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POSTED BY: chrisisall
UPDATED: Thursday, April 1, 2010 18:29
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Thursday, April 1, 2010 12:49 AM

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Nah, don't think I'll ask it; women don't make no more sense than men do.




The laughing Chrisisall

"I only do it to to remind you that I'm right and that deep down, you know I'm right, you want me to be right, you need me to be right." - The Imperial Hero Strikes Back, 2010

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Thursday, April 1, 2010 1:22 AM

Uh-uh - You don't get to lob a conversational grenade like that in here and not expect someone to jump on it!

Bottom line: You screwed up. Apologize. Apologize for not apologizing sooner. Trust me, she can hold out longer than you can.

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Thursday, April 1, 2010 1:36 AM

Agent Smith said it best, I think:

"But I believe that, as a species, human beings define their reality through suffering and misery. The perfect world was a dream that your primitive cerebrum kept trying to wake up from."

The "perfect world" being contentment. Nothing is ever enough. We see it play out on the world stage, as well as in personal relationships.
"Accept me" gets replaced by "Make me happy."
"Enough" gets replaced by "I need more."

We are spoiled as a culture. In one corner, we want the stars. In another, we refuse to give the basic emotional & economic support to the children that need it most- the future adults that will transmit this broken mindset to their own kids.

The report card shows America *FAILS* at family values.

Just look at the kid in Massachusetts that killed herself. Did her family move here from Ireland for that? To see their child SO sad at not being accepted that she needed to die?

Thank you 9-11, the xenophobic reaction, and the internet for being such a cruel teacher. It is truly us VS. us now.

Wow. I'm such a downer with this shit, sorry.





The laughing Chrisisall

"I only do it to to remind you that I'm right and that deep down, you know I'm right, you want me to be right, you need me to be right." - The Imperial Hero Strikes Back, 2010

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Thursday, April 1, 2010 1:45 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Kwicko:

Bottom line: You screwed up. Apologize. Apologize for not apologizing sooner. Trust me, she can hold out longer than you can.

I dearly appreciate the input Mike, but it looks like things are goin' south.
My Son is the brightest star in my 'Verse, though, and will no doubt pull me through.

I *hope* I'm just being pessimistic, but unlike the Beatles stated, Love is not all you need...


The laughing Chrisisall

"I only do it to to remind you that I'm right and that deep down, you know I'm right, you want me to be right, you need me to be right." - The Imperial Hero Strikes Back, 2010

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Thursday, April 1, 2010 1:53 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by chrisisall:
Quote:

Originally posted by Kwicko:

Bottom line: You screwed up. Apologize. Apologize for not apologizing sooner. Trust me, she can hold out longer than you can.

I dearly appreciate the input Mike, but it looks like things are goin' south.
My Son is the brightest star in my 'Verse, though, and will no doubt pull me through.

I *hope* I'm just being pessimistic, but unlike the Beatles stated, Love is not all you need...


The laughing Chrisisall

"I only do it to to remind you that I'm right and that deep down, you know I'm right, you want me to be right, you need me to be right." - The Imperial Hero Strikes Back, 2010



Very sorry to hear that, Chris. I'm not kidding when I say this: Fix it. Find a way to make it right.




"I supported Bush in 2000 and 2004 and intellegence [sic] had very little to do with that decision." - Hero, Real World Event Discussions

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Thursday, April 1, 2010 1:54 AM

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Originally posted by chrisisall:
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Nah, don't think I'll ask it; women don't make no more sense than men do.





Knew who started this thread before I opened it.




Summer Glau can simply walk into Mordor


Bones: "Don't 'rawr' her!"
Booth: "What? she'rawred' me first."

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Thursday, April 1, 2010 2:07 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Kwicko:

Fix it. Find a way to make it right.



If it can be fixed, it will be fixed.
Lots of emotional baggage & midlife crisis' in the mix.
It will all unfold as it should, though. My Son is my main concern at this point.
And I love my Wife. Since '84 (when your idea of a good time was watchin' Bugs Bunny on TV & gnawin' on your fudgesicle).



The laughing Chrisisall

"I only do it to to remind you that I'm right and that deep down, you know I'm right, you want me to be right, you need me to be right." - The Imperial Hero Strikes Back, 2010

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Thursday, April 1, 2010 2:08 AM

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Originally posted by AURaptor:


Knew who started this thread before I opened it.




How? Do I have a way?

Is that better than a plan?


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"I only do it to to remind you that I'm right and that deep down, you know I'm right, you want me to be right, you need me to be right." - The Imperial Hero Strikes Back, 2010

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Thursday, April 1, 2010 2:26 AM

Dunno.

Just believe.


Summer Glau can simply walk into Mordor


Bones: "Don't 'rawr' her!"
Booth: "What? she'rawred' me first."

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Thursday, April 1, 2010 2:31 AM

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Originally posted by AURaptor:

Just believe.


Thanks.

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