Barack Obama - Narcissist or Merely Narcissistic?
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This article was written by Israeli psychologist Sam Vaknin in August of 2008:
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Barack Obama appears to be a narcissist. Granted, only a qualified mental health diagnostician can determine whether someone suffers from Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and this, following lengthy tests and personal interviews. But, in the absence of access to Barack Obama, one has to rely on his overt performance and on testimonies by his closest, nearest and dearest.
Narcissistic leaders are nefarious and their effects pernicious. They are subtle, refined, socially-adept, manipulative, possessed of thespian skills, and convincing. Both types equally lack empathy and are ruthless and relentless or driven.
Perhaps it is time to require each candidate to high office in the USA to submit to a rigorous physical and mental checkup with the results made public.
I. Upbringing and Childhood
Obama's early life was decidedly chaotic and replete with traumatic and mentally bruising dislocations. Mixed-race marriages were even less common then. His parents went through a divorce when he was an infant (two years old). Obama saw his father only once again, before he died in a car accident. Then, his mother re-married and Obama had to relocate to Indonesia: a foreign land with a radically foreign culture, to be raised by a step-father. At the age of ten, he was whisked off to live with his maternal (white) grandparents. He saw his mother only intermittently in the following few years and then she vanished from his life in 1979. She died of cancer in 1995.
Pathological narcissism is a reaction to prolonged abuse and trauma in early childhood or early adolescence. The source of the abuse or trauma is immaterial: the perpetrators could be dysfunctional or absent parents, teachers, other adults, or peers.
II. Behavior Patterns
The narcissist:
* Feels grandiose and self-important (e.g., exaggerates accomplishments, talents, skills, contacts, and personality traits to the point of lying, demands to be recognised as superior without commensurate achievements);
* Is obsessed with fantasies of unlimited success, fame, fearsome power or omnipotence, unequalled brilliance (the cerebral narcissist), bodily beauty or sexual performance (the somatic narcissist), or ideal, everlasting, all-conquering love or passion;
* Firmly convinced that he or she is unique and, being special, can only be understood by, should only be treated by, or associate with, other special or unique, or high-status people (or institutions);
* Requires excessive admiration, adulation, attention and affirmation – or, failing that, wishes to be feared and to be notorious (Narcissistic Supply);
* Feels entitled. Demands automatic and full compliance with his or her unreasonable expectations for special and favourable priority treatment;
* Is "interpersonally exploitative", i.e., uses others to achieve his or her own ends;
* Devoid of empathy. Is unable or unwilling to identify with, acknowledge, or accept the feelings, needs, preferences, priorities, and choices of others;
* Constantly envious of others and seeks to hurt or destroy the objects of his or her frustration. Suffers from persecutory (paranoid) delusions as he or she believes that they feel the same about him or her and are likely to act similarly;
* Behaves arrogantly and haughtily. Feels superior, omnipotent, omniscient, invincible, immune, "above the law", and omnipresent (magical thinking). Rages when frustrated, contradicted, or confronted by people he or she considers inferior to him or her and unworthy.
Narcissism is a defense mechanism whose role is to deflect hurt and trauma from the victim's "True Self" into a "False Self" which is omnipotent, invulnerable, and omniscient. This False Self is then used by the narcissist to garner narcissistic supply from his human environment. Narcissistic supply is any form of attention, both positive and negative and it is instrumental in the regulation of the narcissist's labile sense of self-worth.
Perhaps the most immediNOTIFY: N | REPLY | REPLY WITH QUOTE | PERMALINK | TOP | HOME
Sounds like most Americans
whats your point?
" They don't hate America, they hate Americans " Homer Simpson
Lets party like its 1939
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Sounds like ALL politicians.
Again, what's your point?
Mike
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I wonder if any President, save possibly Clinton , has used the big jet/ AF 1 , as much as Obama in his 1st 100 days.
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You must admit, he does seem to be having a lot of prime-time press conferences.
"Keep the Shiny side up"
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I wonder if any President, save possibly Clinton , has used the big jet/ AF 1 , as much as Obama in his 1st 100 days.
I'm guessing Bush probably did. After all, he spent more than a third of his term on vacation...
Mike
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You must admit, he does seem to be having a lot of prime-time press conferences.
"Keep the Shiny side up"
You must admit, he has an awful lot of crises to deal with.
Mike
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Aw, this is just nasty. I've personally known two people with diagnosed NPD and this is such a stretch.
Couple things:
When Obama began his bid for President he was pretty bad at it. In the first three debates he was pretty underwhelming. Quiet, serious, non-confrontational. Not the method of a narcissist. His inability to find his voice at first did not seem like an act to me. John Edwards, by the way, is a much better candidate for armchair diagnosis of NPD. Polished and condescending and practically perfect in every way--a regular Mary Poppins of politics. When he fell, he denied and denied and denied until the bitter end. Obama has made plenty of errors in judgement already and he's admitted it all along.
From what I've read of Obama's autobiography he is WAY too self-effacing, self-aware and integrated to be a solid candidate for a NPD diagnosis. Narcissists do not admit failure and if anything ever goes wrong in their lives it is the result of nefarious outside forces, if not conspiracy (cf. John Edwards).
This article is just more grasping at straws from the right who just can't find a resonant smear that sticks. That's all they're doin' folks. It contradicts any number of other smears that they've tried. Smearing Obama is like justifying the Iraq war for these people: keep trying until something registers with the public and then run that one 24/7 until they get their way. One day they're saying he's a stumbling mush-mouthed nobody, next he's an ultra-poised narcissist, tomorrow he'll be a rage-aholic wife-beater. Same
, different day.
HKCavalier
Hey, hey, hey, don't be mean. We don't have to be mean, because, remember, no matter where you go, there you are.
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We're all really missing the most important aspect of this question. Which is: when you try to say "Narcissistic", it sounds like you're sneezing.
SergeantX
"Dream a little dream or you can live a little dream. I'd rather live it, cause dreamers always chase but never get it." Aesop Rock
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Does this mean that the show "Beauty and the Geek" should be renamed: "The Somatic Narcissist and the Cerebral Narcissist"?
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