Male and Female Imponderables--Friends, Romans, Countrymen...

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PHOENIXROSE

Friday, July 7, 2006 4:26 PM

The social status thing is a different question. I wouldn't consider someone to be out of my league just because they had "higher status", per se, but if they were a jerk (which most of those I have met are) then I'm just not interested. Too bad, I wouldn't mind a Sugar Daddy (but would have to actually care about him; damn everything)
The unattainable thing has been more a "She's gorgeous and straight" or "He's devoted to so-and-so" thing, btw...

Adding to the being able to fire a gun thing; I forgot to mention I can also kick the crap out of a heavy bag

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RUGBUG

Friday, July 7, 2006 4:28 PM

Howdy all! Tough morning with a pointless staff meeting. Yuck.

Guns: I'm with Dayve on this. They really do nothing for me. Actually, they kind of scare me. Now, I'm all for people's rights to own them, but I don't want to see them. And now let me back-peddle a little: I think Jayne, and his confidence with guns, is hot. But I can seperate that from reality. Guns in my real life = no no.

MSG: while I thought Casual was cute and the helicopter was cool...I much prefer the cuteness factor of the guy who saw Nathan at the theater. No guns to be found but one BDH present and accounted for.

FMF: I'm pretty much like you on what I find attractive. And yes, I usually do feel that anyone I find attractive is out of my league. I don't know if growing up in CA, where gorgeous is average, or always being the "ugly one" in my group of friends has anything to do with it (as well as some horrible, horrible times in Junior High) but I just never think the guys I am attracted to are going to be attracted to me.

GED

Friday, July 7, 2006 4:28 PM

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Originally posted by PhoenixRose:
I never considered someone to be out of my league. Out of reach, sometimes, but not like out of my league. I have tended to date men who are not traditionally attractive, but who I have found attractive for whatever reason, but I am also very attracted to traditionally handsome men. It's just that there aren't that many around here. And those who are gorgeous are also gay. But I don't really have a "type". I do need to go for more than their looks to really go for them, though. I have talked to some quite attractive people (both sexes) who I lose interest in the second they open their mouths. Oh well.

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I think a lot of people have been there. I'll talk to gorgeous women, but as soon as they open their mouths, I can tell I definitely don't want to date them. I cannot abide superficial, self-centered people.

EDIT - Plus, I'm new to where I live and I'm finding it hard to meet people.

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PHOENIXROSE

Friday, July 7, 2006 4:30 PM

STOP IT RUGBUG YOU ARE GORGEOUS!!!!

Ok, sorry, losing of head...

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FUTUREMRSFILLION

Friday, July 7, 2006 4:32 PM

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Originally posted by RugBug:
Howdy all! Tough morning with a pointless staff meeting. Yuck.

Guns: I'm with Dayve on this. They really do nothing for me. Actually, they kind of scare me. Now, I'm all for people's rights to own them, but I don't want to see them. And now let me back-peddle a little: I think Jayne, and his confidence with guns, is hot. But I can seperate that from reality. Guns in my real life = no no.

MSG: while I thought Casual was cute and the helicopter was cool...I much prefer the cuteness factor of the guy who saw Nathan at the theater. No guns to be found but one BDH present and accounted for.

FMF: I'm pretty much like you on what I find attractive. And yes, I usually do feel that anyone I find attractive is out of my league. I don't know if growing up in CA, where gorgeous is average, or always being the "ugly one" in my group of friends has anything to do with it (as well as some horrible, horrible times in Junior High) but I just never think the guys I am attracted to are going to be attracted to me.

YOU ARE NOT UGLY!!!!!! And you would not be REGARDLESS of who you are with!!!!!!!!!!! I WISH I looked like you!

As for higher social standard - I grew up in high falutin arena's so I wouldn't think of that as an issue, and my mom will tell you I married down! LOL I think everyone is in everyone's league, its just a matter of one of them having their head up their pattootie!

MSG

Friday, July 7, 2006 4:34 PM

Rugbug..do you own a mirror???? 'cause I have to say DAMN if you're the ugly one in your class the rest have to be holy goddess level... you are incredible looking!!
Yeah see the guy with Nathan mmm ok ...but Causal/Jayne and the like MMMMMMMMMMMM!!!
Which is why I say out of league as in not your kind of turn on would definitely be where I see myself:) I think everyone has people they find attractive and others they may like but not have that WOW spark... So FMF just grab yourself a pole and fish for what you fancy!

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FUTUREMRSFILLION

Friday, July 7, 2006 4:35 PM

Msg

Why wouldn't you be someones type? You are lovely! There is a whole country of girls that look like you! You look more Black Irish than I do and I am jealous!

SMARTBUTDUMBBLONDE

Friday, July 7, 2006 4:38 PM

Well, having only ever having one 2-day boyfriend, who asked me out for a cruel joke because he was put up to it by a friend (don't worry, I got my revenge )I would have to say I often get that "Out of my league" feeling, and also because I often end up becoming "Just friends" with a guy I like, and one time, he actually asked me to help him get another girl(!)
I almost always go for the not conventionally attractive guys, because they are usually nicer and don't know their attractive, as so many conventionally hot guys do, and also, I then have more of a chance.

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FUTUREMRSFILLION

Friday, July 7, 2006 4:42 PM

msg

there is NO ONE in this area that I even REMOTELY fancy. I am surrounded by the unwashed. Crikes, the way ExFMF looks now, I wouldn't even fancy him! I will remain a NUN - ain't got nun, ain't gonna git nun - forever

I DO have a friend in hollywood who is on friendly have him over for dinner terms with Mr K. Reeves. Must give her a call!

FUTUREMRSFILLION

Friday, July 7, 2006 4:44 PM

Smart

Come to the US, I promise that boys will find you appealing! And what is the address of this boy? I must open a can o WHOOPASS upon him!

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