Male and Female Imponderables- real wild children

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TRISTAN

Tuesday, October 3, 2006 4:05 PM

NVG! Venison...think of me when you consume that there deer! It's been a long time since I had deer meat...

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ZEEK

Tuesday, October 3, 2006 4:08 PM

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Originally posted by msg:
EDIT- oh and lucky little arachnephobic me I found a spider in my room and now I don't know where it's gone so there's a whole day of nervousness

Oh I just hate that. I turn around to get a tissue to smash it with or something and when I turn back the little bugger is gone. Never fails. Luckily I have a bug seeking device, otherwise known as a cat.

DESKTOPHIPPIE

Tuesday, October 3, 2006 4:09 PM

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Originally posted by Zeek:
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Originally posted by msg:
EDIT- oh and lucky little arachnephobic me I found a spider in my room and now I don't know where it's gone so there's a whole day of nervousness

Oh I just hate that. I turn around to get a tissue to smash it with or something and when I turn back the little bugger is gone. Never fails. Luckily I have a bug seeking device, otherwise known as a cat.

Note to self: Get a cat.

More animations available at www.desktophippie.com - yes, I've moved!

PHOENIXROSE

Tuesday, October 3, 2006 4:17 PM

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Originally posted by mal4prez:
About marriage - I am pretty disgusted with the whole history of it, and I find the idea of marriage not so applicable to my life. I mean, it's based in religion and a completely different social system and gender power dynamic - all of which give me the willies.

Thank you! There, see? I'm not the only one!
I really thought I was the only person on the planet who held this opinion. I've explained it and explained it to people, and sometimes they get it and sometimes they don't. Usually they don't, or even when they do, they still think it's silly of me to have that outlook.
There's a Bon Jovi song I just love called "Living in Sin" that starts out "I don't need no licence to sign on no line, and I don't need no preacher to tell me you're mine" and I think that's the best!
Anyway, yes. If I were to do anything official-like, it would be a handfasting, since that would actually hold meaning for me. I like the idea of just a "commitment party" though. That would be pretty shiny.
I was always totally touchy-feely with Ex of Doom. He never objected, but he rarely initiated either. Sometimes he would. Less so as the relationship got older.
Stupid boy.
Anyway, I should go to bed. I might not just yet, though.

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We are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think. When the mind is pure, joy follows like a shadow in sunlight. - Gautama Siddharta

ZEEK

Tuesday, October 3, 2006 4:27 PM

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Originally posted by PhoenixRose:
Thank you! There, see? I'm not the only one!
I really thought I was the only person on the planet who held this opinion. I've explained it and explained it to people, and sometimes they get it and sometimes they don't. Usually they don't, or even when they do, they still think it's silly of me to have that outlook.
There's a Bon Jovi song I just love called "Living in Sin" that starts out "I don't need no licence to sign on no line, and I don't need no preacher to tell me you're mine" and I think that's the best!

Well to me marriage is between the two people getting married. I don't care what my parents think marriage means and I certainly don't care what the first person who ever got married intended it to mean. I care what I think it means and what my spouse thinks it means. Cause those are the only two opinions that matter. So, I guess I'm saying put me down in the doesn't understand column.

MAL4PREZ

Tuesday, October 3, 2006 4:30 PM

PR - yes, it's funny how some people can't handle someone who doesn't want to live the system. OK, that sounds like I'm really putting down marriage, but I don't mean to! I understand it's very meaningful for others, and that's wonderful. For them!

It'd be so hypocritical for me to walk down a church aisle. It'd be downright disrespectful to those who believe, because I just don't.

Anyway... end of that!

MSG - yes, get a cat! I point out the spiders to her and she does the rest - good kitty!

I hate spiders. Ick! There is no ease when you know one is wondering about!

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I'm the president. I don't need to listen.

MSG

Tuesday, October 3, 2006 4:36 PM

I have 2 cats, but they aren't here with me at school. I have sent Diego ( my 9th grade assistant) to hunt it and kill it if possible...oh well.
I can't believe it's Tuesday. I definitely need a break, a nice long break....I'm not getting one, but oh well:)
Ignore me I am just really cranky today and I may be forced to eat a student

I choose to rise instead of fall- U2

NVGHOSTRIDER

Tuesday, October 3, 2006 4:37 PM

Commitment party sounds nice. But the idea of an actual wedding seems to stick in the back of my mind. Picture ops and all.

As for the hunting trip, Its been almost ten years since I went with my aunt and uncle. I love them to no end but they are older. I'd really like to see if they'd wanna go have a beer with me on Saturday night in Eureka Nevada. Its a really great small town with one bar, two gas stations, some small eating spots, and a pawn shop. All hugged up in a large canyon in central Nevada. Wonder if there are any 'Coats in that area?

PHOENIXROSE

Tuesday, October 3, 2006 4:51 PM

Zeek, you obviously did not read my original long-ass post, in which I said "I'm never changing my name, though. I don't like the conotations of that (please don't argue with me, I know not everyone sees it as an 'ownership' thing, but I do).
"Huh, the ownershpip thing was brought up. Well, shiny!
That whole thing is the problem I have with 'marriage'. I have no problem with a bond, pledging yourself to someone, it's a beautiful thing, but its histroy makes me just a little sick."
It's between two people. That's fine. That's wonderful. I get it. It's about what it means to them. Yes, wonderful, I get it. So what marriage means to me is its history. You can't erase history. It would be like... Like if, through time, rather than slavery being abolished, it was just that the relationship between slave and master changed, gradually, until there was far more choice and more rights involved for the 'slaves' but it was still called 'slavery' and they were still called 'slaves'. That's the closest comparison I can come up with. Wives did used to be near-slaves. Their husbands bought and paid for them with a dowry. They had no rights. They could not own or inherit property. They were at the mercy of the men in their lives. The 'tradition' of giving the bride away stems from this. History doesn't change. The past connotations of words can't completely change. And the connotation of the word 'marriage' holds the roots of its past for anyone who bothers to study it.
Still don't understand? Then you probably never will. And I guess that's okay too.

Imponderable that just popped into my head: Do y'all think there's such a thing as a slightly-submissive but loves-to-explore man who also has a healthy libido, wouldn't want to have to play games for sex to be interesting, and wouldn't be submissive in everything else and just simper and never make a decision? Because I think that would be my perfect man!

Uh, assuming everything else fit, personality-wise and such. You know.

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We are shaped by our thoughts; we become what we think. When the mind is pure, joy follows like a shadow in sunlight. - Gautama Siddharta

NVGHOSTRIDER

Tuesday, October 3, 2006 5:11 PM

For the most part I have to say you described the guy who is pretty much me. I like the idea of getting crap done and spending whatever time is left in doing the simple things that really matter. The slightly submissive part comes from bein' around women my whole life. Its just easier to get the job done rather than standing around "debating" (fighting) about it.

As for the games for sex to be interesting. Who really "likes' playing games in the sack. Competitive grappling?
I don't think so. Just enjoying your partner and the setting is what matters.
Can't get my mind off the great outdoors. Setting counts for alot.

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