theres this girl you see...
POSTED BY: bigwolf18
UPDATED: Saturday, September 16, 2006 03:25
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Yes gals, especially inmature gals, are into jerks. The jerkier they are, the more they want them. It makes sense. Think about it. The most powerful and influential men are inevitably the jerkiest phonies around. You can't beat them. You can pretend to be a jerk to hook gals, but it's a catch-22. You see the more they get hooked by your "pretend" jerkiness, the more you lose respect for them. So you see...you can't win. And don't think women want to be with jerks just so that they can change them, because that doesn't work either. Once they have a guy domesticated they start resenting him for being so weak and whipped. Yes I'm bitter.
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Yes ask out. Ask her or someone else will. Probably after school when you have time to talk. If you get a positve reply, then walk her home. Ask what she likes. You probably know some things about her, so that will help. Never talk negative about anything. Negative talk brings bad vibes. When you learn enough of what she likes then use one of those ideas MSG listed for a date or if she has hinted at something. If you can convince her to do something with you then when you go on this date buy her a coke or something. You don't have to spend a lot. Just a token to show she is special. Remember this. If your nervous about this, your not alone. I'm 54 and I get nervous. It is natural to be nervous when something special is about to happen in your life.
Good luck Bigwolf18. Remember no negative talk.
Traveler
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Yea ,I agree with Cedric,and remember that confidence is key.
Girls really like guy's who aren't afraid to put it out there!
Don't be nervous,or stammer your words,just ask her out and that will tell the tale.
Chances are she'll bite the hook, then you can do the FF./Serenity movie watchin' when you've got her hooked.
Just go for it!
Alway's Misbehavin' 
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Miss never-had-a-date says groupdates are good: eg, "A load of use are going to (insert local town's name here)/see a film/ the park. Want to come? This way its not arkward,on your own if you can't think of anything to say, she's more likely to say yes (supposedly) because its not as serious and scary, and if you decide mid-date that you actually don't like her, then there are other people to talk to! (ok, scrap the last bit, thats harsh!)
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i did it, i told her how i feel. uh-oh. she hasent said a word to me since. and the jerk has luckily taken it with good heartedness, good thing too, if i got in a fight with that sasquache my friends would be picken peices of me off the floor.
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Ok now don't panic, maybe she's just processing or trying to figure out what she wants. Sometimes it takes a minute to shift your thinking from friend to more than friends...
Yeah I'd agree that confidence is great. There's a fantastic moment in the Disney movie Hocus Pocus. Max is new and the class is talking about witches and one cute girl kind of teases him. He stands up, smiles and then says" here's my number , call me if they show up" and gives her his number in front of the class. That's a great example of confidence in action. The willingness to just go for it is really attractive!!
I choose to rise instead of fall- U2
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ok, i was thinking of hiding in the library, but that sounds better, should i wait it out and see what happens? or should i try to be nice/charming and go for it?
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hmmm...so is she pointedly avoiding you or has she been rushing around busily? "cause if she's deliberately avoiding you I'd just back away quietly after saying you're fine with being friends only( if indeed you are fine with that) If she simply has been busy, then yes I'd step up and ask her out to do something...come to think of it, just ask her out that way you'll know for certain if she's interested or not:)
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Weel kid, I say take your lumps and callit a day. Sounds like the Yeti's gonna pound on ya anyway so strap on your butt kickin' boots and dive on in. Seems you do need to find out how she's feelin'. I suggsest you do this before the violence ensues. Nothin' like a bit of teen angst to kill the pain. Besides, what do ya' got to lose, (besides teeth). Don't worry much about the bullies. They usually smack folks around for self gratification. Dependin' on the type of person you are he'll either give up because you start cryin' or he'll give up because you fight your little heart out. I don't condone violence. But I don't condone folks gettin' pushed 'round neither. Make sure your intentions are clear on both fronts. And make dang sure clear the intentions of the girl and the Yeti. Good luck little Browncoat. (Wipes tear) They grow up so fast.
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I know it seems like yesterday we were knitting their little browncoats and now...dating:)
Hang in there darlin, life doesn't get easier, but it does get better:)
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