Water Cooler of the Imponderables: Agony In Her Body
POSTED BY: nvghostrider
UPDATED: Thursday, March 15, 2007 14:55
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Originally posted by nvghostrider:
I was wanting to get back with ya on your blog post. Is this an appropriate place?
*wishes she had asked herself this question...*
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I just ment if it was okay to answer RIMG here. Seems this is the place and I like to simplify things as much as possible. (By simplify I mean that I'm lazy)
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Hmmm now NV I don't think I'd ever label you lazy...funny and such, but not lazy.
OK trying to get back in teacher gear...
"I'm not all that interested in the mental health of people who want to kill me. "- Leroy Jethro Gibbs
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Hello!! How's everyone doing? I'm totally in love with this nice weather today...but then watch it get frigid again later in the week. 
*sigh*
Welcome TinaDoll! 
Yep, pretty much what everyone else said. This is just like a place to hang out and ramble and stuff.
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Well, you don't need to ponder to be a ponderer.
Yep, and if you don't believe that then just read my posts. A lot of time I can't get on the computer til late and by then my brain has pretty much shut down.
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What's so amazing about really deep thoughts?
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NVG, feel free to respond here. You might want to link it so others know what you are talking about.
I posted it in public, so I have no problems with public responses (and don't worry, it is impossible to offend or embarass me).
~jimi
SFC Alexander, Chief Medic for the 76th Indepentent Army Battalion
All we need is a voluntary, free spirited, open-ended program of procreative racial deconstruction...Everybody's just gotta keep f*ckin' everybody 'til they're all the same color.
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Originally posted by asortafairytale:
Hello!! How's everyone doing? I'm totally in love with this nice weather today...but then watch it get frigid again later in the week.
Welcome TinaDoll!Quote:
Well, you don't need to ponder to be a ponderer.
Yep, and if you don't believe that then just read my posts. A lot of time I can't get on the computer til late and by then my brain has pretty much shut down.
Agreed- I have no idea what is going on anymore.
So whats wrong with a little Jaylee?
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Crazy: *Raises hand* Clinically!
Tattoo: I'd have a hydra on one arm or the other, and the words "Nul Potentia in Universitas possum demorirum ipsum"
The hydra was the one creature that even Hercules couldn't kill; he had to trap it under a bigass rock for all eternity. I'd use it because, like the hydra, I seem to be unkillable. Eh, it'll just be all the more ironic when I finally croak. The words are familiar to any browncoats out there: They mean "No Power in the 'Verse can Stop Me" in Latin.
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http://www.fireflyfans.net/showblog.asp?b=6189
Link to the internal questions and obsrvations of Jimi.
Seeing someone struggle with the though of love or lack thereof always bothered me. Mostly because I get down on my whole line of situations and...
As for the guilt for not still being in love with her, that happens. The good thing is that you still love her and recognize that y'all need to be friends for your chidrens sake. I'm sure you both have seen the consequences of your children witnessing the conflict and wish not to keep putting them through it anymore.
It seems the idea of "the move" might put you both back in a place where the trouble started. If you do feel the need to be together with her, make it obvious. Tell her that you feel the need to have her as a friend first and foremost.
There is an obvious rift in information, but the idea is pretty well defined. Just be careful and take your time. Make sure that honest conversation doesn't turn into a heated discussion. The truth hurts but taking the roundabout way leaves way too many opening to be expolited. I'm glad you're watching out for everyone involved.
Question: Do you recognize what triggers the selfish/abusive feelings? Sometimes a person will invoke those feelings in another to be sure they are loved. If you feel abusive and recognize that she seems to play into the victim role chances are you both need help. It is very obvious that you recognize your feelings but does she? My concern is that even if you get help, she might not. If that happens she may end up in another situation with someone who cannot recognize their own actions as being negative. Cycles are only broken when all people involved are made aware of their role in the cycle.
Just some thoughts. I work with folks on all sides of the fence of the family dynamic. I wish more people could open themselves to others and ask for help.
Thank you for having that courage Jimi.
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Hello Tinadoll:
As usual, I get the Imponderable thread after 60 or 80 posts and can not possibly catch up. Or is it ketchup?
But I thought I would say hello to you Tinadoll, since this is the first time I have seen you post and want catch up with at least a welcome. I hope you your stay here is enjoyable and you meet lots of nice people. I certainly have.
So even if this is a little late, Welcome Tinadoll.
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In response to earlier posts, include me as a Jayne fan.
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