General Discussions

Firefly Singles Dating Feature

POSTED BY: Capture
UPDATED: Tuesday, September 12, 2006 22:20
VIEWED: 24700
PAGE 3 of 12

Saturday, July 22, 2006 4:45 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Piz:
Quote:

Originally posted by PhoenixRose:
Actual dating sites annoy me...

Here's a quick little anectdote: Something over a year ago, I tried the free profile thing at eHarmony. Went through all their scads of questions - it's extremely thorough. Took way longer than any other dating site I'd ever tried. After all that, answering as accurately and honestly as possible, delving into very deep and personal areas, the site told me, "Sorry, but we won't be able to find a match for you."

Apparently they're unable to match something like 20% of people who do the profile. No explanation, just "Nope, you're not matchable." I even emailed their customer service about it and got no more explanation than "we aren't able to find matches for some people."

Left me feeling just great about me.

--
"That's what government's for: get in a man's way." - Mal



Piz..I'm sorry that happened, but that is the funniest thing i've heard in sometime. Shame on eharmony...that just should not happen. hehehe
"you're not matchable" bahaha. please say you are joking....tehehe

NOTIFY: N  | REPLY  | REPLY WITH QUOTE  | PERMALINK  | TOP  | HOME

PIZ
Saturday, July 22, 2006 4:54 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by kaneman:
Piz..I'm sorry that happened, but that is the funniest thing i've heard in sometime. Shame on eharmony...that just should not happen. hehehe
"you're not matchable" bahaha. please say you are joking....tehehe

Well, it wasnt literally "you're not matchable," just words to that effect. Not joking, and it sure wasn't funny at the time.

The only thing I could think of was that the founder of eHarmony (the guy in the commercials - don't recall his name) is a fundamentalist Christian, so maybe, being the essentially the opposite of that, I answered some questions in a manner he wouldn't take to. That might not be it, but I couldn't come up with anything else. They sure weren't forthcoming about it, which makes me wonder what they have to hide.

--
"That's what government's for: get in a man's way." - Mal

NOTIFY: Y  | REPLY  | REPLY WITH QUOTE  | PERMALINK  | TOP  | HOME

Saturday, July 22, 2006 4:58 PM

If that were in fact the case it would definitely kick me out

**********************************

**********************************

NOTIFY: N  | REPLY  | REPLY WITH QUOTE  | PERMALINK  | TOP  | HOME

Saturday, July 22, 2006 5:00 PM

I'm going to check if they still have that free profile...I'll anwser the questions as crazy as I can...see what they come up with for me.

NOTIFY: N  | REPLY  | REPLY WITH QUOTE  | PERMALINK  | TOP  | HOME

Saturday, July 22, 2006 5:12 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Piz:
Quote:

Originally posted by PhoenixRose:
Actual dating sites annoy me...

Here's a quick little anectdote: Something over a year ago, I tried the free profile thing at eHarmony. Went through all their scads of questions - it's extremely thorough. Took way longer than any other dating site I'd ever tried. After all that, answering as accurately and honestly as possible, delving into very deep and personal areas, the site told me, "Sorry, but we won't be able to find a match for you."

Apparently they're unable to match something like 20% of people who do the profile. No explanation, just "Nope, you're not matchable." I even emailed their customer service about it and got no more explanation than "we aren't able to find matches for some people."

Left me feeling just great about me.

--
"That's what government's for: get in a man's way." - Mal




Hey, you should feel great about you! You just don't fall in w/ the common rabble and are way extraordinary!

I'm sure that's it.

People love a happy ending. So every episode, I will explain once again that I don't like people. And then Mal will shoot someone. Someone we like. And their puppy. - Joss

" They don't like it when you shoot at 'em. I worked that out myself. "

NOTIFY: N  | REPLY  | REPLY WITH QUOTE  | PERMALINK  | TOP  | HOME

PIZ
Saturday, July 22, 2006 5:17 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by AURaptor:
Hey, you should feel great about you! You just don't fall in w/ the common rabble and are way extraordinary!

I'm sure that's it.

It was disheartening at the time, but of course you're right.

That makes for more BOO on eHarmony, too, since they apparently can't find any way extraordinary women outside of the common rabble (or don't think there are any), when we all certainly know better.


"That's what government's for: get in a man's way." - Mal

NOTIFY: Y  | REPLY  | REPLY WITH QUOTE  | PERMALINK  | TOP  | HOME

Saturday, July 22, 2006 6:00 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Whitefall:

Lol, but alas, I doubt anyone is in Silicon Valley, and I'm pretty sure all but about three people on this site are an average of about 5 years too old for me.



Silicon Valley eh? ... Well, lest there's another Silicon Valley other than in California... >.>

*looks at Whitefall's profile* How "young" is young exactly?

--------------------
Malayna, oh how she dreams...a beautiful dream in which we are all apart of. But in this world, my name is simply Faith. We're family here, call me by name! ^_^
"I am thirst baby. I want you!"

NOTIFY: Y  | REPLY  | REPLY WITH QUOTE  | PERMALINK  | TOP  | HOME

Saturday, July 22, 2006 6:02 PM

Heh, eHarmony gave me the boot, too. I kinda suspect it was because I answered 'not at all' for pretty much every 'Religious Faith!' question.... eHarmony is not for the agnostic, ya know. :D

NOTIFY: Y  | REPLY  | REPLY WITH QUOTE  | PERMALINK  | TOP  | HOME

PIZ
Saturday, July 22, 2006 6:16 PM

OK, location: Allentown PA

Don't know of any other browncoats in the area, though there must be, seeing as we're the third largest metropolitan area in PA.

Age doesn't mean anything to me, compatibility does. Of course, age largely correlates to compatibility, but doesn't determine it.


"That's what government's for: get in a man's way." - Mal

NOTIFY: Y  | REPLY  | REPLY WITH QUOTE  | PERMALINK  | TOP  | HOME

Saturday, July 22, 2006 7:10 PM

Lol, i'm 17 hehe. From the age threads, i've found most folk to be in their mid twenties, with the occassional older-n'-wiser folk.

And lol, what is with the dispersion thing. Somehow we all seem to be about 50 miles apart at least, specially on the browncoat map.

"But, these strong women characters?"

"Why aren't you asking 100 other guys why they don't write strong women characters?" -Joss Whedon

NOTIFY: N  | REPLY  | REPLY WITH QUOTE  | PERMALINK  | TOP  | HOME