Male and Female Imponderables -- Love Rollercoaster
POSTED BY: Whimsicalnbrainpan
UPDATED: Wednesday, November 22, 2006 05:58
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Vinterdraken, I understand a little of how that feels, to be heartbroken every time you lose someone. I've gone through it a few times. You are not alone 
And also it's very good to see you again!
As to scents, I'm boring, I wear rose oil. Tea rose, to be exact. I also have China lilly, lilac, mango, peach, and a lighter rose scent called Venus Rose that I will sometimes wear; the light fruits and florals smell very good on me. Sometimes I will mix just a dab of cedar oil with my rose and that smells surprisingly good on me since I don't tend to do well with the spicier smells.
My nose is extremely sensitive and I simply cannot be around someone if they are wearing too much traditional perfume or cologne. And I can't get 'close' with anyone who's wearing any at all; the chemical smell in it will give me an itchy nose and sometimes a throbbing headache. So I wear oils and like anyone I'm around to be wearing oils, too. I do have a friend who can somehow pull off hints of the traditional perfume, but I think she's an anomoly. Something in her skin neutralizes the chemical or something, it's very strange.
I simply adore scent. Finding the ones that smell right on you is just so much fun for me, and I'm fascinated by how different people can wear different scents well.
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Sleep well, qing ren, and pleasant dreams!
I shall talk to you anon.
Morning, MSG! Sounds like you had a wonderful time! So, pictures...when?!? 
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Tristan I always love talking to you. There's such drama & romance in those old legends.It's nice to talk to someone who likes them too.
Nighty night Magda ! Sleep well.There'll be a e-mail from me when you wake up !
MSG - I also love bath & body works too. If I were rich I'd own everything in that store.Or maybe jsut keep a whole store to myself.
I'm swooning here thinking of all you wonderful smelling Browncoat men. I love when a man smells nice.
RIMG - I'm not familiar with the Axe products, but I'll take the side of your female coworkers & assume thatit smells yummy on you.I'll seek it out next time i'm shopping !
EDIT : It's something that fascinates me too PR. My skin doesn't keep traditional perfume. I could put on a whole botttle and 10 minutes later nothing. But oils work & don't have that chemical smell that bothers my nose too.
Bryce
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I swallowed a bug.
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Originally posted by Vinterdraken:
In my experience I love every girl like they are the one. And then It hurts every time like ive lost the love of my life if things go bad. But from what ive pieced together from friends and family most people dont tick this way, guess im just a passionate guy. I think that if you find someone who is really right for you youll know.
I am more-or-less the same. Once you get past the early flirtation, if you don't think they could be 'the one' (though I don't believe there is only one; maybe 'one of the few' would be better) than what are you doing with them? You can be friends but don't take them down a road if you're not prepared for the whole journey.
On a similar topic, and I know we have a few experienced members on this board, as a logicial reverse to this discussion: divorce? What happens when you find out they're not 'the one'?
Personally, I believe in something a little closer to... well... I'm not sure. Let's say everyone has an 'aura' that is something more than sound, smell, taste, sight... all the senses combined and made out of everything we are. Basically, your essence, soul, spirit. I also believe that we are constantly changing (which is arguably fact) and thus so is our aura.
While many times once you have found 'the one' your auras have brought you so close that you continue in the same direction... sometimes it just doesn't work out. I believe that more divorces end up in worse state than necessary (not that there is anything I nor we can do to change that, it could simply be human nature, not dealing with change and all).
Personally, while I have not been in many relationships (as I said I tend not to go far unless I really feel the love... in my heart) they have all ended well. Simply a parting of ways. Our auras met, we went a ways together, our auras changed (or realised weren't so compatible to begin with), we parted (though stayed friends). Whether that will continue I do not know, but I hope so.
And if someday on some little piss-ant moon/My hand is a little too slow, or my aim a little bit off/At least I’ll go down fighting, not lying abed surrounded by quacks - "Sir Warrick" by Geezer
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LA29, I also love the conversations! You are right; it is great to find someone that shares the love!
TPage, hello again!
I am one of the divorcees. Suffice to say it is not a good thing to discover the one you married is not "the One".
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AS far as the "one " goes I think I have been rather lucky.
I met my husband when I was 15 and he was 16.Since then thruogh good times & even the bad some of you recently saw me through , he's my one & only.We were each other's first everything back then & then spilt up for 4 years.I dated then but as soon as we were put in the same room again we were back together.That was 14 years ago & I'm still in love with him.i'm not saying there might not be another "one " in my future but from what I know he's the " one ".
Of course this is the only area of my life that ever went so smooth !
Bryce
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Good morning everyone!
Not that its great, but I'm still alive. Thats good enough.
Did I miss Mags again. Dang! Thanks for the hugs, always well appreciated.
Scent? I feel a bit funny having to say this. When I get off work GND says I smell good. I don't wear anything but deodorant (I love the powerstripe by the way). I think it may be the smell of tobacco. I usually have a cigarette after work. I feel funny saying this because I've been able to push her to the back of my mind. Kinda like I have nothing to worry about.
Is that wierd or is it just me?
Anyways, how is everyone. Great I hope.
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Morning, NVG!
Any day you wake up is a good one. Keep that in mind.
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I always wondered about "The One" thing.
Is it who is "The One" at that moment or "The One" forever. I can think of "One" that I will always love, but is no longer the one.
I'm talkin' out my ass this morning. Gotta transport a kid to see a PO so I'll be out for a few hours.
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NV- gotta love those PO meetings..and the sullen ride there and back with the kid:) HUGS Hmmm as for GND I'd say you're getting comfy with the idea she likes you and that's a good thing:)
"A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort."- Albright
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