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Imponderables: April Showers?

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MSA
Monday, April 13, 2009 5:53 PM

NVG here:

Holiday, but had to work Sunday. Yay for beer!

http://www.fireflyfans.net/mthread.asp?b=2&t=37660&m=693590#693590


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Monday, April 13, 2009 5:54 PM

Firsties!?

I don't like april showers. How about april sunshine?

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Monday, April 13, 2009 6:54 PM

woot, new thread. new ponders ^_^

i don't mind april showers, as long as there's plenty of thunder ^_^

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Monday, April 13, 2009 7:20 PM

April showers bring May flowers.

And May flowers bring . . . . pilgrims.

I know, I know . . . . old joke.

LOL

Zoe: "Get it running again."
Mal: "Yeah"
Zoe: "So not running now"
Mal: "Not so much"
- Out of Gas

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Monday, April 13, 2009 7:41 PM

my poor mom always says 'and what do May flowers bring? June allergies!!' ><;; i think summer's the worst season for the poor thing :P

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MSA
Monday, April 13, 2009 9:55 PM

NVG here:

Just cut all the weeds in the back yard. Sucks.

Now I need to figure out how and where to haul them off to.

More suckage.

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Monday, April 13, 2009 9:59 PM

um...wheelbarrow? or a garbage bag, pretty much all i got that makes sense O_o dump em in the woods :P lol. how much weedage u talkin bout?

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MSA
Monday, April 13, 2009 10:25 PM

It's Mrs A now:)

Oh we're talking about a full commercial dumpster plus a half full second dumpster... the poor man worked for hours





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Monday, April 13, 2009 10:33 PM

holy fucking hell how big is ur backyard?? O_O

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Monday, April 13, 2009 10:47 PM

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Originally posted by freelancertex:
holy fucking hell how big is ur backyard?? O_O


My thoughts exactly .. just, wow!

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MSA
Monday, April 13, 2009 11:11 PM

Not so much big as overgrown... very very overgrown with very tall giant weed bushes
Check the photo thread I put in a picture

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Tuesday, April 14, 2009 1:58 AM

those must be some tall fuckin weeds


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Tuesday, April 14, 2009 2:18 PM

Tuesday is just one day closer to the weekend. Now if we could be like 4 days closer to the weekend that might be a little nicer, but I guess we should just could our Tuesday blessings.

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MSA
Tuesday, April 14, 2009 2:27 PM

hmmm well I suppose. This week I am off for spring break so I'm hoping it'll go slowly ( but since time is relative hopefully it'll go fast in your little nexus Zeek)

ok gonna go lie down in the sleep chair and try to get some sleep... bad night last night( of the can't get comfy , every position makes me wake in pain, toss and turn variety)



Oooh imponderable poll.... how many of you had a night light, stuffed animal, binkie, or blanket and what was it?

I was just a night light kid ( I swore I was a afraid of the dark so my mom would buy it and then used it to read by instead of going to bed like I was supposed to)

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Tuesday, April 14, 2009 2:59 PM

I was too young to remember any of this, but here's the story I heard. When I was little I got pneumonia and to get me to sleep my mom had to hold me. Since it was obviously nigh time when she was putting me to sleep she had a nightgown on. It was all soft and lacey on my cheek. So, after I got over the pneumonia I'd go into her room and take the nightgown out of her drawer and go put it on my pillow and go to sleep on it. It was mine at this point. Over the years it dissolved into tattered remains. I can't even remember when it was an actual garment but I still have the little swatch of fabric somewhere in a sealed bag.

The even better part is I started taking it with me everywhere apparently and my parents didn't think anything of it when I brought it to their friend's house for dinner. Well they let us run around the house and play with their kids and at some point I left the nightgown on a bed. The mom found the nightgown on a bed and flipped out cause it wasn't hers. My mom had to be like no no it's nothing like that. hehe I was such a little trouble maker.

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Tuesday, April 14, 2009 4:05 PM

Now that, though a possibly morbid to ignorant people, is a cute kid story. I can see how the other mom could over react.

Back at work, but I'm not on-call any more. Yay!

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MSA
Tuesday, April 14, 2009 4:55 PM

So yay for the not on call

Aww Zeek that's such a cute story sweety:)

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Tuesday, April 14, 2009 5:07 PM

Niice Zeek .. I never had a night light, or a dummy, or a blankey, or anything like that. I liked the dark, and spat out the dummy, and I don't think they ever tried me with a blanket.

I do, however, have a special pillow. My mum made it for me when I was about 3 or 4 .. its Peter Rabbit :D Plus, I have the teddy which my Dad bought me the day after I was born, oh, and there was my first dolly [which I don't have anymore :(] which I named Anna, coz apparently thats the only girls name I could think of .. is it normal for 2-3 year olds to name dolls after themselves??

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Tuesday, April 14, 2009 5:24 PM

aww that's cute WuS it's a mini me:)

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Tuesday, April 14, 2009 5:32 PM

Tehe, Mini Me .. I like that .. lol.

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Tuesday, April 14, 2009 6:48 PM

why are we talking about night lights and pillow fights?

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Tuesday, April 14, 2009 6:50 PM

Because ...

Quote:

Originally posted by MsA:
Oooh imponderable poll.... how many of you had a night light, stuffed animal, binkie, or blanket and what was it?

I was just a night light kid ( I swore I was a afraid of the dark so my mom would buy it and then used it to read by instead of going to bed like I was supposed to)


(Y)

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MSA
Tuesday, April 14, 2009 7:03 PM

Just thought it'd be a fun ponder...

I had a friend who was so attached to his footy pajamas he had to be bribed to take them off... he's now a Navy SEAL

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Tuesday, April 14, 2009 7:10 PM

gotcha WuS. LOLZ i remember the footy pajamas (mom called them blanket sleepers, dont know why) XD mom thought we were so cute in those @_@ love her to death, she's so silly.

this is kind of off topic (the whole bribing kids thing made me think of it) but who's seen Mr. Mom?

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MSA
Tuesday, April 14, 2009 7:39 PM

They do make them in adult sizes...but you'll have to go to the sex store to get them...LOL

I loved Mr. Mom

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Tuesday, April 14, 2009 7:41 PM

...they sell adult versions of those? that scares me....

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Tuesday, April 14, 2009 7:53 PM

Now I'm just curious as hell. Is there some sort of group with a fetish about footy pajamas?

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MSA
Tuesday, April 14, 2009 8:07 PM

ok holy crap... it's snowing. Not a little snow... it's blizzarding

Yes Zeek.. it's the pretend you're a baby fetish.... not kidding
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Paraphilic_infantilism


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Tuesday, April 14, 2009 8:18 PM

u mean like that CSI episode? *still cringes*

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Tuesday, April 14, 2009 8:33 PM

What the hell!? That ranks as one of the crazier ones I've ever heard of.

*goes back to sheltered life*

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MSA
Tuesday, April 14, 2009 9:36 PM

oh wow you are sheltered...there are so many weirder parphilias

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_paraphilias

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Tuesday, April 14, 2009 10:10 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Zeek:
Now I'm just curious as hell. Is there some sort of group with a fetish about footy pajamas?


Rule 34 dude, rule 34.

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Tuesday, April 14, 2009 10:28 PM

My Mom only taught me two rules. You have to pay your taxes and some day you have to die. I think she's wrong about that second one cause so far it totally hasn't come up.

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MSA
Wednesday, April 15, 2009 12:08 AM

ok what is rule 34????




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Wednesday, April 15, 2009 12:17 AM

I found out what "rule 34" was by Googling it. Heh. Oh, and lesser-agreed-upon rule: If it doesn't show up on Google, it probably doesn't exist.

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Wednesday, April 15, 2009 12:23 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by MsA:
ok what is rule 34????


Rule 34: If it exists, there is porn of it.

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MSA
Wednesday, April 15, 2009 2:31 PM

oh great now I have to google rule 34...ok LOL it's a very good rule:)

Morning all...

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Wednesday, April 15, 2009 4:21 PM

Umm, Zero already defined it babe.

Good morning Ponderers.

I had a plan of attack for some things I needed to get done today but it took a hit.

I guess that is what I deserve or hiring someone with a family all white trashy and the like.

Isn't Domestic Violence fun!?!?!

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Wednesday, April 15, 2009 4:43 PM

yes well I didn't notice that until after I checked google
NV

wait didn't we just have a huge thing at the park to prevent domestic violence... maybe we should have been more specific

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Wednesday, April 15, 2009 6:02 PM

Family of the tech. Second hand.



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Wednesday, April 15, 2009 6:07 PM

ah...

ok bad shark movies are soooo fun

Just watched Blue Demon....low budget bad acting... joy:)

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Wednesday, April 15, 2009 6:37 PM

low budget movies are so cheesy XD i dont know how ppl can watch them (they just arent my thing). except monty python. was monty python low budget? (looked like it)

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MSA
Wednesday, April 15, 2009 6:44 PM

oh it depends The Holy Grail was somewhat low budget:)

I love cheesy silly movies ... I am easily amused:) Mostly I love bad shark movies

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Wednesday, April 15, 2009 6:56 PM

Out here on the western coast of Canada we are just happy that we can see Sol again.
After a winter full of rainfall, and a Christmas with beyond-manageable snowfall (for this little corner of Canada that see's LITTLE snow near the ocean): We are happier Kaylee in an Alliance scrapyard.

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Wednesday, April 15, 2009 8:39 PM

sadly it's snowing here

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Wednesday, April 15, 2009 10:04 PM

Zeek is sleepy. Work network moving very slowly. Job running for over 3 and a half hours. Zeek is upset. Grrrrr

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Thursday, April 16, 2009 12:18 AM

HUGS Zeek
http://www.jugglingcats.com/cat_clips.htm
to cheer you up

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Thursday, April 16, 2009 1:03 AM

some people juggle geese!!

zeek, why are you referring to yourself in the third person?

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MSA
Thursday, April 16, 2009 2:54 PM

His brain is fried

morning all.. yay taxes done and turns out I'm getting a refund:) Oh happy day. More money for Peanut's nursery

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Thursday, April 16, 2009 3:01 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by MsA:
His brain is fried


*ding* *ding* *ding*

At least that job finished not too long after that post. I went home and kicked off a bunch more. I literally woke up to see them finish. That's ridiculously slow for how these things normally run. Bah! Should be another fun day.

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Thursday, April 16, 2009 3:11 PM

Would a baseball bat help??

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Thursday, April 16, 2009 3:23 PM

Lots been going on in here since I was last in. I'll try and catch up a bit...

First off, good job on NV clearing that yard, tis one big pile of weeds.

When I was younger I had two teddy bears, a big one and a little one named Big Ted and Wee Ted respectively. Big ted was the very first thing I owned, gifted to me at birth by my Gran. They now live on a shelf in my room.

The footie pajamas thing, well I also kinda think they are awesome, and you need not go to a sex store... just buy them online http://www.jumpinjammerz.com/

And low budget movies can rule, sometimes just because of how much they suck.

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Thursday, April 16, 2009 3:42 PM

Watched "Taken" with Liam Neeson last night.
he plays the "Ruffled Man" with an edge very well.
Good action flick.
Very sad about Natasha Richardson's death over at Mont Tremblant.
Theirs was a solid relationship by all accounts.
First softball tourney of the year on the weekend; with rain in the forecast...booooooo.

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Thursday, April 16, 2009 3:46 PM

So, MsA or anyone else who knows...are there any good studies on the effects of moving around a lot as a child? I mean there are military kids who move around a lot right? Anyway the reason I ask is a friend is trying to plan out the next 10 - 20 years which I find laughable but whatever. One of her points was that her and her fiance like traveling and moving around a lot. They decided that when they have a kid they will still pick up and move all over the country/world until the kid is 10 years old and then they'll try to pick a place to live so he/she can form lasting friendships. I don't know about that one. I know when I was 7 and my brother was 10 and we moved from CA to IL it was pretty traumatic for both of us. Trying to make all new friends is not necessarily easy.

Are there any studies that say moving around has in positive or negative effects on a childs social development? Just curious cause I find it a little selfish of them, but I don't know if there are facts to back that up.

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Thursday, April 16, 2009 5:14 PM

((peeks in to see if it's safe))...

((hides in a dark corner))

((lurk, lurk))



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Thursday, April 16, 2009 5:56 PM

I've not seen any studies on your question Zeek, but I've seen the effects of constant moving on several types of children and families. If the family is stable and supportive there is little concern as the children will adjust as they should. It is the unstable families that have issues. If the family is moving because of legal issues, substance issues, or emotional issues then there is a greater possibility of discontent for the child. It does sound a bit selfish, moving kids and not allowing them to set roots. But having known a bunch of military families that were fairly well adjusted I can say that there is little to worry about. Kids adapt easier than we think.

*Leaves chairs, sheets, and pillows for construction of an appropriate hideout/castle/fortess of solitude*

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Thursday, April 16, 2009 6:19 PM

Here you go
just click on th efull article pdf in the box on the right
http://jpl.sagepub.com/cgi/content/abstract/1/4/403
http://www.sciencedirect.com/science?_ob=ArticleURL&_udi=B6VC9-3V92JXS
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Pretty much says what NV just said. it's still really hard on the kids. They don't do well developing lasting friendships and they depending on their level of social sophistication they can be seriously withdrawn. Basically if the family is stable and works hard to develop social skills and friendship making and sustaining skills the kid will likely be ok.

HUGS Navy... ok Wee Ted. That is so the most adorable thing:)



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Thursday, April 16, 2009 6:20 PM

Zeek - Here's a study on Third-Culture Kids that you might find interesting:

http://www.iss.edu/pages/kids.html

Edit: MsA beat me to it!

Anecdotally, though, I'd say that it is really hard, and while the kids end up turning out okay, the effects of moving can last pretty much for the rest of their lives. My dad was a military brat, and he has very few long-lasting relationships outside of family and work.

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Thursday, April 16, 2009 6:47 PM

So, while it's something they can likely overcome without much issue it basically comes down to who takes the emotional hit. The parents who would like to move around and enjoy exploring new places or the kids who would like to keep their friends. I don't have any kids yet so I'll stick with being smug and judgmental. I mean it's fine if they have to move to get a job or to provide for the family or something like that, but moving for funsies when you know it's going to be hard on your child just seems wrong to me.

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Thursday, April 16, 2009 7:03 PM

Naw, I'd be a bit defensive for a kid too. Kids need roots. They need memories of trees they climbed and the theater they would go see movies with their friends, and later girlfriends. Kids need to keep ties with their friends and friends families.

It is sad. But then again we need kids to experience the world too.

Kinda bugs me that the parents would move about mostly for fun sake.

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MSA
Thursday, April 16, 2009 7:10 PM

I think it's their reason for moving that bothers all of us. If you know moving is going to make it hard for your kids, but your best career choices are in a job that moves, that's one thing... but to move because it makes you happy regardless of how it affects the kids or hurts them..not cool

One of the students I was working with is autistic and does very poorly with change. He was in a good situation where he was really successful. Mom didn't like living in a small town so middle of the semester at school she uproots dad, kids, etc and moves. Kid has major problems and it's taking months to get him from virtually catatonic to working so the kid suffers major educational and emotional setbacks so mom can have a bigger city to live in..

I guess I'm of the opinion that once you have kids it's not about you anymore.

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Thursday, April 16, 2009 7:45 PM

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Originally posted by MsA:
I guess I'm of the opinion that once you have kids it's not about you anymore.


Yep I think that hits the nail on the head. Yet most of my friends don't seem to grasp that concept. They seem to be of the mindset that you just throw the kid in a carrier and go back to life as usual. Um...no.

To me if I'm going to have a kid it's because I want to raise a child and pass on what I've learned. Basically I'd be making the choice for at least the next 20ish years to devote my life to helping them. Plus I'm rolling the dice that they could end up with a birth defect, chronic disorder, whatever that could take up darn near every waking moment or my life and that I'm willing to take that responsibility if needed. It's a huge huge huge commitment in my mind and I guess it irks me when I see people take it lightly.

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Thursday, April 16, 2009 8:31 PM

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Originally posted by MsA:
I guess I'm of the opinion that once you have kids it's not about you anymore.

I only sort of agree with this...

...at some point, you have to still live for yourself, even if you have children. I've seen what happens if you don't. The women who live only for their children become hollow inside, and no matter how well you provide for your child, they see Mommy is no longer there. Not in any sense that really counts. That, I think, can be far more detrimental than switching schools / cities once too often.

I think the key, as with anything, is reasonable balance. Unfortunately, there are a lot of unreasonable people in the world.

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MSA
Thursday, April 16, 2009 9:04 PM

oooh good point HK... seen that too. The parent so focused on the child they can't cut the cord or find anything non child related in their life... BAD THING

Let's hear it for balance and reason:)



To love someone is to see a miracle invisible to others.
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Thursday, April 16, 2009 10:48 PM

There are also certain "waypoints" in development that should be carefully handled when choosing to move when you are raising children.
The early to mid teens for example; Moving an adolescent away from a developing social circle in one location to another where a new social circle must be developed can be...well...troublesome.

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Friday, April 17, 2009 2:51 PM

It's a good thing it's Friday today. Cause my will to work is very low. Though I have a scary suspicion that some weekend work might be on the horizon. Which will piss me off since my shit's been done for a while now and it's the people who put everything together who don't know what the hell they're doing. Every meeting we have I just sit there cause I don't know about or have any control over the stuff that's broken. Still I can see weekend meetings coming where I get to just call in and sit there listening to people blabber.

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Friday, April 17, 2009 4:43 PM

Hey guys, sorry to randomly barge into the middle of your imponderings (although I must take the time to read that study sometime MsA, sounds fascinating), but I was wondering if anyone else in here has tried to get into the bar & grill and been denied access? Is it just me who's been banned?! I can get into every other thread except that one! What did I do to offend? I don't remember being very inappropriate, although I might have been very drunk at the time!

Well, I'm off home soon, if anyone cane make there way past those forbidding doors, can you say bye for me?!

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Friday, April 17, 2009 5:37 PM

Never tried. Heck I didn't even know there were restrictions on threads here. Are there mods with that power? I guess it's strange that I've never even thought about mods here. Everyone tends to stay in line enough that the only person I'd think of with any authority is Haken.

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MSA
Friday, April 17, 2009 7:22 PM

NVG here:

It gets that way when there are to many posts for some 'puters to load. possibly try from the alternative

FIREFLYFAN.NET

No work today, YAY!

To love someone is to see a miracle invisible to others.
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Friday, April 17, 2009 8:01 PM

Great.
Friday.
And the bloody rain is back.
It's unsettling my calm.
Supposed to go on a group bicycle-ride around Stanley Park Seawall tonight.
Won't be happening if it's to damp.
Ah well.

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MSA
Friday, April 17, 2009 8:07 PM

the snow finally stopped... yay:)

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Friday, April 17, 2009 8:09 PM

Darn these clouds and light breeze. This harsh weather almost makes it unsuitable for human life.

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MSA
Friday, April 17, 2009 8:18 PM

where would you like to be buried???

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Friday, April 17, 2009 8:22 PM

Is that an imponderable, or just a threat? :P

~WuS

This is not my signature, I have to write this every time I post.
Smile && Nod, it makes it seem like you know what's going on.

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Friday, April 17, 2009 8:52 PM

I would like to be cremated and my ashes to be scattered in Jessica Alba's bath soap.

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MSA
Friday, April 17, 2009 9:04 PM

well mainly I was just threatening Zeek... but hey it could be a ponder

I want to be cremated and have a nice box:)

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Friday, April 17, 2009 9:34 PM

Tehe .. most imponderables probably start as a teasing of some sort!

Tbh, I haven't given much thought to it .. not expecting to die anytime soon, but if I were to .. no burial, no cremation. Send me to a hospital, use me as a donor.

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Friday, April 17, 2009 10:05 PM

Really I don't know if I even want a funeral. They're some of the most awkward social situations ever IMO. Luckily I've never had anyone really close to me die yet. Though stuff like my grandparents funerals were awkward enough. I just think making small talk in those times is about the worst torture you could put a mourner through. Managers from my work tend to go to funerals of their employees loved ones. It's supposed to make you feel like your company cares or some shit. That would tick me off to no end. Did you know this person? No. Do you really care? Not really. So get the heck out!

I don't want to give a speech or read a bible verse at my mom's funeral. I wanna be sad and not think about putting on a strong face for all the people I don't know. Heck just thinking about it makes me think I'd much rather ditch the whole thing altogether and deal with the loss on my own.

However, if I have a wife and kids by the time I die and they find that stuff comforting then I'd be fine with them going all out. At that point what the heck do I care? I just feel like the people still alive should be the important part of the equation. I'm not concerned with a special type of flower or whether there's an open coffin. Heck paint a fake mustache on me and set me up like I'm at a wax museum so people can take pictures next to me for all I care.

End funeral rant.

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Friday, April 17, 2009 10:10 PM

I wouldn't mind being donated to science, get all chopped up for the benefit of students or research. Or perhaps turned into one of the crazy anatomy models by Gunther Von Hagens, they're pretty cool.

But as long as I'm dead you could kick me about in the street for all I care, I'll be dead.

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Friday, April 17, 2009 10:26 PM

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Originally posted by Navyseils:
I wouldn't mind being donated to science, get all chopped up for the benefit of students or research. Or perhaps turned into one of the crazy anatomy models by Gunther Von Hagens, they're pretty cool.

But as long as I'm dead you could kick me about in the street for all I care, I'll be dead.


One of my English teacher's in high school said he's not an organ donor, because he's not convinced you can't feel stuff when you're dead. He was like so what if we think we know what brain activity looks like. We still don't know for sure. For all we know everyone getting cut up is screaming "STOP!!!" in their head.

He was an interesting teacher. I told many a story about him around the dinner table that year.

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MSA
Friday, April 17, 2009 10:56 PM

ooooh donated to science...good one Navy:)

To love someone is to see a miracle invisible to others.
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MSA
Saturday, April 18, 2009 4:40 PM

Saturday morning cereal and cartoons

BUMP!

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Saturday, April 18, 2009 4:54 PM

I went to sleep through saturday morning, but I still like the sound of the cereal and cartoons part.

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MSA
Saturday, April 18, 2009 5:10 PM

That is because the best thing in the world is being still in your jammies , eating yummy cold cereal, and watching cartoons:)

To love someone is to see a miracle invisible to others.
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It's fuzzy-minded liberal thinking like that that gets you eaten.

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Saturday, April 18, 2009 10:18 PM

*sigh* all the good cartoons have been discontinued though :\ Ren and Stimpy, the Tick, Spiderman, X-Men, Angry Beavers, looney toons...all gone *nostalgic look to the past*

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Sunday, April 19, 2009 2:31 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by MsA:
I want to be cremated and have a nice box:)

((tries to stifle a snikker))

((so immature))

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Sunday, April 19, 2009 8:32 PM

whats so sniggerful about wanting to be cremated?

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Monday, April 20, 2009 3:04 PM

Monday.

*end transmission*

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Monday, April 20, 2009 3:34 PM

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Originally posted by freelancertex:
*sigh* all the good cartoons have been discontinued though :\ Ren and Stimpy, the Tick, Spiderman, X-Men, Angry Beavers, looney toons...all gone *nostalgic look to the past*


There are new Spiderman and X-Men cartoons. I haven't watched the X-Men one but spectacular spiderman is actually decent. It's on some Disney channel I want to say Disney XD or something like that. My DVR knows where to find it. That's all that matters. Plus this is a good time to jump in. They're rerunning a lot of the first season episodes in the lead up to season 2 starting in May. OK cartoon mode off. Adult mode reactivated.

So, how about that political something or other?

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Monday, April 20, 2009 4:04 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by freelancertex:
*sigh* all the good cartoons have been discontinued though :\ Ren and Stimpy, the Tick, Spiderman, X-Men, Angry Beavers, looney toons...all gone *nostalgic look to the past*



So true. So true.
*Looks back thataway as well*

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Monday, April 20, 2009 4:07 PM

Fudge it all. I'm beginning to think our kids have more of a clue than the adults in charge so screw 'em.

We've seen the Spidey/X-Men stuff of late and it isn't bad. Cartoon Network has classic Tom and Jerry on Sunday morning. We usually catch it but I was up far too early and ended up missing it when I went back to bed.

Boomerang RAWKS!

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MSA
Monday, April 20, 2009 5:08 PM

um FLt she's snikkering about " nice box" ... which made me laugh and now my co-workers thing I'm nuts (ok they probably already did...gigglesnort)

This is why you buy the old ones on dvd...

To love someone is to see a miracle invisible to others.
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Monday, April 20, 2009 5:10 PM

I was gonna warn you about that but I figured your response had a much more desireable outcome.

Worth it.

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Monday, April 20, 2009 5:11 PM

><;;;;

yeah...but i dont think they have The Tick on dvd :P or angry beavers ><;;



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MSA
Monday, April 20, 2009 5:16 PM

LOl well sometimes I just miss the connotations, but luckily I have HK there to snicker and remind me...

To love someone is to see a miracle invisible to others.
--Francois Mauriac
It's fuzzy-minded liberal thinking like that that gets you eaten.

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Monday, April 20, 2009 7:46 PM

Oh yes, yes they do:
http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_ss_gw?url=search-alias%3Daps&field-keyw
ords=the+tick&x=8&y=17


Haven't seen any for AB yet.

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Monday, April 20, 2009 8:00 PM

*SKAAAWEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!*

*glomps NV*

THAT'S CRAZY!!!

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Monday, April 20, 2009 8:16 PM

Amazon has everything! Is there a rule for that one? Is rule 35 taken?

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MSA
Monday, April 20, 2009 10:24 PM

Sadly they are still missing a few series I'd like, but with any luck rule 35 will be enacted soon:)

To love someone is to see a miracle invisible to others.
--Francois Mauriac
It's fuzzy-minded liberal thinking like that that gets you eaten.

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Tuesday, April 21, 2009 3:37 PM

Did anyone watch the old Gargoyles cartoon series? I liked that one. It had such a deep plot with back stories and stuff for all the characters. It still ranks up there as one of my favorite cartoon shows. Someday I'll have to give in and buy it on DVD. I also hear there are comics that continue the story.

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