Male and Female Imponderables -- Love Rollercoaster
POSTED BY: Whimsicalnbrainpan
UPDATED: Wednesday, November 22, 2006 05:58
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Folks are looking for "The One"? Gee, I thought Neo was the one? Didn't we learn anything from the Matrix, people? 
Seriously, I have to agree with tristan about if there's one person meant for us and considering how many people occupy the Earth, then how can we be sure to find them? Just because there may be "someone out there for everyone" doesn't mean they'll be nearby. Many of you may have tried long-distance or online relationships and it's not long before you realize that the distance between you and the other person takes it's strain. You miss them, want to be with them, but can only see what they type on the computer, what they say on the phone or see them on their webcams - it's not the same. I speak from experience. I don't know how someone is to know when they met the one. I thought I did at one point but obviously I was wrong or I'd still be with them.
What would it take for me to consider taking someone else's life? Well, I'm a very non-violent type so it would take something very extreme. If someone did me or someone I care very deeply for serious, personal harm. Believe it or not, there have been times where I wanted to rip someone's lungs out but thankfully it hasn't come to that. Good stuff for pondering.
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Whim - 1st. There's a "he"? (of course there was an implied "he" in the ponder, but you know it could have been "your friend".)
2nd. He makes you the good stuff? In the morning? 2a: It's positively sweet that he does something like that. Brava! 2b: What's he doing at your place at that hour of the day, young lady? What are his intentions?
"Well, here I am...Does that seem right to you?"
Yes JQ there is a he. We have been dating for a year and a half and spend the weekends together. He is very good to me and I try to be the same way to him. As for his intentions, I couldn't say. We have talked marrige but that is a ways off yet. Things have just been off lately and I've been wondering about "us". Nothing I can put my finger on exactly...
"Well, my days of not taking you seriously are certainly coming to a middle." http://whimsicalnbrainpan.blogspot.com/
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First of all... 
Whimsy
... I personally feel that no relationship should ever go along without some kind of serious reconsidering at some point... mind you I am older and more single than you so... 
Know that we are here for you Honey!
Q... Honey am so sorry - I totally forgot to say thank you for making me grin like an idiot when you quoted from 'The Princess Bride' I love that film - it's one of my pick me up movies and was perfect for this Imponderance! I've missed seeing you around more too Sweetie!
Emma!! I am so glad to see you - you will not believe how much you have been in my thoughts, and I am hoping that these [drama's mean that your sister's pregnancy is going well... I've been keeping you in my heart and in my prayers too Honey!
Ged - I do hope you'll be around in our world a lot more - you have been seriously missed! Please stay...
Hi Little Albatross!! How are you Honey - I am writing you a letter and my 'Mamu' decided to write your boys a Christmas card today - he just had the idea all by himself! Hope those terrifying Space Monkeys are behaving themselves!
NVG I know you're a big warrior and all - but it's huggles all round today!! 
Glad to see you - hope you're staying 'sane'...
Johnny Q Wow - you really know how to make a girl feel special don't you?? 
thank you for your incredibly sweet comments... did you notice that my 'French Maid's Costume' photo was taken in 1988 though? 
I wish I looked that good in a short skirt now!!
Tristan... Just... I was offering to be 'caught up with' and I have a plentiful supply of '3 day kisses' in hot and heady Australia so... I guess if all you desire is the occassional 'quicky' with DTH... go for it! 
I honestly cannot say under which circumstances I would be prepared to take a human life - if ever... I am very much a Kaylee, and am so glad that Joss has the insight to write a character like her who cannot pull the trigger when it comes to the moment of decision... but having said that, if a child in my care or for whom I cared was at risk or had been unforgiveably harmed - I think I would have both the wrath and lack of concern for what it might mean to me to do so...
Catch you all later... 
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mornin' Imponderables.
To answer my own question (though I did a little when replying to Tristan above) I would kill in a kill-or-be-killed situation, or if anyone was threatening harm of any kind upon my family. There are also several people I know in my personal life that this 'verse would be better off without, and I have seriously contemplated how to pull it off without getting caught (my wife watches a lot of forensic shows, and we also watch Dexter on Showtime, both of which have given me all kinds of ideas).
magda - I meant to comment on the French maid outfit, which was dead sexy. If Tristan won't take you up on the 3dayes, I might just have to.
~Jimi
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MAgda ! Are we here together for once ? I sent you an email yesterday , are you still having problems ? I miss my Aussie friend !
Morning RIMG - how goes it ?
And I could only kill someone if me or mine were being threatned .Or if someone bothers me, or if I'm being paid.Especially if I'm being paid. Or if there's a man ...
Sorry couldn't help myself.
Bryce
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Going ok LA, glad to have a short week this week, the fe days off will do me good. LOL @ being paid comment.
~Jimi
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Good to hear RIMG.A sort week is alawys a welcome break.I'm looking forward to it too.
I'm off to bring the munchkin to school. HAve a shiny morning.
Bryce
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Whimsicalnbrainpan wrote:
Sunday, November 19, 2006 20:27
Old thread: http://www.fireflyfans.net/thread.asp?b=2&t=25325
So we were talking marriage in the last thread and I have an imponderable that relates to that issue in a way. If it has been asked before please forgive. When you are in love do you think you'll know if they are "the one". I know that love takes work and is not at all like a fairy tale but when should any doubts be taken seriously?
"Well, my days of not taking you seriously are certainly coming to a middle." http://whimsicalnbrainpan.blogspot.com/
In my experience I love every girl like they are the one. And then It hurts every time like ive lost the love of my life if things go bad. But from what ive pieced together from friends and family most people dont tick this way, guess im just a passionate guy. I think that if you find someone who is really right for you youll know.
You can’t stop the Signal.
Keep spreading the word about Firefly!
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Hello Grogeous Wonderful Little Albatross I only just got it - I'm still having some issues - but then I also only just got on long enough to reply now... I've been at my parents and managed a quick Imponderable post but no email replies... Will do soon though!!
Hi RIMG!! Shucks! You'll make a girl blush too - won't you? Are the Imponderers starting to wake up in the US of A?
Edit: Vinterdraken!! Hi there! we haven't been on line together for months!! How are you??
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I bet I could make you do more than blush, if I really tried.
I suppose some of us are getting up, it is almost 8:30 on the east coast. I tend to get in a lot earlier than most people.
~Jimi
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