Imponderables: Friday Is Upon Us

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ZEEK

Thursday, October 30, 2008 7:55 PM

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Originally posted by CaliforniaKaylee:
Lol Zeek, I think I've mentioned them to you before.

Yeah that's part of what the wink was for. Plus I already knew they were too young. Oh well I guess you're just one of a kind. *Zeek destined to be a bachelor for life* :-P

MSB

Thursday, October 30, 2008 8:42 PM

Ck that's my idea of a good anniversary.. quiet and fun:)

HUSG Zeek..good luck getting one

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Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage."
Life is anything that dies when you stomp on it.”-Dave Barry

ZEEK

Thursday, October 30, 2008 8:52 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by MSB:
HUSG Zeek..good luck getting one

In all honesty I think I'm too selfish. I like spending my time however I want. As soon as I have to accommodate others I get more cranky.

For instance my trip back to college for homecoming left me on edge cause I wanted to get back home. It was only 3 days and I was like "omg I want my routine back!". A girl is really going to have to sweep me off my feet to find a place in my life.

MSB

Thursday, October 30, 2008 8:57 PM

or you just have to find someone who likes having a set routine too...

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Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage."
Life is anything that dies when you stomp on it.”-Dave Barry

CALIFORNIAKAYLEE

Thursday, October 30, 2008 9:21 PM

My husband and I are both pretty selfish people, honestly, and have strong opinions and quick tempers to boot. But I think when you find someone you really care about, you want them to be happy at least as much as you want yourself to be happy, so if you're both selfish it works out. As long as you always keep the good of your SO in mind and always want them to be happy, I think it works quite well.

Another thing that I've told my sisters and some of my girl friends who have just started dating is that when you're getting into a relationship that you think has long term potential, take a good look at how the guy was living just before you started dating. All relationships go through a courting phase, but after that I think most guys are most comfortable if they're allowed to go back to their normal routine, even now that their lives have changed.

So when I first started dating my husband 7 years ago, he was staying up late every night playing Diablo and had a very low maintenance life with very few possessions. So when things started settling in for us, I wasn't offended when he didn't want to watch movies or go out to dinner every night. Some nights we play video games together, some nights he plays and I knit. I also knew that having some material possessions is important to me (weird psychological thing for me), so I've gone out of my way to make sure that he's involved in all the big purchases, and that the stuff we get is either low maintenance or something I can take care of myself. When I first met him he didn't even have a DVD player, but now we have a pretty high tech home theater set up -- that I researched, picked out, set up, and maintain all on my own. The joke is that he doesn't even know which remote to use for what. And he spoils me rotten in all sorts of ways, so it works. /Shrug

~CK

You can't take the sky from me...

ZEEK

Thursday, October 30, 2008 10:24 PM

Good words of wisdom there CK. I'll have to give that advice to some of my friends who are in relationships now.

ZEEK

Friday, October 31, 2008 2:56 PM

It's finally Friday and there's no posting? Come on people. Celebrate!!

RUGBUG

Friday, October 31, 2008 5:24 PM

Hey y'all!

Just a quick fly-by. Zeek was awesome enough to come looking for me. Warmed the cockles of my go-go girl costumed heart. ;) (BTW, thanks for the computer link..I'll keep my eye out. I think I've decided that I'm going to get a laptop and a satellite card. That should be all I need. I would have internet AND TV (because you know...most shows are online these days) AND my computer. I'm still in planning stages, but I think that's where I'm heading.)

Anyway, I haven't been around much because work is CRAZY busy. My four employee dept was down to two, then back up to three and now back down to two. It will go down to one (me) in just a bit. That means MUCH work for me and little internet time. I think of you all often and hope everyone is doing well. I'll be back once things chill at work. *crosses fingers that it is soon.

Okay...back to work....sigh.

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"The power of accurate observation is commonly called cynicism by those who have not got it." - George Bernard Shaw

GORRAMGROUPIE

Friday, October 31, 2008 5:37 PM

Too busy getting ready, so the forum will have to languish.....

'Who are you and how did you get in here?' 'I'm a locksmith. And, I'm a locksmith.'
Police Squad

ZEEK

Friday, October 31, 2008 6:59 PM

RugBug! Good to see you around again. Go go girl outfit? Nice!

Halloween lunch was grrrrrrrreat! The um...food was the best yet. Everything I'd hoped for an more. Well that will keep me happy for a day.

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