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Male and Female Imponderables - Juicy Juicy Green Grass

POSTED BY: Nicodemus
UPDATED: Saturday, November 11, 2006 03:57
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Friday, November 10, 2006 2:57 PM

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Mei Mei we will have to write another book with Laurelin I think... "The brick Theory - what to do when you've been hit too often to notice!"


I might be persuaded to co-author the definitive book on Brick Throwing...but would it really be that long?

You're never too old to have a happy childhood!

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Friday, November 10, 2006 2:59 PM

Hey DTH don't forget the Skinny Dipping thread we had here a while back!

Oh and I made the Pub as a place where you could talk non serious like. Yeah it started off as a Forsaken Thread but I noticed that a few people were uncomfortable with the Forsaken stuff so it is now mine and Nico's. It is just a place to kick back and have a Virtual Drink and BS. No topics or adjendas. Sometimes I just want to goof off and this is the place for it. SO ALL ARE WELCOME! There are no pyres or anything else. Stop by take a read and see!

See all you who questioned why I took Forsaken off. There are people here who do not like the idea of the Forsaken.

As far as thrill seaking with an SO. I have a habbit of trying stuff because I am afraid of it. No SO necessary. I used to be afraid of deep water (mostly because I could not see the bottom) No I am an Avid Diver.

Kelkhil

The Shirtless Forsaken

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Friday, November 10, 2006 3:01 PM

Morning, all!

Magda, I am always up! Um...for the sewing, I mean. Yeah...that's it.

The bulge. Hmm. I guess it's only fair, as we have been going on about bras for a few days. I'll see how far into this we're really going to get before I pipe in.

Mavourneen, I second the coffee time!

DTH, generally, I prefer the opposite gender to hang around with. Well, I should say a majority of the time. I do have a few close male friends, but there is seldom a time we get together that there is not at least one female present. Most of my friends are Drama people, so we are used to mixed groups. Not sure that really answered the question...
I am a natural flirt, so I prefer the company of females, as males will sometimes look at me oddly when I try to flirt with them (yeah, ok, that was a bad joke).

Apparently, I need more coffee...

I'm with you on the thread slippage. I don't think I could carry on the role-playing for a long time, but it's fun every now and then.

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Friday, November 10, 2006 3:05 PM

Oh my!! My Mei Mei has a twin?? Can the world be so blessed??

Good morning Mavourneen!! S'a good ponderable too... I have friends of both sexes - and there are things you discuss freely with your girlfriends and can sometimes include your male friends... and there are some things you can discuss freely with your male friends to get a male perspective on it! I have male friends who are really protective of me too - so if I ever felt threatened or had my heart broken - they're the friends I'd go to for hugs and support and even protection!

Hi DeskTopHippei I am so glad that you're feeling a little better sweetheart! now get out there and enjoy the weekend!!

EDIT: coz there were just so many of us posting at the same time!!

MsG!! Hi Li'l Sis!! I do enjoy the company of my female friends too as they have their own experiences of being a woman and we can share things that some guys simply 'don't get', and sometimes it is fun to be a bit giggly and girly - I go away with my friends sometimes and we drink too much eat too much junk food and 'vent' about life and come home feeling like a million dollars!

Laurelin it is so good to see you - and I am up for the book any time - we can make them little books with a brick to a page sort of thing and the Imponderables will all buy one! Then we can hit the motivational circuit and make millions bringing the 'brick-theory' to the masses... Oh - can we go on Oprah??

Good morning my Twin We love the pub the way it is I think - besides - I usually go there for a bit so that someone else has time to respond to something I post in here! Am I still not making sense?

Tristan!! Good morning qing ren! Glad you're up! ... for it! ... the sewing I mean!! Oy! I think my friendships with male and females alike is the result of having grown up in the thatre too... and my habit of flirting! I understand that aspect of it too... I also have friends in their teens and friends in their 80s gay/straight.. male/female.. single/married... it's a real leveller working in the theatre!





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Friday, November 10, 2006 3:07 PM

Magda - you're right! I'm starting my weekend RIGHT NOW!

*stands up and walks purposefully to the door*

*Trips up over a pile of paper she's supposed to be sorting*

Oh yeah... forgot about that... Um, I'll have to sign off for a bit! Catch you guys later.



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Friday, November 10, 2006 3:08 PM

Hehehe! Can't see the profile, mavs, but that's pretty shiny! I thought I was the only one really connected to the phoenix; I love finding others!
Hmmmm, I've had male friends, but not many of them have been close. Like most of my friends, I've drifted away from them. My closest friends are and have always been female; though I get that holding a grudge thing! I didn't even know my former best friend was, like, enraged at me for about a year before we stopped talking. And when I found out why, I was just like "WHAT?!"
Apparently, though, I give out really strong "I'm attracted to you and want to take you to bed" vibes to my friends; some can handle that, some can't. Men seem less able to handle it, because it either makes them feel like I'm trying to push them into bed (what a role-reversal!) or they develop an interest, which unfortunately forms its own kind of wedge most of the time. My friendship with women seem better able to survive that 'tension' and I'm not really sure why. Huh... You know, I hadn't really analyzed all that before. I'm not sure why I give out that vibe so strong, either. Maybe because anyone I can connect with enough to be friends with is attractive on some level. But usually that's not what I'm focused on, especially when I'm committed to someone! Strange...
There might also be a few guys who are put off by the "Warrior Woman" in me. Put off by it or turned on by it; so far it’s one or the other. Hmmmm, that goes back to the attracted vibe thing, doesn’t it? Though sometimes they think they like it and are then put off by it. Always fun.

*edit* Oh, and as to the role-playing thing, I think it can be fun. It's just a way of showing action online, and actions can be a wonderful way to express yourself.


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MSG
Friday, November 10, 2006 3:28 PM

My Magda is here!!! My Magda is here!!!! Ok you can include me in the group of those who'd beat someone up for you HUGS gotta take care of my big sis!!

PR- hmmm that's kind of an interesting dilema. Sexual tension as a friendship wedge...must think about this

I choose to rise instead of fall- U2


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Friday, November 10, 2006 3:56 PM

OH! Yay - I'm on with MsG!!! Don't worry Li'l Sis - you and your bappin' hand are at the top of my list!... I'll keep you informed!

Mei Mei - that is really interesting... I think I might actually like the sexual tension that I have had with a few of my close male friends now that I come to think of it! Though I have never had it become a wedge - though once I had a close male friend who got married - we were still close - we talked every week on the phone if we didn't actually see one another - about 6 months after he got married he walked me to my car after dinner at his and his wife's place and suddenly kissed me quite tenderly on the lips and said "If I hadn't married J****, I would have married you by now!" That freaked me out and I really had little to do with him and his wonderful wife for a while - just made sure I was too busy - guess who's marriage didn't last, either?? I always thought we were clear though - there had never been any crossing of the line prior to that...

Now I'm in deep pondering mode...



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MSG
Friday, November 10, 2006 4:01 PM

Ok most of my male friends aren't married, but I don't really feel like there's sexual tension as we've been friends for ever ( ok for 29 years)and all. I think that'd freak me out too Magda...um was there a coin toss?? Did he do einey meeny miney mo?? How did that come up? I can see it now..." should I marry Magda or J...hmmm ok heads it's Magda tails J"
HUGS Magda- I'm guessing you lost the toss 'cause he knew you weren't dumb enough to marry him:)

I choose to rise instead of fall- U2


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Friday, November 10, 2006 4:07 PM

T-Minus one day and counting 'til stupid test is over. I've got lots of practice tests to take today.

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Originally posted by JonnyQuest:
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Originally posted by RugBug:
JQ - hope you didn't think I was being crowded out by the well-endowed.


Jeez, RB, I wuz tryin' not to name names...!




And I'm saying name me because, dammit, I think I'm perfect. I will loudly and proudly proclaim that I am a 36B (or 34C if that theory holds true). Wouldn't want to be larger or smaller.

As for the bulge, unless it's HUGE, I'm not going to notice. Well, that's not quite true. At horse shows it's sometimes hard to miss a lack of bulge on a guy in breeches.

But like someone else said, other things draw my attention first. Chest, hands, forearms, etc.

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"The power of accurate observation is commonly called cynicism by those who have not got it." - George Bernard Shaw

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