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My doggie is dying =(

POSTED BY: Ged
UPDATED: Monday, July 10, 2006 15:11
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Sunday, July 9, 2006 4:18 AM

explain it to me then.



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-try it out, I dare you

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Sunday, July 9, 2006 4:19 AM

Dear GED,
I can honestly say that I know exactly how you are feeling. Last night my hamster was feeling sick and although we tried to feed her and help her, this mornign she passed away. It is the worst feeling in the world to lose a pet that has become a part of you daily rituals and a member of the family. This is the fifth hamster my family has lost and they were all loved. I will keep your dog in my prayers, and even if you are not a religious person I hope it helps. The best thing you can do is to accept another dog into your life if this one passes, although it can never replace the old one, it helps to ease the pain a bit, and you grow to love him or her just as much. That is what works for me in order to direct all of you rlove to another being.

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Sunday, July 9, 2006 4:19 AM

And to Shadowfly...please stop posting rude things.

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Sunday, July 9, 2006 4:21 AM

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Originally posted by Guywhowantsafireflyofhisown:
explain it to me then.




Explain it to you? Can't you read?

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Sunday, July 9, 2006 4:24 AM

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Originally posted by OneManShort:
And to Shadowfly...please stop posting rude things.



Explain to me just how am I being rude?

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Sunday, July 9, 2006 4:28 AM

you are coming in here (on a support thread) and telling GED (who is clearly very, VERY upset about this) to "grow a pair"

your opinions are your choice, but please don't insult other people because their opinion is different. okay?



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Sunday, July 9, 2006 4:29 AM

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Originally posted by ShadowFLY:
Quote:

Originally posted by OneManShort:
And to Shadowfly...please stop posting rude things.



Explain to me just how am I being rude?



It's pretty simple, you're being insensitive to someone sharing about going through a hard time. I'm pretty sure that is rude. Not even showing the decency of wishing GED some consolation while they go through a time like this is rude. And honestly, it doesn't matter what you think about the importance of animals, what matters are the emotions of another human being. I hope you can understand that.

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Sunday, July 9, 2006 4:34 AM

If he had lost a friend (human) I would have offered a few words of comfort, but he lost or is losing a dog! Big deal! Plenty more where that came from. I'm not being insensitive. He shouldn't be a big sissy about losing his ego exstension.

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Sunday, July 9, 2006 4:38 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by ShadowFLY:
If he had lost a friend (human) I would have offered a few words of comfort, but he lost or is losing a dog! Big deal! Plenty more where that came from. I'm not being insensitive. He shouldn't be a big sissy about losing his ego exstension.



If this is how you feel, why not refrain from posting anything? Instead of makign a person feel even worse, although I hope that they pay no attention to you.

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Sunday, July 9, 2006 4:39 AM

Ged, I'm right there with you, I just buried my 22 year old cat on Thursday. We had her since she was a kitten, in fact I played with her the day we went to get her. We'd lost our dog a week before and I wasn't sure I wanted another pet so soon or even a cat, I was always a dog lover, but I fell instantly in love as I played with her. I dangled my necklace on top of a clear glass table and she was underneath trying to get it. It lead to the stairs to the hall.... I was taken and thought she'd be mine but my brother took instant charge of her, even naming her, so she wasn't really mine, yet when he moved out, when everyone moved out all their pets became mine, so it was hard.

She surprised us living so long. 22 years, I mean that's near a hundred for us and she was getting thinner and sicker and her fur was getting mottled but I couldn't find myself taking her in. I already had to let two others go that way (1 ran away as well and another one was taken.)

I knew it was going to be this week, I could feel it, and the night she left she couldn't walk, couldn't even stand and had a hard time breathing. So I brought her to my room, stayed up with her for as long as I could. Talked to her, wet her lips with water, hugged her, just let her know I was there and told her it was alright. She could go now. I'd miss her but she didn't have to stay anymore. She could go and enjoy wild fresh fields and fat mice. Told God He could take her now. I've cried and cried for the last few days and it'll be a while before I can finally accept it. I still look for her on the stairs (getting in my way and nearly tripping me :}) Or hear her howling after she ate, after she did her business, just howling (she'd become deaf) hearing her meow or seeing her in her spot on the couch or later on the floor (it was too hard to get to the couch) She drove me crazy in her old age and peed on practically everything, but I miss her, miss her howling, just miss her prescence. It's all still very fresh.

She's in our front yard now. So I can say hello or wish her a good morning or night, but now with only my other cat and dog it feels very alone. I'll probably be crying again but I wanted to let you know, your not alone here. I'm sorry for your loss. It isn't easy, they are family, and we both have to cope as best we can. *smoochies* sweeting.

Good bye Ayla, I miss you baby.

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