won't because I couldn't stand it i
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Your right, not a relationship, but the closest thing I've had, possibly will have I don't know.
I met her at uni while she was visiting a mutual friend, it lasted a few days, she went home.
Spoke a couple of times after that, that's it.
The success thing was entirely sarcasm 
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More insane ramblings by the people who brought you beeeer milkshakes!
Remember, the ice caps aren't melting, the water is being liberated.
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Originally posted by mal4prez:Quote:
Originally posted by ScorpionRegent:
What I'm proposing is that the new thread does not begin with the end of the old thread. It will coexist simultaneously and therefore draw off some of the posting pressure that forces on new threads with ever increasing speeds ie. floors 1,2,3,4. When the elevator thread starts to get really busy I can create elevator number 2, but I am getting way ahead of myself. My idea has yet to be accepted.
11 years in college and I have no idea what you're talking about. (insert much head scratching) Those who know decide, if it goes I will follow!Quote:
A grace of women.
That's so nice. Really! But if I'm part of a 'grace of women', am I allowed to swear and spit?
I often refer to groups of men (esp. the wholesome type with khaki pants and denim button-down shirts, you know who I'm talking about) as SYBs = strapping young bucks.
Ask Dr. Science ... he knows more than you do.
"I have a Master's degree ... in science!"
This parrallel thread thing is just a bad idea. Forget I ever mentioned it.
Hell! swear and spit all you want, run wild and naked in the streets, disregard everything that makes you human and desecrate your flesh and slay, rape, canabalize and flay all who stand in your path,...WHOA!,...WHOA!...WHOA! that would make you a reaver! Ignore eerything after "streets" and treat everything before that point as mere options of the possibilities one might take to express freedom.
The term: grace of women, is just a nicer way to say group. A group of larks is called a exaltation. A group of lions is called a pride. Are the larks really exalted? Are lions proud? Probably not. The term itself implies not a dingo's kidney of real judgement or obligation to your behaviour and / or character.
Eleven years? How many times can you change your major before your parents stop letting you come home to do laundry? Men might think that they have found a woman who fears commitment more than they do. I'm just joshing. Clearly you are a professional scholar, a truely honorable calling.
Okay SYB's, I can handle that. What would you call a group of them, a challenge? A woman of voracious appetites , WOVA for short, might call them lunch, but I think that's a bit much.
Scorpion Regent
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no, I actually get it, and if I can, everyone can
(eventually)
but while we have the ever expanding skyscraper, and all the whizzy lifts, would it be possible for me to keep Loafers Nook? I'm kinda comfy now...
It could be everyones little haven of tranquility and, dare I say it, serenity, a place to pop in when you just fancy chatting 'bout a film or grabbing one of those beers
besides I just had more cushions and a nice morrocan lamp delivered,
how about we just bend reality and make it accessible from any floor, and only a hop skip and a jump from the elevator lounge, (though skipping is entirely optional)
We could even have parties and hire a professional goose juggler to show us how its done...
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OMG I just had a really upsetting PYT (pretty Young Thing, yes it's a Michael Jackson song, yes it's when he still liked women and not small children) moment.
Oi!
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Originally posted by PsychicRiver:
Two days beats me, Sean!
I've never had a relationship!
Well...I've had a few girlfriends. But they were short lived. Never really had anything that could be classified as a relationship.
You're young, PR. Give it time. One day Summer will come to her senses and swoop you up!
Some people, like several friends of mine are what I call "First Tryers". They meet that one person, it's the right person and that's that.
And then there are the rest of us.
Serenity, First Officer of Destiny
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did I do that...?
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Originally posted by ScorpionRegent:
Hell! swear and spit all you want, run wild and naked in the streets
Here I go with hair on fire, weeeeeee!!!!!
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The term: grace of women, is just a nicer way to say group. A group of larks is called a exaltation. A group of lions is called a pride. Are the larks really exalted? Are lions proud? Probably not. The term itself implies not a dingo's kidney of real judgement or obligation to your behaviour and / or character.
I get what yer sayin'. The term just makes me picture a bunch of LOTR elvish women, gliding smoothly through the forest in shimmering flowy gowns. That's fun, but it can't possibly apply to me and my hockey girlfriends sitting in the locker room drinking cheap beer and complaining about hockey gear stink and the like. grace of women indeed.
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Eleven years? How many times can you change your major before your parents stop letting you come home to do laundry? Men might think that they have found a woman who fears commitment more than they do. I'm just joshing. Clearly you are a professional scholar, a truely honorable calling.
No honorable calling here: it's about 'normal' life avoidance. (better way to say committment fear?) But hey, I have a facial piercing, a visible tattoo, and don't own a suit. Yet I get a decent paycheck and have pretty business cards. I may screw up a lot in life, but I can avoid being normal like nobody's business!
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A woman of voracious appetites, WOVA for short
... that's awfully close to "vulva" (again needing the scratcing head emoticon)
Ask Dr. Science ... he knows more than you do.
"I have a Master's degree ... in science!"
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Originally posted by ScorpionRegent:
The term itself implies not a dingo's kidney of real judgement or obligation to your behaviour and / or character.
ROFL!!!!
Did you mean to throw a Hitchhiker's reference in there? Dingo and kidney are two Hitchhiker swear words. Along with Belgium, which is the worst swear word in the universe, of course.
And I like that a group of women is called a grace. It's better than being called a hencoop (Music Man anyone?) or a gaggle.
Serenity, First Officer of Destiny
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Originally posted by CallMeSerenity:
You're young, PR. Give it time. One day Summer will come to her senses and swoop you up!
PsychicRiver
"Two by two, hands of blue."
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