Male and Female Imponderables--Dancing in the Dark
POSTED BY: Tristan
UPDATED: Tuesday, August 22, 2006 21:40
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Busy day at work! Not able to catch atm.
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This above all, — to thine ownself be true.
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Aw, thanks, NV. Nice group.
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You see RugBug the problem is that guys often think girls they like do look like they should be on the cover of fashion magazines. Lots of women look pretty darn good to us if they're what we're looking for. My bet is that every girl is some guy's type. So, don't you worry. Some guy out there thinks you're a super model.
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Yeah I agree to that. Except us guys are in the same boat. We are expected to have Mal's kinda boy next door looks with Jayne's muscles and still be sweet all the time. It get's kinda hard on us as well.
I mean I weighed 155 pounds all through high school and I am 6'1" tall. talk about a skeleton! No Janye bod here. It took me until my enlistment in the army was up to put on any weight. I weighed 180 pounds when I got out.
And everybody can't look like Mal I am sorry. Not that I would want too anyway. Not my type of good looks.
And sweetness. Well I think we grow into that as we get older. There are things that I put up with now that would have been a blow-up name calling bash and there are things that I do that I would not have thought of before. We either learn it or are never going to have it.
I think the difference between guys and girls on this topic is that you opposite gender types think that we can be trained to be sweet. We do not think that you all can be trained nor do we want to tempt it. If I like a person it is for who they are not who I think they could be.
Wow rmabled a bit here.
Kelkhil
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Very welcome SeaOtter.
Ya know RugBug, I wish it didn't have to be that way.
Went here this weekend.
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Quote:
Originally posted by Zeek:
My bet is that every girl is some guy's type. So, don't you worry. Some guy out there thinks you're a super model.
Of course.
And don't worry about me.
Most days I think I look just fine. But there are still those nagging insecurities that creep in....Kelhkil: I've always thought the standards for men are much less rigorous than for women. You disagree? (I've definitely got a type I prefer, (thinnish but with some muscle...no hulks, please) but as long as he is a good person, he's got a shot).
Women are suppose to be skinny and have big boobs. Only a small portion of the female population is that way naturally. And the degree of thin-ness that is popular right now is ridiculous. Little lolli-pop girls. It's no wonder so many celebrities smoke. The nicotine keeps them away from food.
NV: Wow, that is just gorgeous. Next time you go, give me a call. A couple hours is nothing, right?
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KELKHIL, I never really thought about the demands on men being anywhere near what they are on women. I'm a skinny guy too. 5'11" 145lbs. Not much I can do about it. If I eat like a crazy person I just start to develope a gut and the rest of me stays the same. The only thing I can do is put on some muscle, but I'm lazy. I don't really worry about it though.
As far as guys not trying to change women, I'm with you there. If I'm not into a girl's personality then she's got no shot. I'm not going to bother trying to change a person.
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More than welcome. Though it is great horse country, I prefer to walk. Does that make me strange?
GND really loves her horses, kinda surprized she didn't take them this weekend.
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Gosh, must be lunchtime or something. So I'm all alone. Time to do the nasty.
(Takes out garbage, washes out can)
Think I need to smoke now.
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Do not blacken your lungs, for you have friends!
*hugs NVG to show him he's not alone*
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