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"Did I Go Somewhere?"

POSTED BY: flywithmecaptn
UPDATED: Sunday, December 3, 2006 04:15
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Wednesday, November 8, 2006 10:11 PM

Thank you guys so much,,,from the bottom of heart, thank you.

*smiles*

It's good to be home!!

"Don't forget to call him "Sir." He likes that."

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Wednesday, November 8, 2006 11:36 PM

Lordy, this is truly the only world to live in. All is right...

Glad to hear all this. I'd write a poem, but I'm more with the stilted, vague observational stories. I feel for you with the heating problems. Running the fireplace all night in good ol' America Jr. gets a tad annoying. Plus fetching kindling.

Gar, tis cold there, but warm here. Very warm indeed. (Vague enough?)

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Wednesday, November 8, 2006 11:38 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by flywithmecaptn:
Well the blog didn't seem to work so here is a thread:

To all my friends out there in the Firefly world,,,,I’m sorry I’ve been Missing In Action, but I had a lot of issues to deal with in my life that I just needed to escape a bit to get my head together. So many things in my life have happened to cause me distress and I hope you all understand that I had to do what I had to do to survive and try to organize my life once again.

I wasn’t sure if I’d ever return to the site. A decision I’m not sure was for the best. I have kept in touch with a few peeps and well, I have to say, although I called YOU my friends, I never knew that you all called me a friend as well and how much you all really do care for me. I have gotten notes from some saying folk have been asking for me and well THANK YOU ALL!! You know who you are. *smiles* I was being selfish in leaving the way I did,,,nor did I act like a friend at all. Uncaring of others feelings and just worrying about mine, Selfish!! I apologize.

I didn’t realize that in leaving the site that I cherish, would cause so many questions from peeps that care about me in the long run. I had no idea the extent of how much YOU all considered me a friend and for that I APOLOGIZE FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART. I will understand if I’m not accepted back as freely as I departed.

Most of you know that I’m divorcing and well I’ve since moved out of my house. I’m living with a non-stop smoker, bachelor cousin, who generously opened his doors to me knowing full well that I could not even pay him rent until my house is sold. He is very neat and is unconsciously caring to woman and leaves the toilet seat down and the sink is always wiped clean and dry. Everything in the house pretty much stays in order, so for me, it is just that deep down girly clean the apartment needs.

Blog One: All is ok,,,challenging..To say the least....moved in on Friday, no heat or hot water, got hot water Friday night....At least I got my internet connection!! Of course, this past weekend had to be the coldest so far here in New England. I stayed wrapped in an electric blanket and borrowed an electric heater, lit as many candles as I could and tried to stay warm…It seemed to work cause when I left my room to venture through the artic to the bathroom, upon re-entering my room, it seemed warm…*smiles* Didn’t get much done in the house, cause every time I moved I got so cold I had to go back to the bedroom…didn’t do much of anything all weekend.

Mon: I finally got heat...YAY,,,thank god... Don't know if I could have taken another day of no heat. It has been really challenging finding my way to the bathroom, to only be cold in there, turn on the shower for hot water,,,,warm for a bit then back into the cold. LOL If anything, this has been an adventure.

Since I had heat I decided to put my room together a bit and unpack some boxes....geee, my wardrobe looks sad...never really gave it a thought before but my clothes look so much different in this environment. LOL I lost track of time unpacking and was 11:00 by the time I stopped so I just headed off to bed. Funny, been sleeping real well. Even the first night. Usually when I'm in a strange place takes me days to get used to the area, then you leave. But, nope.....out like a light. So that is real good. I think the pressure's of my old life have been lifted a bit and, have gone somewhat.

Tus morn: I have to get myself a mirror for my bedroom so I can do my hair without trying to be Houdini and run back to the bathroom to see what it looks like in between drying sections,,,,there is no outlet in the bathroom for a hair dryer so been really comical...Then, I head back to the bathroom to put on what little makeup I wear...too funny...But,,,I got to up, the heat was on and was nice and toasty in there when I was getting ready. I was, uh, on the road at 6:45. I should have looked at the clock before I left...LOL,,,stopped at Dunkin and Donuts for a coffee to kill some time so I was

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Thursday, November 9, 2006 12:42 AM

Captn, I came to FFF.net in August, and I remember seeing your posts.

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FlyWithMeCaptn wrote:
Well I have to say,,,this has been an adventure and tis not over yet….One thing I have to say for myself,,,I may be Cinderella, but, I’m happy, and relaxed,,,and happy…



It is the challenges in life that make us strong. After reading your story, it was uplifting to see your optimism. Being out of a negative relationship is very liberating. I am so glad that you came back. This is a wonderful place with Browncoats that are very supportive. I hope to get to know you better in the future. *Hugs*


I made a web site to introduce my friends to the 'Verse.
http://web.mac.com/arcadianlc

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Thursday, November 9, 2006 1:00 AM

"WOW! I'm not reading that. Sum it up in one sentence."

LOL.. I don't think she meant to post it as one post. I think her blogs somehow got added to her post creating a monster.

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Thursday, November 9, 2006 1:09 AM

A very BIG evil monster!

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Thursday, November 9, 2006 10:29 AM

Too funny....yes, I knew it was real long. But I knew, the folk who would appreciate it and who will take the time to read it, are truly my friends.

I guess it was too long to fit into a blog,,,,so I had to post a thread.....

just for you....BionicBatman

I'm gone, I'm back....blah blah blah *giggles*

*smiles*


"Don't forget to call him "Sir." He likes that."

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Thursday, November 9, 2006 10:53 AM

*hugs captn*
I was just getting to know you! Well, now I can get to know you more, I hope
Welcome back!


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Thursday, November 9, 2006 7:35 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by flywithmecaptn:
Too funny....yes, I knew it was real long. But I knew, the folk who would appreciate it and who will take the time to read it, are truly my friends.

I guess it was too long to fit into a blog,,,,so I had to post a thread.....

just for you....BionicBatman

I'm gone, I'm back....blah blah blah *giggles*

*smiles*


"Don't forget to call him "Sir." He likes that."


Thank you very much

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Sunday, November 12, 2006 6:33 AM

OMG CAPPY U HAVE NNNOOO I DEA HOW MUCH I'VE MISSD U,,WHY DIDNT U EMAIL ME BAC??,,,TO TELL U THE TRUTH AS SOON AS COSIE TOLD ME U WERENT COMING BAC FOR A WHILE IT WAS A NITE ILL NEVA FORGET,,A NITE I CRIED,,ALOT,,,I MADE A HANGE IN MY LIFE CAPPY,,,AND ILL NEVA FORGET THAT,,ALL THE CONVERSATIONS WE USE TO HAVE,,,CAPPY I TRIED EMAILING U BUT IT DIDNT WORK AND I KNEW Y,,,I WAS JUST GOING TO SAY:

TO CAPPY,

I KNOW U R GOING THROUGHT SO MUCH RITE NOW AND IM ALWAYS HERE FOR U,,,,I KNOW IM JUST A KID AND I CANT REALLY GIVE GOOD ADVICE BUT ATLEAST IM HERE FOR U,,,TO TALK TO. U MADE A CHANGE IN MY LIFE,,FROM BEING CONFIDENT IN MYSELF IN WAT HAS HAPPEND,,AND IS HAPPENING AT HOME. I BELIEVE IN MY SELF MORE AND IF IT WERENT FOR U,,I'D BE LOST. 30/10/06,,FRIDAY NITE,,,THE NITE,,I CRIED ALOT OVER A FREND,,MORE THAN A FREND,,,A FAMILY MEMBER,,,(NOT BIOLOGICALLY DAH LOL),,,AND I JUST WANTED TO SAY I LOVE U!!!!! LIKE FAMILY.

,,,,,,,,,,*throws u a red rose and a along with a ginormous hug*

FAN01

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