Male and Female Imponderables--the Eighth (?)

POSTED BY: Tristan
UPDATED: Saturday, June 24, 2006 05:26
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COPILOT

Thursday, June 15, 2006 5:33 PM

Dressing up doesn't work for me. Lipstick makes me look like a cheap hooker no matter the shade and I just can't pull off any sort of fancy dress. I'm a dirt child that's just the way I roll I guess. Maybe when I'm a little older.

An I carried such a torch.......For the Dark Lord

MAL4PREZ

Thursday, June 15, 2006 5:34 PM

This may not be the best topic - not so fun and not rated R or anything, but it's been on my mind. And maybe it's not such a m/f imponderable, but it can be if I stretch it a little...

OK, so I had reason to be blue yesterday, and as the blue wasn't going away (this thread did help btw) I dropped lines to all my buddies (I moved recently and my best friends are far away)

I've heard back from nobody! I know my friends care about me, and I know at least one or two have to be online. So what gives?

This has happened before, that friends respond to fun things, but when I'm really down I get nothing. I'm thinking... I've always been a strong independent kind of woman, and maybe when I'm not I don't express it well. So my friends either don't know how to deal with it, or they don't understand what I need.

What I am saying? hmm. I've never been good at asking for emotional support when I need it. So, how does a strong woman deal with being blue without scaring people away?

My failed approach has been - I'm bummed. Can you help me out? Nada!

What do the rest of you do?

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I'm the president. I don't need to listen.

MSG

Thursday, June 15, 2006 5:35 PM

Copilot- have you tried a simple gloss...or try Nars lip gloss in orgasm. It's a nice pale peachy pink barely there thing...that is if you want to wear make-up and all. If you don't, then do what looks good for you:)

Mal4 prez- maybe they are so used to you taking care of them that they don't know how to take care of you. Try asking for what you want. Say hey guys could use some support can everyone email me and shut up and be supportive.
You're only young once, but you can be immature any time!

TRISTAN

Thursday, June 15, 2006 5:36 PM

Mal4Prez, whenever you need a lift, and we can help, come to us! There is a guarantee that someone on this board will be in a good mood and can help out.

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NVGHOSTRIDER

Thursday, June 15, 2006 5:38 PM

FMF Look out for yourself. Try an easy one first, but make sure you can get rid of him as soon as something great come along. An ego builder. It may take awile to find someone truly worthwhile. I suggest building a small circle of friends who can point you in the right direction. I'm just talking out my ass so whoever feels like roughing me up, feel free to do so.
As for the dressing up/ demenor preferance of a woman. I like 50/50. Some one clean who likes to dress up on occasion. Likes some, but not all the things I like and doesn't mind getting dirty. Basically a woman who can do the hiking and gardening and watering but cleans up all shiny. Love the dirty girls who clean up nice!

Jayne: I was gonna get me an ear too.

MAL4PREZ

Thursday, June 15, 2006 5:45 PM

Quote:
Originally posted by Tristan:
Mal4Prez, whenever you need a lift, and we can help, come to us! There is a guarantee that someone on this board will be in a good mood and can help out.

Thanks Tristan! It was one of those silly things when I was overreacting to a situation, just needed some coaxing through it.

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I'm the president. I don't need to listen.

ZEEK

Thursday, June 15, 2006 5:50 PM

I really never thought about masturbation with a SO. Do women really need a road map about guys down there? I thought we were pretty straight forward.

Dressed up or not: Well thing is the dressed up version is just so hot it's not even funny. However, I think it's only good when it's the exception instead of the rule. I'm perfectly happy with my girl being in jeans and a t-shirt or sweatpants or whatever. If I'm just girl watching though all dressed up is the way to go.

And for a few topics back I'm circumsized and I don't have any complaints.

FUTUREMRSFILLION

Thursday, June 15, 2006 5:52 PM

I have the same problem. Especially with the crap I am in now. My friends can't really deal so they respond to the happy stuff - not the bad.

Truthfully, I come here. I post in the logs. There is such kindness and love here that someone NEVER fails to say EXACTLY what I need to hear.

:) You need someone to vent to - try me tracyrgibson@gmail.com :)

Thats for all ya'll!

I am on The List. We are The Forsaken and we aim to burn!
"We don't fear the reaper"

MAL4PREZ

Thursday, June 15, 2006 5:58 PM

Thansk FMF, and MSG!

Look at me, I'm getting all teary-eyed. Guess it was bothering me more than I thought!

All right, I'm going out for coffee and some hard core science talking. That always works to numb the emotional state.

Edit: meant to say, MSG - I think you nailed it on the head. People really get thrown when they see a strong person being not so strong. I still haven't found a way to deal.

Guess I'll stick with the internet - the place to let one's weak flag fly. (Ok, that was really lame...)

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I'm the president. I don't need to listen.

NVGHOSTRIDER

Thursday, June 15, 2006 6:00 PM

Oh M4P, just dump on us all of your sorrows and frustrations. All will listen. Besides, when I get that feeling it seems that no one is listening until it is really needed. Just seems funny that messages are answered quicker by folks that want something return. So, uh M4P, got any money I could bum?

Nothing is cooler than a chick that don't need makeup. Not only do you not have to wait while she puts her face on, it don't get all rubbed off during happy time. Nothing says "I just slept with someone" like makeup imprints on clothes. That and some women insist on limiting the amont of touch because of the time it took them to gussy themselves up. "Don't touch my face" and "Don't you be pullin' my hair". Where's the fun in that?

Mal: Bwah.

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